My Introduction- Ray

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    Obi C.
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    Hello everyone,
    My name is Ray, I am a 25 year old medical student about to begin my clinical rotations.  I am single, live alone, and frankly am just focused on getting through school.  I have a major exam coming up next week (the USMLE Step 1- first licensing exam for doctors) and due to time constraints, associated with preparation for it, I really cant afford to go out and have fun. So for the first time in my life I considered hiring a professional to just swing by and relieve some tension.  Naturally I was doing some research on the topic (I hate going into anything blind) and while reading an article by some guys I came across the term “MGTOW.”  My interest piqued, I decided to do some research about what exactly this meant…and that is how I found this site.  After reading what it stood for and going through some posts I decided I should join up.  Why you ask?

    For as long as I can remember I’ve been that “nice guy”….hell I still am that “nice guy” (something I’m really trying to change).  I’m the guy that girls have always walked all over because I put them on a pedestal.  It was how I was raised…always be respectful, always be polite, etc.  I didn’t realize that being respectful and being polite…didn’t mean I  had to bend over backwards to please people.  A couple of failed relationships which ended really badly have left me pretty jaded and cynical about women in general.  Guys, in short I’m here to learn.  I’m tired of living my life to please others… I’m ready to be a man going my own way.

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    Keymaster
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    Hi Ray and a big welcome to you.

    A couple of failed relationships which ended really badly have left me pretty jaded and cynical about women in general

    A couple of failed relationships are nothing to sneeze at but also not quite enough to pack it all in, you know. In your 20s is the time to make many mistakes. BUT!! Im not referring to your failed relationships as a mistake…. Im referring to you EVEN GETTING INTO ONE before you are established and WELL on your way to achieving your dreams. (some would put this at NO EARLIER than 26+)

    “Relationships” are dream killers.

    You have so much possibility and promise ahead of you, you can’t even BEGIN to conceptualize it. That’s not bulls~~~ and I’m happy to bring you the good news. You’re a medical student and girls will LOVE to lock you down (and allow themselves to get knocked up) just to put a strangle hold on your future and hold it hostage before it REALLY gets going.

    You have any idea how you will be writing your own ticket at 32 – 35 dating all the 21 year olds you can just by saying “hello I’m a doctor”? Don’t you give those “failed relationships” any more thought.

    Today is the first day of the rest of your life.

    No girlfriends. No wedding. JUST GRADUATE MEDICAL SCHOOL WITH FLYING COLORS. Hit the gym. Save your money. Have fun!!! LOTS OF FUN!! Enjoy women for what they are, and you’ll have time to decide about a “relationship” much later when your footing in life is SOLID. By then, your next problem will be getting rid of them all.

    I wish you welcome… and every success to you.

    /video/women-over-the-hill/

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #32157
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    Obi C.
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    Thank you for the enlightening words and that video which I found both thought provoking and hilarious.  Like I said I am only just now beginning to realize the error of my ways, I certainly look forward to correcting them. (Tom Leykis sure made it look fun haha)

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    Harpo-My-"SON"
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    Hey Ray  welcome to mgtow define for yourself who you are and the way you want to go…Enjoy the forum

     

    this may get old to some, but im gonna keep this in my post, for those who have not heard

    The definition of MGTOW .  If some of you have not heard I managed to publish it three times on urban dictionary.com  I up-vote all three once a day,  every day. I noticed 6 down-votes today.. so I have taken to down-voting all the others  1. by blue bastard=down  2. by trooper555=down 3. by mgtow for life=down  4th  5th  6th all copied and pasted from this site=up-vote  Hoping everyone here will spread the word and push our definitions to the top of the page….

    http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=MGTOW&defid=8156669

    I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

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    “hiring a professional to just swing by”

    Danger Will Robinson.         

    They don’t “just swing by.”  They take in every bit of information possible.

    Don’t leave yourself vulnerable to opportunists, you’ve TOO much to loose.

    Find another option, OTHER than, “just swing by.”

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=REvmhBO99I4&feature=player_embedded

     

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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    Dakota
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    Ray Cedar wrote:
    For as long as I can remember I’ve been that “nice guy”…

    Nice guy is also known as a “pussy beggar” and ironically it doesn’t work very well…if you haven’t noticed.  If you want girls fawning and fighting and scheming over you then go your own way, do your own thing, be your own Man.  I’ve had girls very nearly begging to be with me and once again, ironically, I don’t want anything to do with a girl like that.  But be careful of what you wish.  A young doctor with a large potential income has a HUGE target on their ass.  Girls will want to marry you whilst sneaking off to f~~~ the guy who treats them like s~~~.  They WILL punk your ass.

