Been on a journey of self discovery and healing, to sound as cliche as possible, and thats what brought me here, really.
I felt like all the girls/women in my life had been psychopaths, that being my mother, my sisters and one serious girlfriend (im only seventeen), but upon realizing that practically ALL women are like this (#yesallwomen.. LOL), to some degree, i felt like i could alleviate the idea from myself that i was the only one unlucky enough to bear this pain , and realise that ALL men are going through this bulls~~~, but it’s just the minority who are lucky/sane enough to wise up and go their own way, and hear i am.
And yeah i’ve never been married and im young so i haven’t bore the brunt of women, in a relationship, like the grown men here have (some of the stories are f~~~ed up, but not really surprising to me), but i have bore the brunt of being a son to one of these so-called women, cold, un-caring, abusive, hot-n-cold, and was only there for me when she felt like it. She raised my sisters to be the same, and my dad is a caged lap-dog who takes out his emotional problems and the fact he’s in chains, on his kids, so there we have it, the modern 21st century family! Dysfunctional and abusive to the point it only functions through its evil flaws (or is that the definition of dysfunction anyway?)
Im aware that my parents would be diagnosed as Narcissistic Personality Disordered, and Borderline, but i dont buy into those diagnoses for one minute, despite their seductiveness. NPD applies to most women, and men who act according to the NPD specification are simply emotionally abused by their mothers since birth, and so acting the way they do to prevent further pain, i mean, this is very normal as of today, it is simply a way of protecting your emotions and self, and well, from reading the posts on this site, it seems like that is a must. Im not advocating ill behaviour, just saying.
One thing that older people on this site are spot on about, is the male youth’s growing detachment from women. Most boys now are being born to these cold and aloof mothers, and so grow up, literally unable to get close to girls emotionally, and not wanting too, for the pain caused by their mother, whether they are even conscious of their mothers ill treatment or not..
Womens own ill behaviour and toxic ways will be the cause of the next generation of men going their own way, but not out of choice, out of an inability to do anything else. We really are seeing their bulls~~~ for what it is, and females seem like a dying franchise, too me, this is why they are becoming more entitled, more egotistical and demanding, while more fragile also. They will be screaming, eyes shut, while they run off a cliff, too stubborn to open their eyes, turn around, and see nobody is chasing them, they’ve been running by themselves all along. I dont know if that was a good analogy/metaphor or a terrible one, lol.
The growing detachment between men and women, to the point of near complete seperation it seems, will no doubt have disastrous effects to the longevity of real western civillization, as mass amounts of immigrants are swamping into europe, while practically no european babies are being born. But, going our own way, is the only way, seems our hand is forced despite the future consequences.
Well anyway , thats my intro, thanks for your time
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