My Intro

[DeereJohn0075`Participant 11]

I have been a lurker here for awhile. I have read the stories, watched videos and WOW. this stuff about women is true and reflects what im going through. I am married to a worthless woman and have 2 kids.I am planning my escape, it will be slow and merciless. My so called wife displays the traits of a “princess” that can do no wrong and turns everything into my fault. She would destroy me if i left now, so i am waiting until the kids are 18 to walk. Don’t judge, I have created a plan of hiding cash, lawyering up. I have been a slave for 14 years, so she is legally entitled to half of my retirement. I work, she doesnt and has never had was employed. I wont do house work because anything i do she will find something wrong that doesn’t appease her.I hate it. She is a lazy, selfserving, whiny,entitled pig that doesnt do anything to contribute to the household. My way will take 8 more years of this. Then i will be out. This is my intro, My time, on this site, is limited for now. Thanks for having a place like this, its my peace for my sanity, for my limited time online.

[GregB0Participant]

Welcome and great to hear that you are being smart and calculating in planning your escape.

Hopefully you will leave intact and your children will know the real reason why.

Keep us posted and remember that the advice and experience of members is a great asset and free for the asking.

Best of luck.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Get your arsenal ready.
Store your supplies.
And run away as soon as posible.

Runnn forest runnn.

The other side of the fence is greener (at least for me)

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 42]

I’m thanking my lucky stars!

Welcome to the site, glad to hear from you!

A woman that doesn’t obey and serve her husband is the devils work, and we can see he built an EMPIRE!

[MonkParticipant 17050]

DeereJohn0075` wrote:

I have created a plan of hiding cash, lawyering up.

Yes. Thinking it through is vital.

Hiding money is a good move. Skim your accounts regularly – always take out a little more than you really need. Gold, silver, foreign deposits, safety deposit boxes.

My way will take 8 more years of this. Then i will be out.

If you can manage to play the long game, then good luck to you. Just watch that she doesn’t strike first – she will be hip to the 18-year tripwire too.

[StealthParticipant 5382]

8 years is a long time.
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Enough time for her to make her move on year 7.
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Something to think about.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[JVBParticipant]

Welcome bro. You are amongst friends. Beers are in Sky O’s fridge. Look forward to hearing more from you.

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 3]

Thank you for your honesty & good luck with your plan.
Welcome!!

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome brother. I would start planning and collecting data now. Plan your escape. Looks. Like your stuck in the same wonderful area of the country I am.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Welcome DJ,

I was in your situation twenty five years ago. But, my “luck” changed when she got pregnant again, and this time it was with another man’s child. And she chose to run off with him.

Our marriage was so dysfunctional that “my give a dam got broke” and I was very happy to be rid of her.

Nevertheless, it was very painful in many ways, especially to watch them abuse my son and also know that those so called “Adults” were mostly living off of my Child Support payments for a decade.

DeereJohn0075` wrote:

…….so i am waiting until the kids are 18 to walk. Don’t judge……….

Not from me.

My son in his twenties has been homeless, raped in jail, and is hooked on Meth.

So, I often wonder if things would be better for him and my soul if I stayed married to his mother until he turned 18.

Anyway, while you are on the MGTOW road up until you are divorced, you are in a position to examine a Woman’s methods of manipulation and your own reactions in real time. Also, you will have hands on experience/ knowledge in dealing with Narcissistic & Borderline Personality Disorders.

Perhaps you can post field reports in the Forums as you gain your freedom?

The following are some other YouTube posts of interest to assist with your research from behind enemy lines.

Turd flinging monkey:
See “The fable of the frog and the scorpion,” it is after the third in the series.

Male vs. female brain development and evolution. The title of video is “She will never love you:”

Feminism LOL:
The speaker is an attorney who uses a recording of the techniques of a low class woman caught in the act of committing a crime. Her crude use of emotional hijacking and mind control of her man is a fine example. The speaker’s evaluation of the manipulation techniques used is excellent. The title of the video is “Exposing how women manipulate men:”

Keep in mind that it is important to develope the ability to laugh at yourself and at the sordid aspects of “Woman’s Nature” and the consequences for the men who is in a RelationS~~~s with womyn.

