My Relations~~~

[Jack123Participant 324]

I’m a 32 year old guy who has been in 4 relationships for periods of 1 to 2 years in length.
This topic is dedicated to a girl I met on tinder two years ago, someone I KNEW was the love of my life, someone I wanted to be with forever. She was the type of girl you would be proud to show off to your friends, take home to mum and dad and invite to your grandmother’s house for tea. The sex was frequent and wild. We talked, cuddled and laughed till 3 am and then we would wake up and do the same the next day. I was hopelessly in love and it consumed my mind body and soul.

We couldn’t get enough of each other and so, 6 months into the relationship, I moved into her 1 bedroom apartment where we could be together more frequently. It was around this time that she was made redundant at work and the sweet, beautiful girl I knew fell hard on her face. The damage was extensive, she lost the capacity to communicate with me. The love which dripped like honey turned to stubborn resentment, thick like tar. Her beautiful words turned to grating abuse “You’re a pig, you never clean up, you never do anything for me, you should never have moved in with me, my life has only gotten worse since meeting you, f~~~ you!”

I could walk around the apartment and point to $3,000 worth of gifts which I had bought her, where in return I received only a pair of socks, for my birthday. I was the only one who shopped, cleaned and cooked. I would spend my weekday nights and entire weekends writing job applications for her, I often did this during my working hours in my office as well. Her depression and resentment for me only grew by the day. I was forced to sleep on the small couch, despite me paying for half the rent.

During the months that she was unemployed, I would spend my day at the office writing her job applications, swing by the shops for the groceries, come home and clean the sink from the dirty dishes which had been left by her from her breakfast and lunch whilst she spent the day watching TV. Then I would empty the dishwasher, prepare the dinner, provide her with emotional support as she cried and abused me and then I would ask for permission to excuse myself and clean up as she talked my ear off. The worst part was when I was exhausted at 11pm and would just need to go to the bathroom to brush my teeth for 3 mins, she would push me aside and run in as she screamed at me to let her use the bathroom first. She would then slam the door and spend no less than an hour in the bathroom removing her caked on makeup and squeezing the pus out of the pimples on her face.

I began developing migraines at exactly 7pm when it was time to leave the office. The sex slowed down to twice a month and I recall when we did do it, she would tell me to do it quickly to get it over with. The pounds piled on, 15 in total. She would swallow chocolate cakes like they were maltesers. I stopped seeing my friends, stopped going to the gym and developed severe depression. I started seeing a psychiatrist and regularly called a free counselling service. I was keeping my abusive girlfriend my deep dark secret as a way to protect her.

The day finally came 1.5 years into the relationship, where my brother called me one Sunday night and casually asked me how I was. I paused and then broke down crying. I told him what was going on and he immediately jumped in his car and extracted me from her apartment, army commando style. I was out, I was free but I was not happy.

A couple of weeks went by and I really missed her, I wanted that sweet girl who I fell in love with. I contacted her and we began talking again. She told me that she didn’t want to get back together but she said we should take a break for us to both get some air. It was at this time that she said it was a good idea to see other people. I agreed to this and I jumped back on tinder and found a smoking hot girl who started talking dirty to me. We exchanged phone numbers and we agreed to meet up. On the night that I was to meet my new tinder date, I bumped into my ex-gf and she told me that she loved me and she even invited me to spend the night with her. I told her I had to go and meet a friend and got the f~~~ away from her. I then told the tinder date that we had to change locations of the meet up and I then waited for her. The tinder date made me wait an hour… and then she showed up. The new tinder date was my psychotic ex-gf who had set up a fake facebook account, fake tinder account and even bought a new sim card so that her number changed.

I was traumatised by the manipulation and pure evil of the set up. I left the bar in a daze and I wanted to throw myself under a passing bus. For 2 weeks, we didn’t talk… and then I contacted her to attempt to start fresh again.

We met up and ended up sleeping together. I was curious about who I was dating so I asked her about her past life. She told me that 1 month before she met me, she was f~~~ing her married boss in the office toilet for a total of 1.5 years. The married boss also had children. The sex was without a condom despite her knowledge that he was sleeping with everyone from the office. She then explained that she was the regular whore which provided him toilet sex (and anal sex) up to 3 times per week and even invited him back to her place to f~~~ in her bed. The affair only ended when he had to move overseas. She then proceeded to tell me about her other sexual endeavors with other men, too many to count. She also confessed that she had been reading my e-mails, facebook and phone almost everyday.I swallowed my pain and stayed with her for a further 6 months.

