Hi brothers.
I was introduced to the MGTOW movement thanks to Youtube and Tom Leykis about a year and a half ago. And to be honest it was after a break up. However, now I am thank full that it happened that way. I am not going to lie, it hurt. But it was only one time and I am going to explain what happened so it can help some one in the future. I am not going back to the plantation. I took my time to see if this was going to be long lasting for me and now I feel that I am not here just because my bad experience but because I really share the core values of MGTOW.
I will start by giving some history about my life journey and my relationships with the opposite sex.
Growing up I was not very interested in girls at all. I always was interested in video games and sports. I mostly ignored girls for most of the time. However, my friends considered me and even considered myself a lucky guy with girls. I did not have many girlfriends but the some I have were considered hot. I just dated them for some time until I got bored and when back to my guy friends, video games and sports.
That was moth of my life with girls until I met this one girl. We met at high school, she was bout 17 and I was about to turn 19 we become friends at my last year at high school. I started college and got my first car, she became more interested in me. I started dating her but nothing serious. She was the typical girl who spend her boyfriend’s money. I did not care she was hot and I got what I want at the end of the day. The problem started when I started to get emotions involved. I was about 1 year into the relationship when I started to go crazy for this girl and she grabbed me by the b~~~~. I spend other two years with her until she said that she was to move to other state with her mom if I did not marry her. In the begging I did not believe it. However, later on I found that her mom who was in her late 30s had a ex-boyfriend in that state and she wanted to get back with him. I did not got marry to her because I wanted to finish college and I wanted to do something out of my life. She left some months after. And some weeks after she found out that her mom was sleeping with this guy who was married and have kids. Days after she got in a fight with her mom and left her house and went to live by herself. I was constantly calling her and I even when visit her for two month on winter break. (bot of them worked as cow milkers because they are illegal.) I went to that horrible place and I fixed her passport with my money. I came back to my home thinking in getting marry to her as soonest possible and take her out of that situation. However, only 4 week I came back from visiting her she broke up with me via skype. I asked her why and she said it was because she did not loved me anymore and that she was scare to get married to me. So, I left her along of a week texting her from time to time. However, I was just finishing my exams and visit her. However, the night before my fly to that place I saw another guys facebook profile, one of her new friends. He had a picture of her with him in his profile picture. That really destroyed me. I met the guy went I visited her. He was 33 and was married but her wife was leaving him because he was a drinker and used drugs. He also had other family in his home country. For me, it was impossible that young beautiful girlfriend will leave me for that illegal trash ( I was a idiot). Move on, I texted her and let her know what were my plants. I sent her screen shots of the plane tickets and the ring I bought just the day before she broke up with me. I did not wait for her answer and I blocked her from all my social media and I erased all her pictures and also I put every thing I had of her in the trash. I took me about six months to let it go. Then I started to listen Tom Leykis and follow Sandman, Bar Bar and others. I started to become the best version of myself. I still have relationships with women but I mostly I use them for sex. I still enjoy the company of beautiful women and I enjoy the sex. I do not what happen to this girl. I never look back.
That is my introduction brother. Thank you for opening this forum and for sharing your experiences. I learn a lot form all of you. Thanks!!
LeoYourKing 3 years, 2 months ago.