    And please don’t go “hiring a professional to just swing by.”  As a medical student you should be fully aware by now of the fact that sex workers at your economic level trade disease around like Pokémon.  But as a young man you should know that hiring out is not like what it is for Charley Sheen.  For a 100 bucks you’ll get a whole world of misery and possibly/probably derail your future.  Porn Hub is free.  You’ve probably never met a gal who sells blow-jobs for money so she can buy meth.  That’s just reality and reality is a c~~~.

    Good luck Ray and welcome to MGTOW!

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    I didn’t realize that being respectful and being polite…didn’t mean I had to bend over backwards to please people.

    Hey Ray Cedar, you can still be a nice guy, TO YOURSELF! Be careful, the future is easy to set on a course to destruction and absolute misery. Call girls come from some of the most vile places, and are utterly opportunistic, burn your sperm in the fireplace, guard it with your life, it could ruin your life if it were to become inseminated without your knowledge.

    You’re a medical student and girls will LOVE to lock you down (and allow themselves to get knocked up) just to put a strangle hold on your future and hold it hostage before it REALLY gets going.

    Again, guard your seed as if your life depended on it. We live in times like no other in the history of man/men. You’re to young to really appreciate your GREAT POSITION. I wish you all the happiness and success YOUR efforts entitled to you, and “YOU” alone.

    I’m glad you jumped in without reservations, smart move! Welcome to MGTOW, enjoy the forums….

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    BrainPilot
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    I have so much I want to tell this kid, and my typing is so damn slow.

    Ray, I’m a 48 year old medical doctor myself, and have been exactly where you are. I am not the only medical doctor on this site, but I’ll let the others introduce themselves. We and you have much to talk about.

    First thing for you right now is USMLE step I. Everything written above is true, but right now, nothing in the world is more important than passing step I and getting it out of the way. So, for the time being, I’m not going to address anything regarding women or mgtow. This is just exam advice and useless to most anyone here except you. (sorry guys. useless for you but critical for Ray).

    Unless it’s changed, it’s going to be about 800 questions over 2 day period. It will be broken up into 4 blocks, one each morning, one each afternoon, each block about 3-4 hours. Yours will probably be on computer. In my day, it was a couple of pencils and paper exam books and answer sheets with blocks to fill in (I’m old like that). As much as technology of test administration has changed, the material has been mostly the same forever. You’ll likely be answering many of the same questions by tapping a box on a computer screen.

    But 800 questions is no joke regardless of how they are presented. The fatigue factor can become significant in a marathon like that. You probably already have some old exam questions or review books with exam questions in them. If you don’t, get some now.

    These are very valuable for multiple reasons. The first is that you can practice reading and answering speed with them. You can get to a point where you can judge the time you’ve spent on a particular question by your breathing. If you know you have about a minute to answer each question, and your average resp’ rate, then you know you have about 10-15 breaths to answer each one and then MOVE ON. Treat them like women: no individual one of them is worth that much to you by themselves, so don’t spend much time or attention on any one of them… tap and move on! 😛

    Practice testing yourself with blocks of 200 questions at a time, for periods of 3-4 hours at a time without taking a break. Do this at least twice a day, once in the morning, once in the afternoon, just like the exam. This will give you an idea of the stamina necessary for finishing as strong as you start. Endurance matters as much as speed here, so practice under conditions as similar as possible to the ones you’ll face on the exam. Your brain is adaptable and it will adjust to this. If you find yourself needing a candy bar or water practicing this way, bring a bar and a bottle of water (assuming they still allow this?) to the actual exam. If the lecture halls in your school where the exam is going to be given tend to be cold, set the thermostat in your place the same temp. If you need a sweater at home, get accustomed to that and bring one to the exam.

    The other thing practice questions are good for is allowing you to measure where your strengths and weaknesses are, and allotting study time accordingly. Once you know the subject where you are answering a large percentage correctly, allow less time to review that subject, and more time on the subjects where you didn’t score as well. This is a nationally standardized exam where every question counts the same, and they are evenly distributed among the all the material of the first two years. So things that are relatively rare in actual practice get the same number of questions allotted to them as things that are common. Review books are written this way and are a useful tool for figuring out which things you need to spend more time on.