She is about to be fired from her current job because she is completely useless and her boss hates her. It is obvious that she can only keep a job if she is blowing and bending over for the boss in the toilet. The last straw was when I invited her out for a drink and she hung up on me and deleted me from her facebook. I picked up my remaining property from her house and got the f~~~ out. It’s been 2 weeks since we’ve been in contact and I couldn’t be HAPPIER.

MGTOW for life gentlemen

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Wow!

I am completely at a loss for words. I have experienced things like this as a young man but only on the micro scale.

What you just shared in some next level mind f~~~ery.

All I can say is welcome to MGTOW. It’s a safe harbor. Drop anchor and provision yourself with truth and camaraderie.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[CaliParticipant 753]

Dude, you made the right choice to get the heck out of there!
Welcome, and may your path be easier henceforth.

I believe this song is a variation of what you’re saying: It All Comes Down to You

Anyways, take care you don’t fall into the trap again! These days, you are only a resource to be drained in the eyes of so many women. Remember: “Her lips may be sweet as honey, but in the end, she is bitter as gall, and sharp as a double-edged sword”

Peace, dude.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[AttonParticipant]

Yeah I would suggest getting an STD test like immediately.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 24]

Firstly, I really like your profile picture. It is the only show I watch currently of any kind that is on T.V. Last Man on Earth is the best friggin show in many friggin years.

Secondly, reading this post was like reading about a man who could not stop punching himself in the face. You would have been Fight Club champ. All I gotta say is I hope you learned your lesson. Out of all my relations~~~s I can only count two that were anywhere near as bad as what you just described. I guess you didn’t suffer the horrors of finding out you were a super chump at least. I once had an x who cheated so much it was crazy. When I found out about it I just walked away without a word and never talked to her again. I met a guy a few years back who was not so lucky. When he found out about it he tore apart the apartment he was still living in with the girlfriend so badly that he went to jail and got a felony for it.

Hold the ball tight to your body with one hand and keep the Heisman stiff arm to the face with the other next time. Women are not worth the trouble for the most part.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

I want to buy your brother a beer.

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

Glad you made it out at last!

[Jack123Participant 324]

I’ll also add that when I learnt that she was the office toilet whore I went green and collapsed to the floor with pain. She acted confused and asked if I was upset because I was jealous that the married guy was on a higher salary then me.

She also wrote to me 6 months ago at the time of our first break up and said that the biggest thing she regrets about the relationship was that I didn’t buy her an apartment and put her name on title.

It’s good to vent, it’s good to be out of ther. Thanks for the support.

[Sovereign SoulParticipant 47]

Wow. And just think, the next guy she settles down with will never know about any of it either. She’ll be his perfect little angel…until she’s not. Just be happy you didn’t find this all out after marrying her I suppose.

Breathe in the freedom and focus on the only person that really matters: you.

[Symmetric MGTOWParticipant 570]

Holy s~~~

Now that’s a psychopathic c~~~.

Glad you got out and are safe now.

Welcome brother.

[MemberParticipant 323]

That is so well written and so completely insane that its hard to believe. You don’t write movie scripts for Hollywood do you?

[Jack123Participant 324]

Member wrote:

That is so well written and so completely insane that its hard to believe. You don’t write movie scripts for Hollywood do you?

Thank you brothers for your support. Everything I have written is true. I wish to add to the story.

She was stingy, possibly the worst I’ve ever seen. We were given a joint Christmas gift of $200 from her parents, When she wasn’t looking, I saw money was left in a Christmas card and addressed to both of us. I left the room and came back and she proudly showed me an empty Christmas card and told me that her parents gave us their warm wishes for Christmas. She pocketed the cash for herself.

We didn’t have a car and so, she would demand that I hire a share car to drive her wherever she wanted to go. If I hesitated in the slightest at her request for chauffeur service, she would have a psychotic episode. I paid for the hire costs exclusively out of my own pocket. I drove this bitch around to every location she wanted for 2 years straight.

In the months that we were broken up, she signed up for her own account to the share car service. After we reunited, she hired the car one day from her own account. On this day, I needed to be be at a location which was 2 minutes from the destination she was driving to, and so I asked her for a lift. She had an apoplectic fit and accused me of being a ‘freeloader’.

On another occasion, we planned a night together and so I arranged a car for 7PM. The time was 6:50 and it would take 10 mins to get ready and walk to the car. She screamed at me and called me a tightass because I didn’t pay for the extra hour and book the car at 6:00PM. She then went on a rant about how she cares more about time than money and how tight I am. I reminded her that she had an account and she was welcome to book the car and pay for the entire cost herself, inclusive of the extra hour. She flew into a darker rage.

