My Kung-Fu Is Strong

[SMADParticipant 651]

Some triumphant news!

Last night I went out and had a great evening!  I also bumped into my ex from a year and a half ago that I have not seen since then.  I have been a little concerned on how our first “meet” post break up would be or feel like and I had worries that I might be tempted to go back to her if I still had feelings lurking there.

Well, I can safely say I passed that “phase” with flying colours!  There was no romantic interest on my part there and I switched off after she actually TOLD ME OFF in the middle of the pub for trying to avoid the “low hanging lights” (I am quite tall so my head would hit them.  She said “stop doing that, you look weird.  That’s why I left you, you know…”

I didn’t even bother responding to that, especially as it sounds like she was trying to dig at me for attention. In fact, I actually carried on doing it just to be “weird”.  But my resolve and self-faith is immense and so I did not break haha.  She also kept “bumping” into me, bless her.  Again, I suspect as an attention seeking move.  Oh and she had the cheek to ask why I hadn’t bought her a drink, LOL!

I feel even more “free” now seeing as I have seen and spoken to her and I am even more happy I am doing my own thing!  I still “care” as she was a big part of my life and I am GRATEFUL for the valuable experience I gained from that relationship.  She tested my faith and values and made me question them, but the end result was that they reinforced my ideals and principles and I didn’t feel any temptation to go back to her, etc.

I think she also followed me from the first bar to the first club I went to with my friends, although it’s a small town and “may” have been a coincidence, lol.  I did give her a hug after we left the club and said good bye but, that was just politeness.

So to pass on my wisdom to other MGTOWS:  I didn’t see this relationship as a dark part of my life or regret it in any way (as there was some good times with the bad, maybe half and half.) and I don’t hate the girl – I see this as an EXPERIENCE that has reinforced my faith in how I live my life. I know this may not apply to some of the more “horrendous” break ups I know a few members have had here (as some have had their lives totally ripped apart by women) but seeing my past relationship in this way really helped in dealing with it.

 

 

 

 

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

It’s just a fact of life, you have to make mistakes, but if you’re going to, might as well get a free lesson from it. Good to hear brother!

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

There’s a say kill people with kindness and they will be more p~~~ed off. You win just being happy and kind. If you successful in anything you do it’s more of a win.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

The force is strong with this one ☺

[RoyDalParticipant]

SMAD wrote:

Some triumphant news!
Last night I went out and had a great evening!

Cool!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[RedHeadedStrangerParticipant 204]

Last night, I went out with a friend.  We found a sparsely populated pub, and took seat at the bar.  I was good and buzzed, telling him about MGTOW.com, showing him the memes, and showing him some of the posts.  We were having a jolly good time.  Then I got on the topic of my latest baby-mama-drama with my xxx-wife.  I worked myself up, and was feeling especially p~~~ed-off when the hottest girl in the bar (8 out of 10 stars) took the seat next to me.  She smiled; I smiled back, thinking, ‘hot-damn! if it falls out of the sky… gunna pump and dump’.  Then I noticed the ring on her finger.  ‘Well foook.  Too bad she doesn’t exist.’  Having disqualified her, I turned back to my friend.  She talked with her friend, trying for eye-contact, trying to arouse another smile.  She didn’t get either.  She finally turned her back to me.  Awesome.  She probably thought I was gay.  Who cares.

Then this drunk f~~~ wedged in between us to try to start a tab.  He leaned his full weight into me, with his ass pressed firmly against my lap.  I pushed him off me and said, ‘Watch out, dude. I’m trying to SIT here.’  He pulled his upper body away from me, but left his goddamned ass on my leg.  I was still p~~~ed-off about my ex, and this dude was about to get a hard elbow to the neck.  I asked my buddy if he had my back.  He did, so I turned to the f~~~nut, pushed him away, and damn near yelled, ‘Dude, get your goddamned ass off of my leg.’  He said he didn’t have his ass on my leg.  I said loudly, ‘Don’t argue with me.  Get your f~~~ing ass off my leg.  NOW.’  He retreated, wisely so.  I turned back to my friend, damn near seething with rage.  I was really hoping for a fight.