    It can feel good to go over the questions of the things that you are nailing at 90% correct answers, but this is not helping. It is actually a waste of study time. If 71% passes, scoring 90% correct on physiology is a waste if it means you are ignoring some other subject like say, anatomy where you are only scoring 40-50%. If you practice test and score 90% on a particular subject, don’t send anymore time on it. Pass is what matters most here. When you find yourself scoring 90% on every subject, you can go spend time on your favorites. Until then, distribute study time proportionately to where you are weakest.

    Last, and this is most important: the questions on this test must be written by experts. There is no single person with a wide and deep enough knowledge base to write questions on all those different subjects. They have to hire experts in each field to write the questions for that field. Generally, they find these experts from the lists of authors of the articles and books published on each subject, and there are just not that many people both qualified and willing.

    These same people get asked to write questions by people who are publishing review books with practice questions in them. they are probably in academics and get asked to write questions for the semester exams given by their own institutions. Asking the same people over and over every year…to write questions on the same topics over and over…year after year… eventually, the same questions start popping up. Even experts get lazy, or busy. For example, there are just not that many different ways to ask a question on microscopic differentiation of astrocytomas. Review 8-10 of these questions, and you’ll likely see one or two of them on the exam. These questions published in these review books are available to everyone so this is not cheating.

    Though it’s obviously impossible to review 10-15,000 practice questions for this exam, if you somehow did, you would probably recognize most of the real exam questions as soon as you saw them. However, it is possible to hit 400-500 hundred per day for a week or two before the exam. 200 in the morning. 200 in the afternoon. Review time in the evening on the subjects with your lowest accuracy on those questions during the day. Shower, sleep, repeat…. Eat the same things and the same times every day that you will be eating on exam day. Sleep and get up at the same times as the day of the exam. Some people even recommend trying to study under the same type and intensity of lighting as you will have on exam day.

    I’m not certain that lighting makes a significant difference, but I am pretty sure about the fatigue factor. 200 questions at a time, twice a day (or whatever current conditions for the exam are. You can probably look this up on line). Mimic and get accustomed to the exam conditions, whatever they are, in your practice sessions leading up to it. Turn your phone off for each 3-4 hour practice period.

    Last, to blow off steam, heed the advice above about porn hub or working out. Hired girls are not worth the list of potential risks, which is long. As was once explained to me by an older doctor when I was at your stage: every vagina contains a potential bullet (std) and every one of your sperm cells is a lottery ticket with a million dollar annuity paying out over the next 18 years. Every stripper/prostitute is likely on drugs and living with some criminal loser who subsidizes his income burglarizing houses his stripper-prostitute has cased for him. For the time being, treat them all like kryptonite…

    We’ll get to mgtow philosophy, women and relationships after the exam…

    Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

    #32237
    Obi C.
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    “Treat them like women: no individual one of them is worth that much to you by themselves, so don’t spend much time or attention on any one of them… tap and move on! :-P

    – hahaha my vote for what is currently the most relatable quote ever!

    Thank you for all the exam advice…luckily for us I think they’ve shorted it considerably from since when you took it.  its still about 400 questions over an 8 hour period…but I can’t imagine having had to do 800 over two days! I mean I do as much right now for practice-on a really good day-…but that’s just practice….very different from stress and intensity of the real deal. Anyways I’ll be taking the exam next week on the 26th, and for the most part I’ve been doing exactly what you’ve said with the exception of strengthening my Biochemistry…which has consistently been my weakest topic….oh well hope I can relearn it in a week.  Thanks again, I look forward to meeting and interacting more with everyone but especially those in the medical profession when this is over.

    Please don’t go “hiring a professional to just swing by.” Don’t worry I haven’t, the whole concept has always just seemed so dirty to me….twas a moment of weakness… which coincidentally lead me to this site probably the only good thing that’s ever come from a call girl

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    Voidraithe
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    You have any idea how you will be writing your own ticket at 32 – 35 dating all the 21 year olds you can just by saying “hello I’m a doctor”? Don’t you give those “failed relationships” any more thought.

    Second this.

    Welcome Ray. Stay, learn, be with people who will stand with you, not on top of you.

     

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    Smitty the Great One
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    Oh and Ray… one last thing

    Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

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