My Realization that some women care more for sex than men

[BigTL13Participant 89]

This is a story that took place last year, when my last relationship ended. I was dating this girl and we had gone on a few date. About two months in, she and I were talking while we were grabbing some lunch. She wouldn’t stop talking about the same thing. The same sentences, repeated over and over. “Hey, Your so tall and handsome” “I love your darker olive complexion”. It was so weird, we had been dating for two months. I then heard later that week from a mutual acquaintance that my current Girlfriend was “Disappointed that I wasn’t more forward in looking for action” or something like that. At the time, I had a different moral compass and preferred to go for six months before sex. We broke up the following week (She initiated it). It was a bit of a Culture shock, I never knew a girl could be so shallow. I know better now, but seriously, they spent all this time in my schooling imprinting me with this idea that men only cared about sex, and women were angels. Anyone else had an experience like this?

Get the Fuck Up, Brush yourself off, and stand against the current

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

The good news is that girls go for you. At least this one did, congratulations, The bad news, if you will, is that your upbringing with regard to women was s~~~. On average, females are just as into sex as men and possibly more so.

If you insist on waiting six months to make a move on a female, she’s going to assume you’re either disinterested or gay and she’s going to give up…. and, if you’re really good looking, maybe suffer psychological damage from feeling rejected.

[Everything is all we’ve gotParticipant 233]

I’ve been well aware girls are obsessed with sex since high school, my female friends would talk constantly about dicks, wanting to ride dicks, their new dildos, more dicks, celebrity dicks etc etc.

Yet still tried to maintain that air of innocence despite this…

"You can suffer from a life experience, or you can learn, move on and thrive."

[BigTL13Participant 89]

The six months thing for me was about trust, mostly testing loyalty, I was still pretty blue pill at the time in question

Get the Fuck Up, Brush yourself off, and stand against the current

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

BigTL13 wrote:

me was about trust, mostly testing loyalty

Women dont possess any of these traits,trust or loyalty. You were lied to,take it as a lesson learned and adjust accordingly.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Anonymous 18]

BigTL13 wrote:

“Disappointed that I wasn’t more forward in looking for action”

Nothing to do my friend. Sex was only secondary, even if. She complimented you and expected you to drool, you didn’t.

Sour grapes, she moves on.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

Women dont possess any of these traits,trust or loyalty.

You can trust a female to be loyal to her own desire for attention, free s~~~ and a good time without consequences. So long as you’re able to accept one on these terms, you will never be disappointed,

[Anonymous 3]

Women are just one big s~~~ test when it comes to sex. They love sex but also love to use sex to control you. It’s some sort of sick fantasy for them. They want you to want sex so much and then they withhold it and act all innocent.

It’s like the same s~~~ they pull when they put on all the makeup and stuff when they go to clubs, just to reject guys.

In layman’s terms, they’re just f~~~ing retarded.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

BigTL13 wrote:

they spent all this time in my schooling imprinting me with this idea that men only cared about sex, and women were angels

It’s the oldest myth running. “men only only care about sex”. And it’s always spoken by a woman who isn’t good for much else.

I was floored when I saw the shopping scene from the Disney movie “Enchanted”. A six year old girl says to the princess “you know… men only want one thing”. The princess leans in and asks “what’s that?”…. and the little girl says “I don’t know. Nobody will tell me”.

Indoctrinated with that stupid untrue s~~~ in their heads since they are SIX.

But if “men only want one thing”…. isn’t that still better than wanting a THOUSAND things? Or nothing to do with her at all?? Because those are the other options. It sure as f~~~ is superior to the unending list of bulls~~~ women want from men they haven’t even MET yet.

••••••••

“Men only want one thing”. Welll what the f~~~ ELSE should he want from a woman he doesn’t even know???? That “one thing” is what nature designed and nobody gets to have a problem with it. If a woman wants him to want her for anything else…. that’s not up to HIM. That’s up to HER.

Women have no concept of the f~~~ing lies that have been stuffed into their heads. If a man leaves her after that “one thing” then he has determined she isn’t good for much else. A reality she will simply refuse to accept. “Men only want sex” is what she brainwashes herself with. The truth would make her head explode.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 3]

Yeah, they just don’t get it. I remember this one girl that I was with years ago. We’ve been talking for a long while so we weren’t exactly strangers. She plays hard to get and tells me she isn’t going to sleep with me on the first night coming over, because she needs time and all that nonsense. I flipped the script on her and said “That’s great, I’ll just go jerk off as usual and go to sleep. It is indeed inappropriate after all, you’re right. I need time as well.” And then all of a sudden now, she says maybe she can “help me out” lol. I thought to myself, okay so it’s not about you needing time, you just want to control when I get to ejaculate, why couldn’t you just come out and say that instead? I would much rather deal with it from this angle than firing s~~~ tests back and forth. Of course, nowadays I don’t deal with any of it.