One more story for now…. After I had moved my stuff out, she would invite me to come over (with groceries) to cook and clean for her and sleep on the couch. I never fully moved back in there after the first break up, but I did spend some weekends there. After the first or second weekend of our reconciliation, she launches this comment at me, “You’ve been taking full advantage of me and I want you to give me money for the nights that you sleep over.”

I conducted a survey among my friends, co-workers, family and google and the result was conclusive:- you shouldn’t have to pay someone else’s rent when you have been invited over and you don’t live there. I then told her that if she wanted money for each night I was invited to sleep on the couch, I would never return to her place ever again. She retracted her request for money. I was pretty upset at this point and I asked her if her married boss had to pay for the nights he stayed over to f~~~ her. The married boss got a free pass, but I, her boyfriend of 2 years who did everything for her, was accused of taking advantage of her.

[Sessna12Participant 119]

Glad you have re written the ending to what was a horror flick. Welcome aboard!
Sebastian

"We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
-Sidecar

[FuckMeSpectator 215]

Welcome Jack…thanks for taking the time to share your strength and courage…you stated “someone I KNEW was the love of my life, someone I wanted to be with forever”. It sounded like you would be going down hard right there brother, you are free, stay that way. Now, coming from this guy who has never married a Caucasian American born woman but has been in relations~~~s with a bunch of them, and f~~~ed their brains out and never got one pregnant, I personally have NEVER met one I wanted to be with for very long. Perhaps it is my own born in MGTOW compass I don’t know but ALL these crazy f~~~ing sluts, whores, and bitches just aren’t worth more then sex and even THAT is VERY risky and we pay the price as we know…committing to one would be equivalent to taking a gun and shooting myself in the foot, then strapping myself in a straight jacket, then drugging myself up with a handful of OXY and banging some heroin, then giving away everything I own to a stranger, then calling the police and BEGGING them to beat me up and take me to jail then begging them to let me out, then hitching a ride with a DRUNK raging alcoholic who loves to speed and letting him drive me across the country, then requesting that he drop me off in the middle of the Mojave on an abandoned road with no water, then walking out into the middle of no where, then finding a nice rock to sit on and get myself comfortable, and telling myself that everything is FINE!!!! GO BIG, GO MGTOW, OR GO THE F~~~ HOME!!! <Oh you don’t have a house, the bank, “your” wife, “your” kids, “your” boss, and the police have “your” house> 🙂

You think Chernobyl was bad? Wait until the ink drys on that marriage contract you just signed...we know, you just wanted sex and fun...you could have gotten that for $100.00 a couple times a month instead of DESTROYING your life!!!

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

Man that twist at the end of her making a fake tinder account is f~~~ing insane. Literally the definition of a crazy person.

[MalfunctionNeedInputParticipant 257]

Holy f~~~ man…good thing you got out of that s~~~ty toxic thing people call a relationship. That’s torture, obviously it took its toll on you. Damn. Good on you for finally moving on and that nothing worse happened like a pregnancy or some s~~~.

Welcome.

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

[Jack123Participant 324]

Hello brothers,

I write from a beachside resort where I’ve enjoyed the best week of my life. In the month leading up to the breakup my office toilet slut of an ex gf wanted to come with me. I ditched her ass and traveled ALONE. Best decision ever.

I found myself thinking of her at times during my holiday. The thoughts were married with anger. I understand that this is part of the grieving process and it will pass with time.

MGTOW has opened my eyes and I found myself more relaxed and happier. I no longer feel the need to chase the dragon. That said, I’ve had many interactions with women since my breakup. All experiences have been great despite many of them behaving atrociously.

Understanding their nature with zero need or expectations is the key to a good experience with the.

[Anonymous 18]

Brother. To the untrained eye it may seem like you were too desperate for affection. And would bear any humiliation to get that. But men here know better. I was in a VERY similar situation for about 7 months in total. But your intro took me back and when you mentioned swallowing that pain from her slutty past, it is still quite uncomfortable and hard not to punish myself for ever letting a slut in my own life.

Someone, somewhere men have been made replaceable by the feminist institutions. It’s like we can crave love and affection and would let ourselves get attached to the most toxic of women out there.

Your experience speaks volumes to me. And I am very confident that you would never see a woman with the same eyes again. It may be harsh but most reasonable men don’t get bit twice.

Now the irony of the entire experience is that the tough shell attracts sluts/nonsluts like honeybees. Once you gain indifference it breeds insecurity in women around you like the yeast infections in their vjayjays. Man, its such a satisfying feeling not giving a f~~~. I’d even risk saying it’s worth the s~~~ experience.

Welcome brother.

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