My parents knows I'm MGTOW

[RedpillPrimateParticipant 1026]

They don’t know the term, but they know I live the lifestyle a MGTOW would live.

I’m very blunt with my political/theological beliefs if people ever ask me my thoughts on different subjects.

I simply don’t give a s~~~ if people know what my stances are.

Ever since I was little, I’ve always rejected the idea of having kids. I’ve also been against the idea of marriage.

Just recently, my parents brought up the subject of marriage.

I told them outright that “I’ll never get married, and I’ll most likely never date because I don’t want to make compromises in a relationship. It’s either my way or no way. I just want to focus on my career and paying off my student loans.”

They just gave me the typical blue pill response: “Well, you’re still young, you don’t know if you’re going to change your mind when you get older, blah, blah, blah.”

I simply ignored that comment as I was going out to get something to eat.

It feels great not giving a f~~~ about the opinions of blue pill retards. I love my parents, but they are blue pill retards.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Huh, sounds like me. When I was a teenager (I think I was 14 or 15), I was sitting in the living room with mom and we were just talking things. The usual: school, social life, the life I expected to lead, etc. We then came to the topic of marriage and I simply said that life isn’t for me, saying:
– I don’t want to live with someone else *
– I don’t want to have children **
– I am a free man

She also responded with the “you’re still young, you’ll change when you’re in your twenties or early thirties”-stuff, but I just shook my head. Fast forward had 2 gf’s ***, always lived alone and felt glad I had my own place for ME, designed and furnished to my likings. I now am 32 and live on my own. This entire apartment is my man-cave.

* 1 I have lived with flatmates because I was low on money and it was better to split all bills. Besides, it made me experience the student life somewhat, even though I worked and they were students. I lived with a real asshole (who worked), with two awesome guys (students) and with a landlady (landwhale, more like) and a student over the years before I got my own place.

* 2 “Living with someone else”, ahhh, that takes me back to something my mom told me and my younger brother on the topic of girlfriends. Mom to brother “oh, you’ll find a girlfriend some day, don’t worry”, then turned to me and added “and there’s SOMEONE for you as well”. Yeah, thanks for thinking I’m gay, mom. The fact that I was the least popular kid in school/town surely had nothing to do with me not bringing home a girl, right?

** Because I was bullied from age 8 to 16, I hate children of both genders. Sorry mom and dad, but you’ll not have grandchildren from my loins. Hell, maybe they won’t have grandchildren at all since my brother and his gf never seem to talk about it and they’re both pretty focused on their work.

*** The first gf, after being in a relations~~~ for +/- 2 years, bought her own house in a town close to where we lived with our parents and simply excpected me to move in with her. Nope. Didn’t even help her furnishing the place, from tearing down old wallpaper and painting to going to stores to shop for couches and stuff. The fun this is that we used to have other ideas:
– I always wanted to go back to the eastern part of the country (we lived in the southwest) because I love it here, she agreed on that, saying she wouldn’t miss anyone in the southwest.
– A year later, and we would compromise, maybe moving in together in the middle of the country so we’d have a one-and-a-half hour drive max. to visit family and friends. Fine with me.
– Another year later and out of the blue BOOM! She buys that house in the southwest town. It was her way or the highway and I waved goodbye.

— I’m really sorry if this seems like a topic hijack, I just had to pitch in, brother! —

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Anonymous 42]

Mine know I’m MGTOW, my dad is cool with it, he also rolls his eyes at all the s~~~, and my mom just gets steamrolled over and over as I hammer her with he truth. She’s starting to see all the wreckage as I point it out to her, but it took 20 years and lots of carnage all around us over those years. They can’t say s~~~ with so many bloated dead bodies floating about…

[RedpillPrimateParticipant 1026]

Nerevar wrote:

She also responded with the “you’re still young, you’ll change when you’re in your twenties or early thirties”-stuff, but I just shook my head. Fast forward had 2 gf’s ***, always lived alone and felt glad I had my own place for ME, designed and furnished to my likings. I now am 32 and live on my own. This entire apartment is my man-cave.

Haha, that’ll be me when I turn 32. Minus the 2 girlfriends. If I ever buy a house, that entire space will be mine alone. No matter how big it is.

Anonymous wrote:

Mine know I’m MGTOW, my dad is cool with it, he also rolls his eyes at all the s~~~, and my mom just gets steamrolled over and over as I hammer her with he truth.

I hammer both of my parents with the truth any time they nag me about marriage/kids. But, I know you can never reason with blue pill men or women. However, I always love the look they give me whenever I give them red pill knowledge. It’s hilarious to say the least.

[CaliParticipant 753]

My parents both know I’m not interested in getting married. My dad is pretty ok with it, although I would consider him quite the mangina (he loves to stop to talk to pretty women, sometimes to the point of being creepy). My mom is a therapist (I’d say she’s the good kind, in that she really does care about people, and truly wants to help them. In fact, she is the closest thing to a unicorn I’ve ever witnessed), and she says she understands why I don’t want to date or get married, but I’m pretty sure she’s still in the “oh, he’s young, and he just hasn’t gotten to know many girls yet. He’ll change his mind…” phase.

