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Jeremiah Johnson 3 years, 9 months ago.
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This is a bit of a story, so please gents, bare with me, please…And let me know, am I right on the money, or WAY OFF BASE…
My father passed in February 2007…He worked for 30 years in the same open pit coal mine…I cannot speak to the exact number as she as kept all of it so quiet, I have been forced to pick up tiny puzzle pieces, and forced to make a picture not having all of the pieces…I have always been very close to my mother, as my father was an atrocious, abusive, monster…That said…From what I have gathered she gained a pretty hefty sum of money due to my fathers passing…I am guessing in the neighborhood of $350,000 to $500,000…There was nothing left for either my sister nor I, all too her…She wasted money in one mistaken adventure after another, bad investments that I warned her about prior to each loss, giving huge amounts of money to a contractor that screwed her over in an effort to make the house he also left her more valuable…Eventually she finally had the house finished, and was able too sell it for about $220,000…At which point she had moved into the home of a man that my father worked with…He had just lost his wife of 30 some years too cancer…He and his wife in her final year had built their beautiful log home on some 1200 acres in the black hills of Wyoming…My mother moved in just after the home was finished…He and his first wife have 3 children…
This all happened about two years after mt fathers death…Her new husband is as good of a man as I have ever met…We got along immediately…He is 100 x the man my father ever was too me, and I love the man as my own father at this point…I should note at this point he is suffering from Severe Parkinson’s disease…I have helped him in ways he never thought possible through cannabis and stem cell treatment….The cannabis within seconds of smoking nearly nullifies his shaking and the results are simply AMAZING…enough on that though…
After learning of what a windfall she receives from the death of a spouse, and now being nearly broke, she is terrified that if her current husband dies what will happen to her…You see his 3 children are to split all his land, his current home, his 4 bedroom home that he still owns while he lived in town and before he retired, and all his retirement savings…Leaving her totally out of his will, simply because she was not even in the picture when the will was written, and he has made it abundantly clear to his fear filled children, she is not getting anything, they are still to split everything between the three of them…Now all that being said, she has spent the last 4 years starting little dramatic fights, and doing her very best to spite each of his children each time they come to visit…Just this last saturday, she caused the largest fight yet, throwing an ENORMOUS dramatic crying and yelling event because she had to clean up after the grandchildren’s mess, and had some extra dishes in her sink, after spending the entire day in town getting her hair done and doing some personal shopping…She then calls me and starts screaming and crying about all of this unfairness with the mess, and the dishes, and how she told off the son and daughter so horribly bad, that they took their kids, and left the ranch late sat evening….And in this call totally expecting me to side with her, and too her surprise I did not, I said she was making a MOUNTAIN out of a mole hill, being dramatic, and then asked her what “special” plans she had that she couldn’t do a few extra chores that would not amount o more than an hour of her time for her and her husbands house guests, especially since they are family…she got made at me and hung up the phone…I just got a call now three days later, getting a tongue lashing from her new husband for not being more defending to her needs….
Now I see it so freaking clear, the three kids see it, everyone sees it now…She is dividing the family so badly, I believe in attempt to get him to eventually change his will to include her, if not, TOTALLY exclude all of his children…Now does this sound totally off base or am I onto her devious plan to ensure her devious attempt at gaining yet another HUGE financial windfall????
Please chime in…Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....
You’re spot on with your assessment. She wants his money and now tries to drive a big wedge between father and children. She made awful choices and now has to live with them. But she can’t. Because WOMAN.
I know she’s your mom and I wouldn’t be able to do it myself, but you have to tell her her luck has run out. Better work for her money now and get a small apartment somewhere if the man dies.
"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K
Anonymous24Things in life, especially in regards to people and their intentions and motives are usually not black or white, more often shades of gray. I do not know nearly as much about the whole situation as you do, but I would say if you have a hunch, it likely holds truth, to what degree I certainly could not say.
Anonymous5If my parent(s) died I would never expect any money nor any special favour. If I was in a relationship (marriage) I wouldn’t do it for money (yes that sad idea of true love). Its clear this person had from a young age the intent a relationship means profit. Not “eternal friendship” or someone you can always be around. No no f~~~ that when this guy dies am getting something out of it- pffft ! Next. Good post dude.
Anonymous54Maby there was a reason your Dad was an abusive monster. Not to excuse him,but maby he was full of rage for being treated the same way.I am from a family if coal miners.You come home from a day down there and get treated bad! Id be in a bad f~~~ing mood too.
I honestly don’t think her motivation is all that important, just the behavior. From what you said, she moved into his home, that he lived in for a long time. I do not see how she can behave as if it’s hers. My mother never remarried, but I can’t imagine a man marrying her, living in her house, and then getting upset at me and my kids for how we behaved in that house. It’s ridiculous.
