My Introduction

[JustSomeGuyParticipant 60]

Hi Folks,

I found this site recently after reading other sites like Dalrock, The Rational Male, etc for the last six months and this site is a blast of fresh air.

I am 52 now, never married (thank the Lord for that blessing).

My teens through my early 30’s was spent trying to figure out what was wrong with me as women were never interested except for quick sex after sitting across from me at dinner for 30 minutes. I was never a pump & dump kind of guy (just not part of me, too religious I guess) so I skipped those offers. Probably for the best as I would most likely have had STD’s or “oopsie, i’m preggers” happening.

Looking back now I went partially MGTOW at age 30 without realizing it when I had a woman at work tell me quote “You would be the absolute perfect father. It’s a real shame I am not allowed to like you”. Yep, NOT ALLOWED TO LIKE ME. I still don’t really understand what the heck that meant but it knocked me off women for several years.

During my 20’s I became badly depressed due to the unending loneliness (even to the point that I felt completely alone in a crowd of friends) and ended up taking meds to deal with that. At that point a so called second mom pushed me towards her sister who had a little girl. I knew the kid from the time she was born and loved her to no end. Long story short we talked about getting married and came to an understanding that we would do so soon. I wasn’t in love with her but was so desperate to not be alone (it was literally killing me). I was all set to give her the ring when she made the comment that once we were married “no one in her family would ever have to worry about money again”. That brought me to my senses and I quickly walked away.

At 32 I moved to another part of the country to start a new job. Things went well, dated a bit here and there but they were all psycho. Last one wanted to move in two weeks after the first date and ended up stalking me to the point that my employer had to call the town hall where I lived and demand that they force her to stop calling me all day (she worked for the town) or they would file charges since she was using their phones to harass me. She would spend 4+ hours each night parked across the street from my house just sitting there watching. I had to notify my neighbors on either side (good friends) that if they saw her approach the house to just call the cops. Luckily she didn’t do anything other than watch the house. I decided to sell and move back home. The house sold quickly and I was gone in a little more than a month. She got my forwarded address and sent me Christmas cards for two years telling me how much she loved me. I dodged a bullet with that one.

Nowadays I work from home and am moving into a nice newly built house with no debt other than the new mortgage. I live a quiet and simple life and do whatever I want whenever I want. I have zero tolerance for women anymore and just want nothing to do with them. As others have posted, women are now basically invisible to me.

Reading this site has made me realize that I was never the problem. Women were. My depressions and anxiety are completely gone and I have told my psychiatrist to take a hike. He had me believing I was Bipolar and on meds that never worked and he just kept ramping up to stronger and more damaging stuff. I never truly believed his diagnosis but figured he was the doc and he knew better than I. Now I know better than him.

Anyways, thanks to all of you who have posted in the forums. Your stories have helped me pinpoint the root cause of my lifelong depressions and anxieties. Now that I have gone full MGTOW I feel as though the weight of the world has been lifted from my shoulders.

Cheers, JustSomeGuy

P.S. Interesting little tidbit. Since going full MGTOW I have had to find a new person to cut my hair as my previous person was my old neighbors wife. Ends up she is getting divorced and was trying to use me as her personal therapist as to “what is wrong with my husband, why won’t he talk to me”. I found a new woman to cut my hair and she fell all over me after I mentioned that I was moving into a newly built house soon. Was I married? Divorced? Widowed? She talked about her husband who had died four years ago and how she thinks she will never find a new husband as no single men she meets want to get married (LOL). I kept a straight face, told her how sorry I was that her husband died but that I absolutely will never marry. She just sighed and seemed like she wanted to cry. Oh well. She can blame the feminists, not me. Unfortunately now I will have to find yet another person to cut my hair. I won’t go back to her.

[UntamedParticipant]

This is good reading, JustSomeGuy, I particularly like the part where you tell her you’ll never marry and she sighs almost crying. I agree, she can blame it on feminists and Mengina Courts.
Congrats on never having been married. I can’t say that much, I had to put my hand in the fire to experience a bit of hell.
Thanks for the intro and welcome to MGTOW.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! I’m glad you found us.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 18]

Welcome brother.

You were never the problem.

It’s never a problem to live for yourself and find happiness in all things made by and for men.

There is an abundance of everything when you are not focused on a bitch with an agenda.

[Anonymous 26]

Welcome…. on many levels we’ve both walked down the same road you and I. A gravel road full of pot holes, washboard, and lose gravel. I have felt the same as you brother…. even surrounded by what I thought were my friends, and on some occasions even with family. I too have been told that I would make an excellent father to some child, and often (and quite recently) been asked…. why aren’t you with a good woman.

