my life , my rules

[HitmanParticipant]

still removing the shackles of marriage , divorce going on almost three years now..no end in sight ..but the original pain has lead to appreciation of my freedom..i have turned the lemons into lemonade..i see my kid four days a week ..the future is unknown .. but i will never play by anyones rules but my own anymore ! life is just too damn short to scrape and bow ..no begging ..no pleading ..all you great men have helped me to see going my own way was all i could have done if i want to live with my own decisions .. to thine own self be true ! thank you mgtow brothers ! you all got the biggest b~~~~ i ever encountered ! your presence here has given me strength and knowledge ..bravery is in between the lines here..

[Anonymous 18]

The strength is really within men like you who go through hell through divorce. You are thriving after being submerged in water for this long against your will. I can only imagine the breath of fresh air freedom brings; and I am happy never having a first hand experience dealing with a woman’s vindictive nature.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Well done Hitman and, Yep, that day you stand your ground and speak you mind, tell some sloot or knob head to f~~~ off is amazing.

No body owes you anything and vice versa, and one of the most liberating moments I had was when a mate I haven’t seen for ages, and he’s a nosey c~~~, said this to me:

Mate: ” Hey ####, what you been up to? What sort of dolars are you making now?”

Me: “What business is that of yours?”

Mate: “What’s your problem? No wonder no-one calls you anymore, the way you are going you’ll have no mates soon.”

Me: “Really? 7.4 billion people on the planet and you come out with that pathetic school girl remark? Get lost.”

Now and ex mate….

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Three years? Jesus and I thought mine was tough at 1 year. How the hell can it go on for three years if you don’t mind me asking?

[RoyDalParticipant]

@hitman,
I wish you the best possible outcome in your battles.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[heads-upParticipant 320]

I salute you comrade,3 years to a warrior is but a breath.
onwards and upwards
I take my hat off to you.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

It’s the blink of an eye in the grand scheme.

A blink with a grain of sand maybe but those tears of pain will wash it out and then you can see clearly.

Let them all now battle and fight each other while you walk away to new found freedom.

You are of the elite. Wish for everyman to feel that breeze on his face.

[HitmanParticipant]

hey guys , thanks for the kind words .. delays are ..ex must prove she bought new car during marriage with moneys sepperate from money earned during co-habitation while married ..and we own a small house together which she still pays half the mortgage altho not living here ( thank god ! ) .. and 250.000 worth of life insurance each naming the other as benificiary , to ensure our daughter is provided for..its pricey..sooo..in the meantime i live in a little lake-house and work in new york city where i was born and raised..hit some tail but dont believe in love anymore ..and NO , i will NEVER marry again ! i tell ALL men i meet w plans to wed about my nightmare ..legal fees have pushed me about 20.000 in debt ..ce la vie ! MGTOW FOREVER !

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Yeah $20k is about what I spent on my divorce, but again that was just one year.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

and Thank You for being here, sharing with us, and me of what’s on your mind. And continuing on Living. Best of everything to you man.

Im sure not to marry ever. A true love, if it exists, doesn’t require that, doesn’t it 😉

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[LupusParticipant 214]

Thanks for sharing man and indeed, stay true to yourself and let no others decide for you.

[HitmanParticipant]

right f~~~in on men ! forward ! you all school me and inspire me , my dad ( god rest him) , used to tell me ” never give up ..even a blind chicken will eat if it keeps trying ” a bit weird , but true ! i don’t consider not trying to be an option at all ...i aint never backing down.

[Executor MaxwellParticipant 591]

Hitman wrote:

divorce going on almost three years now..

For those who keep fighting the great fight and continue to bravely fight on.

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