That’s why women can’t stand it if the guy genuinely doesn’t want sex, because the control slips away. They just want the perfect puppy that wants sex all the time but puts up with their teases and rejections. They want to control when you get to get off.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

The control issue is out of control. Here’s an “open letter to my wife” read by Tom Leykis on the air – from a man to his wife who started withholding sex for power and control – on their HONEYMOON. She didn’t even have the decency to wait a week.
/audio/women-who-use-sex-as-a-bargaining-tool/

I was out on a date and it was definitely “ON” until she tried the “OK but no sex” thing. She says “I really like you and would prefer to wait”.

“Oh I see. Have you ever had a one-night stand before?”

“LOL of course! But those were all mistakes.”
(every woman who has will tell you that she has)

“No. The MISTAKE is sleeping with guys you don’t like, and withholding it from guys you DO like. That’s totally ass backwards. If you didn’t make THEM wait…. what males you think I would? What are you doing sleeping with the mistakes? ”

I would rather be “the mistake” than the sucker who makes the mistake of allowing her to keep ME at arms length. Because I already know if she gets away with that before the wedding….. it will be “fix the bathroom tiles or there will be no nookie for you tonight” — for the next 40 years. F~~~ that. Women already made up their minds to f~~~ you (or not) within the first 5 minutes. She doesn’t need to sit through 10 dinners to “decide”.

Women are FAAAR more sexual than men.
They would go all night if they could get their way.

And then in a “relationship” they want you to care about their orgasm. Well you didn’t give a s~~~ about MY orgasm on the 1ST or 3rd date, didja? So why the f~~~ would I care about yours now. Because “yes means yes”? Go f~~~ yourself.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[qeeqoParticipant 1168]

I think the word “some” is a completely inadequate qualifier. It’s simple biology. Women have multiple orgasms and 8000 nerve endings in the clit as opposed to 4000 in the penis. This could account for why so much of female politics is centered around sex, and making sure there are no restrictions on any form or the consequences there of. Most of my sexual encounters were initiated by a woman. My most recent was offered by the 3rd sentence of a conversation. Turning them down is fun, it brings out the lunatic. I don’t want oxytocin in the mix to f~~~ things up further. With the exception of a 9 month run a little over a decade ago, I’ve been celibate for 14 years, and find that rubbing one out to porn accomplishes the same thing without any of the ensuing lunacy.

I just ended a 3 week facebook chat with a much younger gal who approached me, not only did she bring up sex immediately but wouldn’t let it drop until I told her to drop it. The whole conversation went into decline from there. She did admit to me that women talk about sex way more than men do. I told her I could count the number of chicks I’d been with on 2 hands. She said, as far as how many men I’ve been with, “You don’t even want to go there with me”. I think that pretty much sums it up.

I work with all females. The 3 of them tonight in report were fixated on talking about one female playing with another’s boobs. It’s like I’m not there. I was thinking about what would have happened had I brought the subject up.

I was told that we older dudes who were raised in a more conservative time would be shocked at how loose and unfaithful women really are today.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

I can relate BigTL. When I was 19 (Now I am 47) I liked a 24 year old single mom. ( I know, I was such a Mangina/White Night back then) We went out and my intention was to get to know her better and just have fun. She had her own place as well and hired a baby sitter while we went out. We got back to her place and made out before I went home. I thought our first date had gone well. She never went out with me again. I was disappointed and couldn’t figure out what I did wrong. I was considerate and a true gentleman. One of her friends saw me about 6 months later and told me that she said that I was a loser because I didn’t try to have sex with her. I was totally confused now because I thought expecting sex on the first date was a bad thing. Now that I am older and wiser, I realize that sex is just as important to women as men for two reasons; 1 they want it just as much as we do. It’s nature at work. 2. Sex is power to women. Their whole life and self worth relies on their ability to use it to manipulate men into doing whatever they need done at the time. If that ability gets crippled or taken away, they are clueless as to what to do or how to do it.
Like you, I believed from a very young age that sex was strictly a quest for men to conquer and that women took part into it strictly for the man’s sake and that they didn’t really even think about it.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Author]

Posts