My mom's boundary issues

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

I typically visit my mom once a week. I did mother’s day with her yesterday as I am working today all day.

My mom is a cancer survivor but suffers from “woman issues” as a side effect of having received chemo. She was in pain and very uncomfortable yesterday because of the woman issues she was dealing with. That is very sad and understandably so. I totally understood. But she kept talking about it in graphic detail in front of me. Saying stuff like “oh I put the ointment on but it’s still burning” and stuff like that. Again, I understand that she wasn’t feeling well but she didn’t need to keep talking about her private area in front of her son. This went on throughout the day until I finally yelled at her
“Stop talking about your vagina constantly in front of me! I am your son and you are being very inappropriate!”
She apologized but still made reference to it a couple more times, so I wished her a happy mothers day and left.

I know this whole thing sounds like a ridiculous joke and you guys may think this is all funny, but I was so aggravated.I feel like she was crossing some major boundary issues, and this isn’t the first time she has done something like that. Do you guys deal with the same thing with female family members?

[Anonymous 1]

God, I dread going round my parents for dinner. She’s always having a pop at me not shaving or looking scruffy. I’m 31 ffs.

Used the toilet before eating once, and she came out with some infantilised bulls~~~:

hope you washed your hands after touching that willy!!

I have a dick, mum. Dinner ready????

I had washed my hands.

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

Anonymous wrote:

God, I dread going round my parents for dinner. She’s always having a pop at me not shaving or looking scruffy. I’m 31 ffs.

Used the toilet before eating once, and she came out with some infantilised bulls~~~:

hope you washed your hands after touching that willy!!

I have a dick, mum. Dinner ready????

I had washed my hands.

I’m 32. and it’s not like my mom was making dirty jokes or making innuendo. That would have been ok with me. She was talking about her personal matters to me when she should not have been sharing them with her son.

[Anonymous 1]

MIKETOW wrote:

That would have been ok with me

Each his own.

I’m 32 on Tuesday 🙂

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

Anonymous wrote:

MIKETOW wrote:

That would have been ok with me

Each his own.

I’m 32 on Tuesday

Well happy early b-day!

[Anonymous 1]

Cheers fella.

[PhilParticipant 205]

When I started to read your story of your mom, I thought perhaps she has chemo brain. Perhaps she is very lonely. Either way it would be very frustrating to have to hear about her vagina. You have been there once and never want to go back!

[BeerParticipant 11832]

MIKETOW wrote:

I know this whole thing sounds like a ridiculous joke and you guys may think this is all funny, but I was so aggravated.I feel like she was crossing some major boundary issues, and this isn’t the first time she has done something like that. Do you guys deal with the same thing with female family members?

Ughh…I feel your pain brother. My mom is a cancer survivor as well and down to one tit, and for years now she has been trying to get me to look at her lopped off titty area. Its disgusting…I’ll be sitting down eating and she’ll start talking behind me and when you turn your head to look while she’s talking she’ll have her shirt up and think its hilarious. I don’t want to see her good tit, why the f~~~ would I want to see where the hacked off one was?

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

Beer wrote:

MIKETOW wrote:

I know this whole thing sounds like a ridiculous joke and you guys may think this is all funny, but I was so aggravated.I feel like she was crossing some major boundary issues, and this isn’t the first time she has done something like that. Do you guys deal with the same thing with female family members?

Ughh…I feel your pain brother. My mom is a cancer survivor as well and down to one tit, and for years now she has been trying to get me to look at her lopped off titty area. Its disgusting…I’ll be sitting down eating and she’ll start talking behind me and when you turn your head to look while she’s talking she’ll have her shirt up and think its hilarious. I don’t want to see her good tit, why the f~~~ would I want to see where the hacked off one was?

And don’t get me wrong. I love my mom and feel for her. But that doesn’t mean she needs to talk about inappropriately personal things around me.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Anonymous wrote:

God, I dread going round my parents for dinner. She’s always having a pop at me not shaving or looking scruffy. I’m 31 ffs.

Used the toilet before eating once, and she came out with some infantilised bulls~~~:

hope you washed your hands after touching that willy!!

I have a dick, mum. Dinner ready????

I had washed my hands.

that’s the most hilarious story i’ve read all day!

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[HitmanParticipant]

sorry brother , but your mom is out of line.
it’s called your “private ” area because it’s PRIVATE .
i heard similar s~~~ from some family members …
and now i avoid them like the plague.

[Author]

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