My Introduction

[RandallParticipant 32]

I’ll start with my 1st wife. We met at a club in her home town which was about 30 miles from where I lived. After a few phone conversations I began driving back and fort to see her and spending the night occasionally. She was a divorced parent of 2 average pre-teen kids that lived with their father at the time. We got along great and decided to get married. I had it in my mind that getting married was what every normal man was supposed to do by a certain age and felt I was nearly passing that deadline because I was already 30 years old. Yes, a stupid reason to jump the broom I know but I did it. Soon she decided she wanted her kids living with her and I said ok. What I didn’t know was that she didn’t want any child support from their father and much to my demise found out she couldn’t hold down a job so I started working overtime just to make ends meet keeping us up as well as another mans kids. I did this for 5 years until one day our 4 unit apartment bld caught fire while I was sleeping after having worked 12 shift. We lived upstairs and the fire started in a downstairs apartment. The kids were at school, she rushed in the door woke me up then ran out the door. By the time I got dressed and got to the door the fire was blocking the breezeway steps exit. I had to jump 20 feet down from a window and broke my ankle and shattered my knee. We were moved into another apartment while I was in the hospital after emergency surgery. Once home i could manage by myself and hoped she would get a job to help with bills that were mounting up because I couldn’t work but all I got was excuses. I had to go back to work in a factory with a cane early just to pay bills. I realized then this woman wouldn’t help through this she wouldn’t help through any crisis. We divorced.
I am now going through my second divorce because I married her for the wrong reason too which was pity. Her mother died and had no where else to live. We lived together 4 10 years! before I married her and felt like I might as well get married because we were practically living as man and wife now anyway. She has an addiction to pain meds and I tried for many years to help get her off them and she did appear to try a few times until recently she would become violently angry when ever I mentioned it to her. I could go into many details of bad incidents throughout our relationship but I’m sure most of you have heard all the horror stories of drug addiction so I won’t bore you with details. We are now separated and I’m considering filing on the grounds of drug addiction just to get it over with instead of waiting a full year of separation to divorce. I won’t ever remarry.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[wyrParticipant 591]

Welcome brother!

Self-improvement is my religion. Sovereignty is my god.

[joetechParticipant]

Welcome to the forum. I also have two exes. Sometimes it takes remedial training to swallow the entire red pill.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 42]

Randall wrote:

I tried for many years to help get her off them and she did appear to try a few times until recently she would become violently angry when ever I mentioned it to her.

I was just taking to the woman that cuts my hair (don’t throw any tomatoes, she a conservative) and she says the same thing we say here about how many women are on anti depressants or some other pharmaceutical c~~~tail and we both agreed the drugs were the problem and added to their psychosis, same thing with her and a recently dismissed girlfriend of hers, she was behaving psychotic and attracted the police to a scene she created out of thin air!

Stay away from chicks on mental meds, they’re chemically induced CRAZY!

[Toxic BirdParticipant 23]

Welcome, Randall.

May you enjoy your time here. Or use it to your advantage in any other way.

[Anonymous 3]

Welcome!

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Randall wrote:

I had it in my mind that getting married was what every normal man was supposed to do by a certain age and felt I was nearly passing that deadline because I was already 30 years old

Society putting pressure on you and shaming. Forget that!

Welcome home Sir.

[RandallParticipant 32]

Thank you Brother.

[RandallParticipant 32]

Words of wisdom Brother.

[RandallParticipant 32]

Thanks, I know I will.

[RandallParticipant 32]

Yep,I’ve been through the police deal myself. You know how it goes.

[RandallParticipant 32]

Yep, I had to take that class twice haha I have a Doctorate degree in it now.

[AttonParticipant]

Welcome to the site also try quoting into one post.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Welcome brother…Twice burned…Keep low and focus on your happiness…You will save more without the constant leaching of women…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[AstroParticipant 2045]

Welcome to the MGTOW lounge, the sign says “No girls allowed!” Grab a pint and meet those that can relate to you best.

Don’t feel bad, I also married twice before I figured it out. I learned from my first marriage than a man cannot save a woman determined to destroy herself. It’s time to put yourself first because no one else is going to. The more I gave, the more they took and I got little in return.

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

Welcome aboard Randall.

Get a vasectomy.

[RandallParticipant 32]

thank you Brother

[RandallParticipant 32]

You know exactly where I’m coming from. thanks

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

It is in our nature to want to help others. We are the more compassionate of the sexes, and we like to fix things. Women take advantage of this, and it is sad to see a good man, such as yourself being used. I am sure you are already doing so, but make sure you are documenting and keeping evidence of her drug abuse, else it can backfire. The state loves to make the men pay for the women, else the state has to do it. Either way, we all pay for the women, as they cannot carry themselves. It just costs more when we have to do it directly.

Welcome to the jungle.

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