My brother is rather purple pill. I’ve successfully shown him some red-pill media, and he seems to take a liking to it, but he often expresses his opinion that I’m a misogynist (I’m not, but I do hate hypocrisy, double standards, and injustice), and he has repeatedly attempted code-purple shaming (basically saying I’m just bitter because I can’t get a date), and he has often tried to call me out on my stances around others. Screw that. I’m going stealth around him. I’m not going to risk getting shamed by every blue piller that thinks they know why I don’t want to get married just because my brother made a joke about me.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[CaliParticipant 753]

Also, I never plan on revealing the name of my beliefs, just because I know that a huge stigma comes with identifying as MGTOW.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[the roadParticipant 3125]

My parents don’t know and I personally don’t care if they do or not. I’m in my late 30s, I pretty much had no chance of getting married anymore anyway, even if I wasn’t red pill.

I’ve discussed some of the ideals of MGTOW with my mother but I didn’t specifically use the term MGTOW. When I discussed about how the laws are stacked against men and the way modern women are, she got deeply offended in a strange way that I haven’t seen in a long time. I said that there is no way I will allow a woman to come in and steal my resources from me and my son. She got offended and created some sort of weird strawman argument about how she is not like that. My reply was: “I didn’t say that you are like that. I’m not talking about you. I’m talking about the dating pool out there from my generation.”

I told her that most women didn’t work hard in school and now have dead end careers making no money, they want a man to take care of them, but they don’t want to do traditional house wife duties- they just want to work at their little s~~~ty easy jobs making $10 an hour and act like I should be worshiping them. They want to act like they are going to be in control of the home and be in charge of family activities etc but yet they aren’t the ones earning the lion share and therefore have no right to dictate policy to me. Almost every serious relationship I’ve had with women in the past was like this, except for some of the party girl floozies that I messed around with.

Her reply to my sentiments of loser women with s~~~ bag jobs was that I just need to find one that makes the same money as me and then I don’t have to worry about alimony. My reply was: hypergamy. I told her that women marry up, not the same or down. She got offended at that as well: “That’s not how I am.” And it’s true, that’s not how my mother is/was. But it’s a strawman arugment again. I told her that this has nothing to do with her. It’s how most women are though.

I told her about the grim divorce statistics and how the massive majority of women are the ones that initiate divorce. She didn’t like hearing all that stuff because it tugs at the strings of her belief system. As usual, people fight to protect their belief systems and are unwilling to challenge things that they’ve taken for granted for so long.

I discussed the problem with 3rd Wave feminism (or “post feminism” as I’ve started to call it) and how it has ruined the minds of women and men alike.

The majority of women I meet are spoiled brats that were raised to think that they are “woman, hear me roar” but also in the back of their heads they will still expect men to take care of them. It’s a strange blend of social constructs that has essentially led to an entire generation of self entitled loser women.

I think deep down she knows most of this to be true. She really wants to see to me get shacked up and have a traditional family and when she hears me talk about this stuff, she knows that it’s not going to happen and that really tugs at the strings of her belief system. It’s too late though, I had a child out of wedlock with a stupid woman that I share custody with. My situation will never translate to a traditional family. That’s just the way that it is.

In regard to my father. He’s sort of a MGTOW guy in the sense that he lives on his own and is pretty isolated from society. He doesn’t want to get married again but he does chat with women online. He just wants to live out the rest of his days with no stress and no bills. I’ve ranted about the way women are with him hundreds of times and he knows how it is. It’s like preaching to the choir.

With all of that said. No, my parents don’t know specifically that I’m MGTOW. But they know I’ve basically rejected the traditional values of old and that I am very strong willed. They know that I’m unwilling to let someone leach off of me. That’s close enough.

#MANOUT

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

RedpillPrimate wrote:

It feels great not giving a f~~~ about the opinions of blue pill retards. I love my parents, but they are blue pill retards.

While I understand why don’t agree with the idea of marriage, calling your parents “retards” because they mentioned it once is quite disrespectful, isn’t it? Especially since in your post you don’t mention anything (else) they might have done wrong to you. Bringing up something once is not nagging; it’s communication.

Maybe that’s not the case; maybe they do nag you; maybe they don’t treat you well. But you don’t say that, so how could we know that? If you just call them names without saying anything specific, you sound like a jerk.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[RedpillPrimateParticipant 1026]

xlrsnbrg wrote:

While I understand why don’t agree with the idea of marriage, calling your parents “retards” because they mentioned it once is quite disrespectful, isn’t it?

Well, they’re my parents, I can call them anything I want. When I have to deal with retarded blue pill bulls~~~ whenever I visit my family, I can’t help but call them “blue bill retards” every time I’m around them.

Thinking of them as blue pill retards in my head or calling them blue pill retards on a forum or outside of the internet is no different in my mind.

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