My Offline MGTOW Friend

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Today was a good day. I have a friend and former classmate that is a mgtow and refers to himself by the term. Today we agreed to meet up and have an hour long conversation as we walked the trail at the local park.

What made this occasion so great is not only the fact I have a mgtow to talk to offline, but the improvement I am seeing in this man’s life. When I first met him, he had issues. He is a talented and sensitive man that faces an enormous amount of pressure and shaming tactics from parents and professors trying to tell him how to live and use his talent. He was a druggie and handled his negative emotions in other less than productive ways. His most obvious issue was anger. He had trouble controlling it and allowed his anger to control him. When I last spoke with him, he was new to mgtow and was feeling some serious red pill rage.All I could do was be a non judgemental listener and let him vent. I would assure him that it gets better. The rage is a phase that passes.

As I awaited his arrival at the park today, I didn’t know what to expect. Rage? A return to his blue pill ways? I had no idea what to expect and whatever he chooses, he is still my friend. What I found surprised me. The man is now more at peace than I have ever seen him. He is happy, productive, and invulnerable to the shaming tactics. He has no need for the rage. He is a man with a purpose and no family disapproval or woman is going to stop him from achieving the goals he has set for himself.

As we parted ways, a thought came to me: “I wish the guys online could have opportunities like this”. I really do. I’ve got a tear rolling down my cheek right now as I type this because I’m so damn happy for this guy. This mgtow philosophy does a man good and it is a shame so much of this has to be kept online. We occasionally get to see emails of gratitude here that Keymaster shares and the new menbers’ introductions are often inspiring, but to be able to see the change happen in front of your very eyes is something special.

Note: when I say I was surprised to see his change, I’m not downplaying the effect of mgtow on a man, but this particular man’s situation. All I am going to say is that it is complicated and I really didn’t know what to expect.

[Anonymous 54]

Man that’s great! That would be so cool. I know no one off line.I wish we could have a Mgtow clubhouse. Bikes park out front. Food, beer .

[AmongstMenParticipant 129]

Word. That’s awesome. One acquaintance I met at a gym was aware of the redpill and MGTOW. My friend randomly struck a convo with him (he’s redpill himself) and it led to convos of men being emasculated by society and seeing it all around us. Eventually dude said “ever heard about M.G.-tow”? I Definitely lit up. This dude was stable and in peace of mind himself. You could tell he was reaping the benefits of his situational awareness.

The word is definitely getting around from what I see. Happy for you and your friend!

[MecklotParticipant 608]

Tiga K wrote:

He is a talented and sensitive man that faces an enormous amount of pressure and shaming tactics from parents and professors trying to tell him how to live and use his talent.

I can feel him. Some parents always have this tendency to push their children to work hard and tell them what’s best. These parents say you should study hard, do this and do that. The parents have good intentions, but what they don’t realize is that it has the opposite effect, especially if the children are teenagers. Teens tend to develop a sense of their own identity, and if their parents are nagging them about what they should do, they lash out in varying degrees.

If there’s one thing I want parents to understand, it’s that pushing your kids like that will have negative effects to the child’s psyche and will harm your relationship with your child.

[joetechParticipant]

I’m still anxious to have a beer with Old Sage. I’m in the NW and can be very mobile. Is there a way to message people if you’re not a paying member? Maybe we could have a road rally or something.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[HitmanParticipant]

always good to hear about a man finding peace.
MGTOW is the way,
especially in the current situation in society..
so much shame and blame.
the ability to walk away from that is awesome !
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great share brother .

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

Always nice to hear a successful MGTOW story.

Then again, that is what MGTOW is all about.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

I am very happy to hear this.

We all eventually find peace.

One good act erases all your past sins. No matter how ‘bad’ mgtow is, this is what the ultimate result is: peace and happiness.

A flower is beautiful, but you will not get one if you do not treat it with filthy, smelly and gooey manure. Also, the best and most beautiful flowers bloom only in the filthiest of places.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Anonymous 54]

@JT I’m in Tn.Some kinda Mgtow club ride would be something! Ready to lead the pack KM? I’ll be your wing Man on your right rear on my old Triumph. Being ear plugs!

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Whilst not MGTOW I chat with an ex cab driver who has the same view regards women, except he says ‘ there is a small percentage even 1% ..

He won’t get involved with women full time won’t allow them in his flat and won’t bow and scrape, he has 3 daughters from a previous marriage so has some female skin in the game.

More and more are going ‘ semi MGTOW ‘ protecting assets 100% that type of thing.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

The system is very quick to shut down rage and anger. Its radar is up on this.

By the time they’ve discovered indifference it will be way past game over.

Men are not announcing their indifference to women, not shouting it out so it can be quashed …. it’s just happening. In the quite of the libraries. The clatter and chatter of the office. On the laptop with a beer.

Mgtow is the Japanese Knot Weed and by the time you’ve realised it…. your house needs to come down.

The percentage of men walking past you as mgtow or semi red pill is growing.

Great story by the way. Very warming.

[joetechParticipant]

Hey Oldsage. Get these guys to give you my e-mail address. I’m going to be in SC next week. Practically next door.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Veritech AceParticipant 699]

I’ve met two MGTOW IRL. Both were ass raped by the divorce courts.

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