Your scenario just highlights a problem I see with marriage, this idea that the title of ‘wife’ comes with the privilege to spend money that is not hers, dictate behavior in a house she did not financially contribute to, and deserve respect without earning it. All that s~~~ needs to be earned.
And your mom getting her new husband to call you up is ridiculous. He’s not your Dad, you owe him nothing. The incident had nothing to do with you, you have no obligation to participate in the slightest. Your opinion may have been good or bad, it’s irrelevant, but the thought that you need to side with your mother regardless is just stupid. Respect does not mean you lie to her.
And if the husband actually agrees with your Mom, then he can talk to his kids directly, no need to really get you or your mom involved really.
Ok. Then do it.
Understand, I never, nor do I now, ever expect anything from anyone…Especially money…I would never dream of profiting from the death of anyone, even my own father, arse that he was too me…That said, I was merely wondering if this is her plan, I know it is an awful thought to have of your own mother, but it is indeed the exact feeling I am getting as of late, and find it to be truly abhorrent in every single way…In my mind no one should “hope” to profit from anyone’s death, but I digress, as I have learned in these past few years I am extraordinarily naive….
Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....
I don’t get it. I thought that you said in your other posts that you live with your mom after you got screwed over by your ex girl friend with the alimony you have to pay and that you are getting some money because of a disability that you have. Now you are telling me that you mom has lived with her new husband at his house(probably at another state from where you live) for a while now and she called you up about this fighting incident. Anyways, if this story is true, I think that your mom is dividing everyone and she is also going to thrive on the fact that there is a lack of communication with everyone around her like you and you mom’s new husband for instance. You can tell that she is trying to not give people around her circle much of a chance to explain themselves to each other about why they are doing things to your mom also.
"Question everything" - Albert Einstein
You’re right on. She’s trying to cause drama between the dad and the kids in order to get him to put her in the will entirely and most likely remove the kids from the will.
Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius
My first thought was no. Because if I wanted in the will, I would make nice to everyone and hope that the kids had pity on an old lady that was very kind to everyone and they wouldn’t want to see her thrown out on the streets. Especially if she is there every day doting over my dad during the final, worst years of his life, dying with Parkinson’s.
Then I remembered that you are talking about a woman and realized that I have no f~~~ing clue what she’s thinking. But I agree with a few others above, if that’s what it feels like to you, there is probably some merit to it.
If she does have bad intentions, I find it interesting that the path of least resistance for her is to make people’s lives miserable, not to be nice. I really don’t understand what is so hard about being nice for a woman. Is she afraid that she might be nice for nothing? That they will kick her out at the end and she will have wasted that precious, limited resource in her heart? And shame on the husband if it works. I can’t imagine leaving what money I have when I die to anyone other than my daughters. Never happen in a million years. And I pity the bitch that tries to drive a wedge in between us.
And women wonder where the good men have gone….
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don’t get it. I thought that you said in your other posts that you live with your mom after you got screwed over by your ex girl friend with the alimony you have to pay and that you are getting some money because of a disability that you have. Now you are telling me that you mom has lived with her new husband at his house(probably at another state from where you live)
This is exactly the quandary I am in sir…My mother paid for the property I live on, just 1 mile down the road from where they both live now, on 8 1/2 acres in a very old run down line shack from 1900…Thank you so much for paying so much attention to my other posts, I sincerely appreciate it sir…But yeah, not with her, down the road from her, and she helps out with all my bills as I don’t qualify for any help from the state at all because my disability before child support is removed…Leaving me about $500 a month to live on…I should also add at this point she will not give me the deed for the property, she holds it, and I am constantly reminded of that fact in nearly every conversation….
Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....
don’t get it. I thought that you said in your other posts that you live with your mom after you got screwed over by your ex girl friend with the alimony you have to pay and that you are getting some money because of a disability that you have. Now you are telling me that you mom has lived with her new husband at his house(probably at another state from where you live)
This is exactly the quandary I am in sir…My mother paid for the property I live on, just 1 mile down the road from where they both live now, on 8 1/2 acres in a very old run down line shack from 1900…Thank you so much for paying so much attention to my other posts, I sincerely appreciate it sir…But yeah, not with her, down the road from her, and she helps out with all my bills as I don’t qualify for any help from the state at all because my disability before child support is removed…Leaving me about $500 a month to live on…I should also add at this point she will not give me the deed for the property, she holds it, and I am constantly reminded of that fact in nearly every conversation….
Thanks for clearing things up for me then.
