My marriage experience (Getting Played).

[Det45Participant 111]

Hello fellow MGTOWs! Getting right to it I was married for most of my adult life. My ex-wife ended up cheating on me while I was away working a job in another state. She hooked up with an old highschool boyfriend and “that was that”. What angers me the most is how she played me! As a husband I trusted her as a good husband should. It turns out that she lied to me and deceived me in the most awful deceitful way! I was played like a fiddle and her sisters and mother were in on it, (just proves that lying b!tche$ stick together)! Anyway I would come home every weekend from my out of state job, a 1400 mile round trip (via car) to be with her and my kids. I would come home and take care of the house, be with the kids, and attend to her. I have always provided for her and the kids with everything they wanted and then some. My ex-wife had every thing she needed. I guess that wasn’t enough for her so she cheated on me while I was gone working. During the time she was cheating on me she was masterful at her deception and lies. She would tell me that she wanted us to have a new custom house built and even drew pictures and diagrams of the type of house she wanted when I was home. What she was doing was painting a false hope that we had a future together in a new house (keeping me off guard) while having full intentions of dumping me for another man, how evil is that!? Then to top that off she started to buy new things for our “supposed new house” like new bedding, pots and pans, and lot’s of other stuff. She would set all that new stuff aside saying that she wanted to save it for our new house but in reality had purchased these items for her and her new man. How incredibly deceitful is that!!!! Here I was thinking she was securing our future together but in reality she was deceiving me and using me as a stepping stone to her new man. I was played like a fiddle and then some, very embarrassing to be played like that. I was more upset about by being played than her actually cheating on me. Fast forward to 2017, I have been divorced for over ten years now and life has never been better. I am better off now than ever before. In the end my ex-wife did me a favor by cheating on me because now she’s someone else’s problem, not mine. This experience of mine illustrates how deceitful a woman can be. It doesn’t matter how long you have been married to a woman, she can turn on you anytime no matter how much time you have invested with her! There’s more deceit to this story but I would be writing forever so hopefully (in a nutshell) this experience of mine will help someone else from getting played like I was……Det45

[joetechParticipant]

That guy your ex is with (if they’re married) is going to be her second ex husband.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 11]

Det45 wrote:

She hooked up with an old highschool boyfriend and “that was that”.

That’s exactly what happened to my nephew. His wife connected with an old high school Chad via CIAbook. He put covert cams in the bedroom and came home to find a porno movie.

I’m sure “new man” rues the day he met her, and you’re free as a bird.

[Det45Participant 111]

Yes she married that guy two weeks after our divorce was finalized. Don’t know their status and really don’t care. As a Christian I have to forgive her but I’ll never forget and I will NEVER get played like that again!

[bladeParticipant]

They just don’t get of on fresh c~~~ the head f~~~ is a bonus play . Been there .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 13]

Just another decent, caring, loyal and hard working man PLAYED by an utter f~~~ing, lying, deceptive C~~~.

Same story over and over and over.

Her new relationship was built on a web of cheating, deceit and lies.

What a great foundation.

I doubt it will work.

Marriage is bad enough even when you start with a great solid, honest foundation.

In this case.

Not a f~~~ing chance.

WHEN not IF.

I’m sorry man, at least you’re over it and are better off.

Same for me.

Keep putting the WORD and TRUTH out there any way you can.

[Modern Day WarriorParticipant 499]

And people wonder why MGTOW is a thing. Or why we don’t trust women. With millions of examples just like this one. Someone should publish a book of these stories. Then again, they all basically come down to the same storyline: Guy gets married, girl f~~~s him over.

"One must put up barriers to keep oneself intact." - Neil Peart

[Anonymous 1]

joetech wrote:

That guy your ex is with (if they’re married) is going to be her second ex husband.

You misspelled husbank. Sorry I couldn’t help myself.

Welcome brother. Your story is not unique. I am surprised she didn’t wait till you had that new house. The hive strikes again.

[Det45Participant 111]

There was never going to be a new house, it was a ploy……

[Anonymous 5]

Welcome, it’s great to have you here.

Det45 wrote:

now she’s someone else’s problem

You’re correct. She’ll be exactly the same with every man she cons into a relationship.
Sounds like you were MGTOW before you even heard of the term. Most of us are the same.
Don’t be hard on yourself for trusting and being patient with your Ex, you were only striving to be a good husband, a good father and a good man.
I bet you never make the “good husband” mistake ever again.
Thanks for sharing.

[JVBParticipant]

Heavy stuff bro. It’s in the rear view now and you are a free man. My ex was on the c~~~ carousel 4 days after me leaving town for work. I feel you man.

Peace is > piece.

[JakeParticipant 908]

you never knew her if you did you never would have married her the other guy is stupid

[AufladenParticipant 105]

It’s stories like this that I’m glad men have the courage to post. I’m truly sorry you had to deal with such a s~~~ty situation, not to mention the s~~~ty person at the centre of it all Det45.

Hopefully knowing that telling your tale will help other men is of benefit to you. Other members, lurkers, may well have a light bulb moment reading your story and begin their own tentative steps away from the plantation.

Hopefully you are doing much better now and living your life for you and your kids.

'You can achieve more and be happy avoiding the wrong women than you ever could searching for the right woman.' - KM

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Welcome Det45, and WELL SAID!!

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[BoskParticipant 111]

The other man is incredibly stupid but got you rid of the bitch.

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