My Idiot Ex – the most recent episode

[TaxGuyParticipant]

The holidays. Always fun after a divorce. For years I tried to convince my ex that instead of buying a bunch of worthless crap for Christmas we should start a tradition of traveling every year. She never liked the idea, until we got divorced. Since then she has taken the girls on a trip a couple of times and wants to do so again this year. Which is fine with me, I want them to have fun over the holidays.

Here’s the kicker. She wants me to go with them. Thinks it would be a good time. For those of you not keeping score (I’m assuming all of you), this is her third major attempt at monkey-branching. I was caught off guard and told her I’d think about it. Yeah, I thought about it. F~~~ NO!!

Oh yeah, she also made the “mistake” of texting me about a month ago something about having a sex dream about me. She was texting me and a friend at the same time and made the “mistake” of answering a question from her friend to me. I just ignored it. I don’t care if it was just a mistake or trying to get me interested. Those days are long gone.

A day late and dollar short as the saying goes….

Order the good wine

[BoarParticipant]

Hmmmm. Sounds like she is rebounding from the Wall. Be careful.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Anonymous 42]

It’s all part of the torture.

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[RorschachParticipant 2083]

TaxGuy wrote:

Oh yeah, she also made the “mistake” of texting me about a month ago something about having a sex dream about me. She was texting me and a friend at the same time and made the “mistake” of answering a question from her friend to me. I just ignored it.

Accidentally on purpose. It’s funny that the only times that has ever happened to me is some broad trying to pull something. Complete ball-less tap dancing around the issue, she wont even just come out and say she wants to f~~~ you. Just say no. Its almost tax season you dont have time for that s~~~.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

There is always at least one scheme going on in the land of the cluster b.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Just curious on how the finances are to be handled on those trips she wants you to go on with her and the kids?

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[GregB0Participant]

TaxGuy wrote:

A day late and dollar short as the saying goes….

Nice of her to let you know so that you can give your girls a prepaid VISA card for fun/gifts/stuff personal spending.

Lets them know that you do care about them, but the Mommy/Daddy thing is gone down the drain of life.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[TaxGuyParticipant]

GregB0 wrote:

Nice of her to let you know so that you can give your girls a prepaid VISA card for fun/gifts/stuff personal spending.

Their bank accounts are tied to mine, so it’s even easier than that. But yeah, that’s the plan.

Romulus wrote:

Just curious on how the finances are to be handled on those trips she wants you to go on with her and the kids?

That topic hasn’t come up. And it won’t because she’ll get a big fat no before that happens.

Anonymous wrote:

Rinse and repeat.

Amen.

Order the good wine

[AllenParticipant 146]

I had this come up a couple times… I told her I thought it was a great idea and that NEXT year, I’d like to take him on a trip over Christmas break, and to have fun on her trip this year. Ain’t no way I’m going anywhere with her ever again. I divorced her for a reason, lol.

Woman - I picture a man, then take away reason and accountability. - Melvin Udall

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

TaxGuy wrote:

She wants me to go with them.

An attempt to guilt/shame you(using the girls as leverage) into financing “her” trip.

TaxGuy wrote:

Oh yeah, she also made the “mistake” of texting me about a month ago

The only mistake would be responding/reacting to her text.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

She NOW realizes EVERYTHING that SHE GAVE UP, and NOW YOU realize EVERYTHING that YOU got rid of.

She wants back in, and you want to steer clear.

I can’t say that I can blame either one of you !! LOL LOL LOL

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[TrailbossParticipant 1844]

Sounds like you have the right idea, telling her “No”! If you give in you WILL regret it…financially and emotionally…for the rest of your life.

An educated, armed populace cannot be enslaved.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

All the advantages of having a husband with none of the responsibilities of being a wife. That’s a neat trick if she can pull it off. This woman hasn’t finished using you yet, and she wont until she has another man that she can transfer her needs to.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I feel a growing NFG on you.

Embrace it, come to the dark side… we have cookies. (Sugar free if you are diabetic)

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 42]

Being single all my life and being able to claim my sovereignty legally in a court of law has become something I claim to be a diamond in my life!

I don’t have to divulge a divorce status on legal documents subject to perjury the way a divorced man considers himself single after he’s divorced!

Not so, he’s “legally” divorced for the remainder of his life! Tramp Stamped!

In a couple years I’m going to auction off my sovereignty on eBay for an a$tronomical PRISE $!$!$

A clean un-stamped man without a DDS (dirty divorce stamp) on his life and STD’s to go with it!

Yippie!

I knew I’d figure out $omething that will be worth $even Fugure$ in future$!(inflation)
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[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

how insulting! she must figure you are dumber than a box of hammers—guess again NOT!

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22507]

Oh f~~~ yes she is trying to get you back.

She wants to do exactly what you asked for before and would never do. Kids and her on holiday getaway where you get “special sex”.
The accidental text was no accident.

When you are awake they are so awalt transparent.

What is really funny is that for supposedly being so intuitive and reading people she cant pick up you are mgtow. She wouldnt waste her time if she knew, she would know its pointless. Kinda in the way 70 year old women dont even think to go after 20ish Chads.

When she gets ice cold on you again, thats her figuring out her stuff isnt gonna work on you. Prepare now for this. Predictable as the sun rising in the morning.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

If you’re paying child support you are already funding the trip. If you’re there every time the kids want a souvenir, ice cream or when all of you sit down for a meal you will looked to for paying that. What a sweet deal for her. Is she trying to get you back, or get back at you? She can do both with this deal. In the beginning of the trip you pay and she f~~~s you. Towards the end of the trip you pay and she tells you to f~~~ off. No matter what – you lose. The text was just a s~~~ test to see if she can groom you for the trip. Dangle a little putinanny and she if you take the bait. If you think she wants you, think again. It’s about that wallet you’re sitting on. Trips aren’t cheap and have lots of hidden costs she get you to cover.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Oh f~~~ yes she is trying to get you back.

Only long enough to cover trip costs. Not permanently.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

FrostByte wrote:

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Oh f~~~ yes she is trying to get you back.

Only long enough to cover trip costs. Not permanently.

A couple months ago she asked me to get back together permanently and I told her no. I THINK this is just a way to get a little alone time to try to convince me to come back to the plantation.

That said, it isn’t about me. It never was. It’s only about access to my wallet and the fact that she thought the grass was greener. She thought she’d get half my money and a new man to spend cash on her, but she ended up with a guy that doesn’t make that much. Now she’s realizing that she hit the wall and is panicking and hoping to at least get back to where she was.

The music stopped and there’s no more chairs left. Not even an empty one….

Order the good wine

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