"Question everything" - Albert Einstein
Anonymous42Now does this sound totally off base or am I onto her devious plan to ensure her devious attempt at gaining yet another HUGE financial windfall?
Jeremiah, it’s their nature, not some devious plan until hindsight, her past patterns will be her future patterns, the emotional tantrums do sound like a narcissistic nature, swaying me to believe she’s quivering form financial monkeyitus. She’s acting out instead of thanking her lucky stars she has a roof over her head. If he passes who’s gonna evict her from her husbands house? That roof is hers no matter what anyone says.
her past patterns will be her future patterns, the emotional tantrums do sound like a narcissistic nature
Nailed it brother, so f~~~ing nailed it…Her new husband is in constant pain, I am in constant pain, and just here recently after seeing how many people want to be helpful towards him and myself, she is constantly not getting the attention she feels she deserves…And out of the f~~~ing blue she has been complaining of terrible pain in her legs and back, so bad she cannot do anything, f~~~ing mind you, her husband now, and myself f~~~ing do s~~~ tons of chores, as we must to take care of property, she lays around oh me oh my, plying for any f~~~ing attention she can get, please help me I hurt so much…Just recently she has been to the Doc like 8 times, MRI’s, Blood tests, he cannot find a goddamned thing wrong with her, and it is my mindset that she is suffering from Munchhausen syndrome…It is total bulls~~~ and it p~~~es me off to f~~~ing end she is playing these gosh damned games…ugh…
Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....
The thing that hurts me the most here is, I have been self reliant since I moved out at the age of 16…Was roughnecking at my then girlfriends fathers oil company, and putting myself thru high school…Have always believed that hard work will always see you thru, and now that I cannot work, cannot drive, cannot pay my goddamned bills, and now having to rely on someone that humiliates me at every given chance, it takes away any desire to f~~~ing go on in every way shape and form…I have said it before, if it wasn’t for my two german shepherds I don’t think I would have even made it this far…I know though, if I can hold on just a couple more years, my daughter will be 18 in Dec 2018, then maybe after the child support raping is over, maybe I will have enough to make again on my own…But I will gosh damned if that doesn’t feel like a f~~~ing million years from now, ya know what I mean?????
Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....
Most mom’s are women, and as such are not exempt from being the same as every other woman.
Mother or not, they play the same games.
Sorry to hear. .
Anonymous5It may be different in the US but in Australia, and most probably UK, the spouse gets the vast bulk of the estate.
In Australia, and probably UK, this also extends to those who qualify as de facto or cohabitation relationships.People are gobsmacked when they find out it doesn’t matter one bit what the guy has written in his will.
Succession law is about provision for those who have a relationship of dependence with the deceased,,,and THEN adult children. Adult children come a very distant second. The spouse gets about 90% every time, regardless of the will.
AGAIN,,,,Wills are like pre-nups after a child has come into the picture,,,they basically get thrown out,,,and the spouse gets about 90%.You need/she needs to get some advice from a Succession law specialist (Or Inheritance Law in the US) because her behavior is definitely about alienating his children for the purposes of inheritance. Better still, do some googling.
You have to be careful for yourself and play your cards right.
The moment that guy dies, she could be “God”Alas, I know it is your mum but unfortunately there is no age limit on ‘rinsing’ [guys].
Your mother’s just engaged in a new, post-wall strategy to secure more resources for her retirement. She should accept that where there’s a will, there’s a relative.
#ManOut
Anonymous42^^^^^^
Alas, I know it is your mum but unfortunately there is no age limit on ‘rinsing’ [guys].
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Your mother’s just engaged in a new, post-wall strategy to secure more resources for her retirement. She should accept that where there’s a will, there’s a relative.
Anonymous3Take your mother to a lawyer, who should be able to explain to her that a husband can not refuse to give his wife anything on death, will or no will, as a spouse will always have an elective share. I think it’s at least a third or so.
Why are you worrying about that man’s children?
Your mother is your own blood, that man and his children are not. I thought this would be about your mother betraying you, but she didn’t do so, it sounds like you are betraying her.
Sorry, but something is wrong with you mentally. Blood should matter to you, absent some sort of abuse or other reason, which I do not see in your post above. This is the stupidity of the male, who will destroy his own bloodline to be “fair” to another, and clearly that other does not care about you.
Instead of making threads whining about how we should all give you free medical marijuana because you are disabled or something, and then you looking out for another man and his children, it’s time you started to man up and watch out for yourself.
Maybe you think I’m being harsh on you right now. But if you are being honest, you will thank me in a few years if you follow my advice. I don’t write my words to harm you, I write it for the very opposite, I like my MGTOW brothers and want the best for you. Good luck my friend.
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