My Journey to MGTOW

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    David199
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    Hello to all Fellow MGTOW,

    I’d like to take this opportunity to introduce myself.

    I’m David, 29 years old. I have only recently been able to put a name to the thoughts and feelings I’ve been struggling with for years. Thanks to the great content of numerous YouTubers and the like I’ve come to terms with the mentality and attitude of the majority of society.

    I suppose I should talk a little about my background. I was previously an aircraft technician in the Royal Air Force for almost 8 years, approximately half way through that period I met a woman and started dating. to cut a long story short she fell pregnant at a time in my career that meant I’d have to move across the country and she was unwilling to move with me. Bearing this in mind it seemed logical that having a child in that environment would not make any sense as I would be away a great deal of time and working a full week only to travel across country and back again in the space of a weekend was not sustainable. However I experienced first hand the vulnerability men face mentioned by Spetsnaz. I had no choice in the matter, no matter how logical or rational my argument, the decision was made. I don’t think I’ve ever felt so powerless…

    I then had a period of perhaps 3 years where I had no meaningful relations with a woman, blaming myself and to a certain extend punishing myself. The reasons…? I’m not even sure to this day. Maybe it was my societal conditioning to shoulder the responsibility and fault. Looking back at it now I realise my internal struggle and the point of realisation, my rational mind couldn’t accept what I was putting myself through.

    Which brings me to the present, I left the Air Force with a big tool box of values, expectations and skills. I decided as part of a programme offered by the military for services rendered to go to university to study a degree in engineering for no tuition cost.

    I only recently had the epiphany that, I have a daughter (which I love dearly) so as far as satisfying any need to propagate I’ve done my part for continuing the human race, and ultimately the only reason I really wanted to have a relationship is to have a child or children. With that realisation it finally hit me…I’m Free!…Free to do what ever I want. I can be all I can be.
    Which Is why I’m here at MGTOW, to converse with other rational men to support each other without the interference of women.

    Thank you for taking the time to read this, I hope over the course of time we will have many discussions that elevate our thought processes and rationale.

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    Anonymous
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    Welcome to the watering hole! The only watering hole where the mysteries and woes of modern womanhood are washed away, and that deep thirst (the kind where your throat sticks together)is no longer felt, EVER!

    You’re in the right place if rationality is what you’re looking for…

    Welcome to MGTOW! Kick back and have a tall glass of satisfying truth…

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    David199
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    Thank you for the welcome.

    I look forward to contributing to the MGTOW community and am excited at the prospect of meaningful discussions, although the amount of current content to “catch up” on seems daunting haha

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    Experienced
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    Welcome to MGTOW!

    https://media.giphy.com/media/PvZ2jLjFofH4Q/giphy.gif

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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    The Manipulated Man
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    Hello David,

    Appreciate your introduction and welcome. You are not alone.

    Here is some bad news:

    All of the single men I know with daughters are impoverished and cannot resist being White Knights to their little darlings. None of them can retire after 65. Most of these guys are Alpha males, decorated veterans, and trained killers.

    Here is something fun from the UK:

    The following link is one of my favorite Scotsman, his other YouTube posts are brilliant and funny:

    What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

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    RoyDal
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    Welcome! I wish you every success in your new career and raising your daughter to be equipped to deal with our increasingly irrational world!

    Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

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    David199
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    Thank you for the video recommendation, an interesting watch ๐Ÿ™‚

    “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”…”please don’t become a surgeon” hahaha

    However The good thing about serving in the military is imposed discipline, I hope to pass on that frame of mind and as she gets older I will encourage her to think critically and objectively. If she then becomes a woman and disregards that mind set then so be it.

    The best way to counter these counter productive mentalities is the dissemination of knowledge based on fact and objectivity. Armed with said knowledge we can better navigate the minefield that is our society.

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    Anonymous
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    Welcome David,
    Hope to hear more from you are n the future

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    505vikingo
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    Welcome David!

    We are similar in some ways. I served in the U.S. Air Force, also had a daughter while serving, promoted to the MGTOW ranks, and now serve as a professional bachelor. You are among friends who are like minded now. I challenge you to be an anomaly and not make the same mistakes you did initially. We no longer can feign ignorance after enduring what we both have. Good luck, and we are always here for you Brother.

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    David199
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    Thank you all again for a warm welcome.

    It’s a great honour being among like minded and enlightened men. I congratulate the founders and veterans of this website for providing a bastion of hope to many men, some of which that thought they were past the point of no return. Each new member is potentially one less statistic ๐Ÿ™‚

    @505vikingo as much as the military has its faults, but in certain respects it prepares you for self sufficiency. For example how to cook, clean, iron some of life’s basic requirements and for that I’m eternally grateful. It’s a liberating feeling not needing to rely on anyone but yourself!

    @code Bunker getting it off your chest I would assume was imperative in your healing process, to then move forward in a positive light.
    As for myself after the years of punishing myself I figured the negativity and hate was only holding me back, the energy I was wasting could be put to far better use, for instance self improvement and a thirst for knowledge. From what I’ve read of your posts you have a switched on attitude and seem extremely driven.
    I wish you the best of luck with your writing. I look forward to you announcing it on here so I can buy a copy!

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    Bigboy83
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    Aircraft Technician? interesting skills you have, young man.

    I’ve heard, some of the biggest recruits are Military Men. We love to see military men join the brotherhood,Welcome and enjoy.

    Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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