DeereJohn0075` wrote:

……..I have been a slave for 14 years, so she is legally entitled to half of my retirement……

The following link is to a Post that discusses your point and your feedback in that Post is appreciated:

/forums/topic/the-f~~~ing-that-you-get-isnt-worth-the-f~~~ing-that-youll-get/

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[OldBillParticipant]

DeereJohn0075` wrote:

…so i am waiting until the kids are 18 to walk. Don’t judge…

No one will judge you here. While the details may vary, there are plenty of men here in the same situation. They too are waiting for children to reach a certain age or other events to occur.

What sets both you and them apart from all the men complaining about their marriages is that you are planning to take action. You’re just not grousing, you’ve taken concrete steps to free yourself when the time is right. That’s something you should be proud of.

Welcome to the site and keep fighting the good fight.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 7]

First welcome and good luck.

I would bet dollars to doughnuts that your pumpkin is at this very minute planing her exit and she won’t wait on the kids turning 18.

I have not been married and therefore not gone through a divorce so this is just me repeating info I learned here.

The person the files first has the advantage.
Something about if you are second to the party in the courts eyes you are the ‘criminal’. In other words you will be playing defense while cupcake is on offense.

Eight years is a long time to save for retirement that snowflake is just going take half (or more) of.
Also, the quicker you get it over with the sooner you can start your recovery.

Now, I applaud you for being a standup guy to your kids. Good on you.

Again, good luck.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

As I see it, you need to take the nuclear option on retirement and squirrel away as much cash, bullion coins as possible. If the wealth is found missing, you gambled it/put it in the bra straps of hookers/drug habit/it was stolen. It would be interesting to hear your progress. Banks are not your friend. Weird accounts like your tax account and gambling accounts and international travel cards can be your used creatively.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[DeereJohn0075`Participant 11]

I am doing some thinking, maybe i can get it done in 6 years. I can live cheaply, she cant. I have been thinking about what i have read and learned, and i see it playing out in my legal contract with this woman daily. Holy s~~~ i should have listened to my friends when they told me to not marry. She has made sure they dont come around anymore. That sucks.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

It is foolish to judge quickly because every single man that I know who has been through what you are going through has a different hand to play, just like poker, so you can’t expect one man to play his hand exactly like another’s.

I haven’t gotten into that trap, but have known a lot of men who have been snared and got out. The best cases have something in common with yours in that they planned their escape from the trap with great care.

If you plan well, keeping in mind that she could well make a move herself within the next 8 years, you will be in a far better position to handle that scenario that you would other wise be.

Get good advice and legal council, keep as big a reserve of resources as possible and be very careful who you share that information with.

Rats breed quickly.

I’m pulling for you.

Frank V.

PS: Men like you warned me and helped keep me out of the trap years ago, so I can never judge harshly.

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I would bet dollars to doughnuts that your pumpkin is at this very minute planing her exit and she won’t wait on the kids turning 18.

This is extremely important advice, DeereJohn, so please heed it.

Your wife is already working on her exit strategy and you better plan for for her planning. A fairly recent member started his time here bragging about his “fool proof” plans to kick his wife out of their home, pay little or no child support, and all the rest. Everyone warned him, but he “knew” better and wouldn’t listen.

Fast forward several months, he’s living in an apartment, she still lives in the house, and he’s paying for both. Meanwhile the divorce action is crawling forward at the speed she has chosen. His own hubris and wishful thinking booted him right in the groin. You don’t want to be that guy.

By all means plan and by all means plan on filing the day after your youngest turns 18, but please plan for unforeseen contingencies too. You can’t predict what she’s going to do, something you should know that by now after living with her. You need to be ready to act when it seems she’s is about to. You may not have everything in perfect order, your plans may be nowhere near complete, but you’ll still need to act before she chooses to do so.

The courts are stacked heavily against you. Filing first tilt things a little more towards your favor. You must file first at almost all cost.

I don’t know if you’re come across Terrence Popp yet. He has a number of videos which will help you plan for your divorce and teach you what the warning signs are for her decision to divorce.

His site is: redonkulas DOT com

Good luck and take Popp’s advice to heart.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[LEO THE WISEParticipant 249]

Welcome to the manhood realm.

Leo the wise : Giving to all men their needed uprise My MGTOW YOUTUBE channel, first vid : https://youtu.be/Xt-tJgVUGuI

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

welcome and you are not judged.

Many here have waited (Including myself).

Get her back into the work force and earning.

Like you, had I left 12-15 years ago I’d have paid through the nose, but was able to get her back into the workforce and do other things in preparation. I’m going through the year of hell right now. I’ve not done everything right, but if I can help in any way, please reach out.

Hunker down and make your plans.

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