My Losses

[WeakManParticipant 91]

I would explain to you all the severity of my stupidity but it’s too dumb to go into detail however I will tell you all the tally of my losses:

1. Money(not thousands, but a few hundred ~500)
2. Trust for women.
3. My ability to expose myself to getting emotionally hurt by a woman.
4. Time 1 year 8 months.
5. Tears, Headaches, Heartbreak,
6. Important one, LOST OPPORTUNITY in that time to further myself and my goals and possibly meet another girl

What did I gain:

1. Sex.
2. Insecurity.
3. Fake Comfort.
4. Fake Love.

I am currently on the track of getting back some normalcy but I will make an obvious statement to drill into everyone’s head since I(being the idiot that I am) still fell for it:

If she has exes around her when you first meet and they “go away” they aren’t really “away” they are just out of sight.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Sorry to hear man. Welcome to MGTOW.

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Brother,
Sorry to hear about your disaster. Press on, improve yourself, and don’t let it happen ever again. I know it hurts, and it has happened to many of us here. The majority of fellas never learn from these mistakes and become professional victims repeatedly. Don’t be that guy. Learn and press on. Good luck.

[Anonymous 42]

WeakMan wrote:

If she has exes around her when you first meet and they “go away” they aren’t really “away” they are just out of sight.

WeakMan, you described the all American multi X with orbiters. They’re like a planetary system with them being in the center, they get the middle because its the proper place for a narcissist to be!

To them I’m a planetary killing asteroid! I’m on my own path through the galaxy! I use their gravitational pull to slingshot that much faster away!

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your story. Stories like this reinforces my determination to never get married.

Welcome to the forums
i’m glad you found the path to freedom
cheers–

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother!

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Bestieboy666Participant 2358]

The initial stage of realization hurts the most. After time this realization becomes your strength. Hang in there it will get easier to accept. Everyone here will help.

Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.

[SOLI2DEParticipant 746]

Welcome Bro

“Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.” -Proverbs 31:3-

[KeymasterKeymaster]

WeakMan wrote:

LOST OPPORTUNITY

Interesting you emphasized that. Opportunity loss is a big one.

WeakMan wrote:

drill into everyone’s head since I(being the idiot that I am) still fell for it:

That’s like a 6 year old blaming itself for falling for Santa Clause. That’s not your fault so don’t blame yourself. Someone put it into the kid’s head. It’s nice and fun and all of that and DREAMING IS ESSENTIAL… but the kid isn’t “stupid” for believing it. Every facet of society is working overtime to get you to subscribe to these illusions, and it’s been said many times it takes a man 1/2 a lifetime to deprogram himself.

Welcome to MGTOW and the Forums.
Please make yourself at home.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

welcome brother.

Its not your fault!

Fool me once, shame on you.

Fool me twice, shame on me.

You have been indoctrinated your whole life on blue pill lies, you now have the oportunity to change all that.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Weakman
With your introduction comes 13,828 new brothers that are here to help. Some are still in red pill rage and some have recovered and moved forward. You will too. Stick around. Read. Post. Learn. This is YOUR time to grow.

[AttonParticipant]

A lot of men have lost far more than 2 years and a few hundred dollars. Consider yourself very lucky and welcome.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[OldBillParticipant]

Mistakes are how we learn, brother.

By all means, admit your mistakes. Own your mistakes so you can learn from your mistakes. However…

… never dwell on your mistakes to the point where your life becomes frozen.

You f~~~ed up. We all have. You trusted her and got burned. That’s also happened to all of us. You got knocked down. We been knocked down too.

We got up again though. We wiped away the remains our mistakes away like you scrape dog s~~~ off your shoes. We learned from our mistakes and we moved on.

Will you?

Will you learn from all this? Will you see women for what they truly are? For what they cannot help but be? Or will you believe the lies and blandishments all over again?

The choice is yours, brother. Will you live in the past, wallowing in the memories? Or will you learn and move on?

If you want to start, you couldn’t have found a better place to start.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[WarratahParticipant 895]

Welcome – there’s something that strikes me, though. Your handle ‘Weakman’, that is what you were, that is the past, you’ve joined us and have started afresh. Change the damned name. You WERE ‘Weakman’, what are you now?

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[RoyDalParticipant]

Those who learn from their mistakes, and change their ways to not repeat them, have benefited from their intelligence, wits, and common sense. This is what I see in the OP’s message to us.

Welcome WM!

BTW, the suggestion that you change your handle is appealing to me as well. Don’t run yourself down. The world is full of people who are all too willing to do that for you. There is no need to fuel their hostile impulses.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

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