And my recent reply…..There are no good women, it’s an oxymoron (especially heavy on the moron part)

For the last three years I’ve buzzed my own hair with clippers, and have become pretty good at it too. The last time a woman cut my hair…. she practically snipped an earlobe off!

Congratulations on your new achievements… your house and especially firing your psychiatrist (sounds like he was using you as make work project… who knows what toy of his you were paying off).

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Welcome brotha, it’s never too late to become MGTOW. Remember to put your happiness in your own hands. Never give your happiness to someone else no matter how much you trust them.

Spend your life focusing on yourself and make time for doing things you enjoy

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[JustSomeGuyParticipant 60]

Thanks for the welcome guys. Appreciate it.

Untamed … I felt a bit sorry for that woman. Not enough to do anything but still a bit sorry. She repeatedly talked about how wonderful her husband was and how she wished he hadn’t died. She may be a decent woman but I don’t care to find out. Unfortunately for her, the sisterhood has most likely destroyed her chances for a decent future. I do wonder when women will wake up and start realizing just what the sexual revolution and feminism has taken away from them. Not that I will be holding my breath or anything (LOL).

iLearn … yes, I am not the problem. It took me a long time to realize that. I always wanted a family. I love kids and would have been a great father. It saddens me to know that I won’t have kids but, oh well, such is life. That feeling of missing out is what drove my depressions.

It has been very interesting seeing the world through red pill eyes. Went to my nieces for Thanksgiving. Small group, my niece & her husband, their year old twins, my brother & his wife and his wife’s sister. The women seemed to automatically sense that something was different about me but they couldn’t put their finger on it. At one point I was talking to my brother about some new interests, bluegrass music and watching figure skating videos on Youtube (love the artistry of figure skating — particularly pairs skating). The women picked up on that from across the room and informed me in imperious tones that I only was watching the figure skating videos because of the young girls and that it was disgusting because I am old. My response … damned right baby, cute girls in skimpy outfits. I was then told I was a pervert. My response … nope, not a pervert, its just that as I get older women stay the same age -> 20. I got snarls from the women but I just laughed my ass off and went back to talking to my brother.

Cheers

[StanAndreasParticipant 160]

Welcome, brother, and thanks for a good story!

Safety rules: All guns are loaded. All knives are sharp. All stoves are hot. All women are like that.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Welcome sir! I am glad you found your balance and finally realized you were not the problem. It is a nasty thing how young boys get indoctrinated into thinking they cannot be happy unless they become slaves to the system and some woman. And if they don’t, they struggle for many years with all kinds of negative feelings. That’s the main reason I keep coming back here, to let others know that they will only find happiness in themselves and to warn them about the realities of the so called “good family life”.
Don’t feel bad for choosing SANITY!

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[ShadeParticipant 53]

Great intro man! The P.S. was priceless too.

Gohan: "But you can't just leave me out here all alone, that's cruel!" Piccolo: "Hey kid, LIFE is cruel! And don't you forget it!"

[BufordParticipant 935]

Lovely intro. Never got married myself. Wisdom or luck? Who knows? I’ll settle for blind luck though. Welcome mate.

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

[Anonymous 42]

JustSomeGuy wrote:

Reading this site has made me realize that I was never the problem.

@someguy, confirmation staring you in the face does wonders! This place is litany of confirmations that feminism= man deterioration and eventual destruction! Glad to see you made it out of the fire without being incinerated! Welcome to the fire brigade!

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

JustSomeGuy wrote:

mperious tones that I only was watching the figure skating videos because of the young girls and that it was disgusting because I am old.

<<Cue the high-pitched, shrill/screaming voice>>
Girls emergency! Another one’s getting away from the plantation! Quick, shame him back here! Let’s use the old standard “you should be ashamed of your sexuality, that always does the trick! </>

LOL. Me man. Me like hot girls. You old hag. Old hag not hot.

Welcome JSG & glad you made it home. The journey to self-improvement is a long one, but it has great cars, great burgers & great company along the way. The tank’s full & you’re in the driver’s seat.

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome brother ! enjoy !

[VeniversumParticipant 492]

Society takes bites of your dignity until you have none left, after which they banish you for being “depressed”. F~~~ society. They tell us we are flawed so many times that after a while we begin to believe it, and then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Never again. It’s not us, it’s them. They reward bad behavior; end of story.

[FreeatlastParticipant 24]

Welcome, and congrats on freeing yourself from femtyranny!

Daughter in law accosted me with the same guilt but it sounded like “what do you see in those girls” I threw some logic at her, all women have problems men around them have to deal with, I asked her if I should be rewarded with either a fifties body or a twenties body for putting up with those problems, then added that the twenties girls knew a lot less about inflicting treachery.

She changed the subject then slapped the crap out of her husband for snickering….

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