This seemed to p~~~ the girl off, and when this f~~~ing c~~~ got up to leave, she threw all her weight into me and full out shoulder-bumped me as if to say ‘f~~~ you, asshole’.  It kinda hurt, because, her bony shoulder hit bone in my arm.  I didn’t even acknowledge the event.  Engaged women don’t exist.  I felt her give me a s~~~ty look as she stormed out of the bar, p~~~ed that she had to pay her own tab for, like, the first time in her life.  I guess she mistook me for a guy named Mark.  I was p~~~ed about it, and if she had been a bloke, I would be awaiting bail.  But, I took the high-road, and let her slide.  Stupid c~~~ just didn’t have a clue.  She wanted to assault me, but if I had treated her like I would have another dude, the entire bar would have pounded a hole in my head.

My Kung-Fu is also strong, but not that strong, heh.

[ComingInHotParticipant 160]

SMAD,

Congratulations man.  I would just like to say that you handled that like a smooth operator sir, very well done. What is amazing is she tried to insult you, when that didn’t work, she bumped into you, then followed you, then asked for a drink, then procured a hug from you.   You did well man, again good show man, damn good show.

 

Red Headed Stranger,

While I am a complete stranger to you, if I could make a small suggestion, and you don’t even have to take my advice.  But please and I actually am asking, and begging you to think this over.  In my humble opinion, you should never beat another man up over some small misunderstanding.  Your anger against your ex, a woman should never be taken out on a men.  This man was drunk and didn’t manipulate you, hurt you, use you or do anything wrong really, this guy was just too inebriated and at the wrong place at the wrong time.  I don’t see how hurting some drunk guy would do anything else but cause problems between men, we are already in a war against society, laws and women, we don’t need fratricide happening. (figuratively speaking)

If you still have some unresolved issues and thinking of your ex, alcohol is the last thing you want to ingest.  Get her picture, put it on a punching bag and go to town.   Or sleep with some random women to rid your mind of her.  The possibility of hurting another man because of her, your mood and alcohol all thrown into one is just unconscionable and I just can’t fathom it.

I hope you dont take this as a personal attack as it was not, I just feel like men are to quick to hurt men over dropping a tootsy roll wrapper on their shoes, some things are just not worth it.  That drunk was just being passive aggressive or was to inebriated to tell what he was doing.  Im not trying to tell you what to do, just asking you to switch roles a little.

You come into a pub with your friends, youre trying to start a tab and you kind of lean on a guy, then it happens, but youre still leaning on him, then a confrontation happens again, what you fail to realize is this 6’8” steroid induced monster UFC cold hearted 99th degree black belt and his friend are ready to beat you down because you’re in the wrong place at the wrong time doing something harmless.  But this guy got some alcohol involved and hes p~~~ed at the world for being hurt by a women and hes gonna take it out on you, an innocent guy who did something so minor that a tap on the shoulder, an introduction and a mutual understanding could fix.   Coming to blows over this does not make sense.

However Im just some guy behind a computer screen and it is just my .02 cents.

How you treated that whore though, congrats thumbs up and good job.

 

[RedHeadedStrangerParticipant 204]

ComingInHot,

You are absolutely right.  I haven’t started a fight in years, though I was in the mood for one.  I was not thorough in my post.  The bar was not crowded, he was only in between me and the hottie because she was there – and he wanted to be close to her.  And he needn’t have continued with the ass-rub after I told him to back off.  Even if I hadn’t been p~~~ed when he walked up, I would have been p~~~ed at him for his continuing to touch me after I told him  it wasn’t cool.  The ass is an erogenous zone.  Keep yours off of me and you won’t elicit my aggression.

I know you responded in good-faith.  And no offense has been taken.  Thank you for taking the time respond; I appreciate your input, and your concern.  It is true that alcohol brings out the worst in me, it always has, and that’s why I’d rather kill a joint than a bottle. =)

Again, thanks for your reply,

J

[AkibarangerParticipant 37]

Mate I’m truly happy for you!

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