My FWB's

[StealthParticipant 5326]

I’ve recently had a couple of social encounters with my former long-term fwb’s.

The first one, 37, has been chasing a PUA for a while now, and let me know she just recently caught herpes from him. She knows he is a player and that she is being played, but “she likes it.” She also knows he has had a lot of partners and was a higher risk choice in a number of ways. The usual dialogue from someone who admits to having it is that it’s not a big deal, it’s controllable/manageable, everyone has it, or it’s not as easy to spread as they say, etc. I understand that but my personal philosophy is I don’t want it and won’t risk getting it. At all. I don’t mean “manageable exposure.” Also, if you’re so good at managing it, then how did you get it in the first place? She was fun while she lasted (it ended a few years ago, with random occasional encounters since), but another one bites the dust.

The second former fwb, 39, lives in another part of the state. I randomly found myself nearby on New Year’s Eve and attempted to get in touch with her. I’ve refused her lately when she proposed sex with me a few different times––in large part because I know she admitted to me that she is trying to get pregnant. But so far she hasn’t, and on this holiday when we both had time off…that blue pill devil on my shoulder whispered…who knows, maybe it would be worth stopping by. Well she did call me back later and we caught up, she was telling me what was going on in her life. Turns out she wants to get pregnant so bad that the previous night she had solicited a random guy off the street to ejaculate into a cup, paid him cash, and then had a platonic male friend injected it into her space with a turkey baster. Think about that for a moment.
Bullet dodged.

It’s getting tough out there, boys. For them as well as for us, and both as a result of the dilapidated state of gender relations brought on by the feminist- and consumer-lobbied state.

I’ve gone monk for intervals at a time, but sex with these creatures is looking less attractive all the time. At 38, I’m not old but am getting older, and with stories like the above as the norm, it’s to the point where I’d rather keep my fly zipped, my hygiene on point, and stay home. It’s the same theme we’ve all mentioned before… It’s just that I see myself in a new position along the continuum than just a couple of years ago.

In the MGTOW community, going monk is often propagated as advanced or reaching enlightenment, or as the only true way to be MGTOW. But I always thought that if I ever went monk, it should be a state I arrive at naturally, rather than pressuring myself towards some group ideal, as I did in my religious youth. I’d rather live my life the best way I know how, and wake up and realize I ended up going monk, than be concerned about what strangers on the internet think about my life choices and make changes accordingly. And that’s going your own way, isn’t it?

With the possibility of this site closing down on Jan 21st (a sort of “Y2K” event… MG2K?), I reflect on my involvement with this community. I started following this site as a 33 year old purple piller who thought there was something “off” about my borderline married girlfriend (who still stalks me) and angry (I still am) at my recent divorce rape of years of my working life. I’m now more seasoned, and a gun owner, both partly due to the opportunity to share insights on this site. Even if this site drops, the wisdom I have learned and shared will stay with me in my journey, and hopefully also in yours.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

Herp is not something anyone wants to have. Conventional treatment will not ever get rid of it. I never have understood how people think permanent std’s are no big deal. They tax your body constantly even when you don’t know they are.

You also realizeas you get older you really dont want to squander away your good health. Often you can’t get it back.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[WallyParticipant]

Almost like she was proud of her herpes. The spread of these diseases is going to be the end of humanity, super bugs are already showing up.

Diseased women, cluster B women are enough to make one go monk.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3753]

Stealth wrote:

Turns out she wants to get pregnant so bad that the previous night she had solicited a random guy off the street to ejaculate into a cup, paid him cash, and then had a platonic male friend injected it into her space with a turkey baster. Think about that for a moment.Bullet dodged.

Jeez !!! You can’t make stuff like that up !!! Missile dodged, man.

Stealth wrote:

I’d rather live my life the best way I know how, and wake up and realize I ended up going monk, than be concerned about what strangers on the internet think about my life choices and make changes accordingly. And that’s going your own way, isn’t it?

It is. Otherwise it wouldn’t feel like your life and would put in a situation you don’t want.

Stealth wrote:

Even if this site drops, the wisdom I have learned and shared will stay with me in my journey, and hopefully also in yours.

Absolutely. There has been a marked increase in contentment levels for me since I’ve joined. I know I’ll NEVER fall back into blue-pill habits. EVER. Thanks to all on here. Only here. There has been zero MGTOW influence in real life. MGTOW.com has been the lighthouse of my journey so far.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

Wally wrote:

Almost like she was proud of her herpes. The spread of these diseases is going to be the end of humanity, super bugs are already showing up.
Diseased women, cluster B women are enough to make one go monk.

Her hamster is downplaying it because she knows, and can’t get it out of her head, that its devastating to her SMV value.

Shes trying to pass it off as no sweat, no biggie, its your problem if it bothers you.

She knows she’s killed off any good beta wallet prospects, unless they have the herp too.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3753]

I’m already cautious in public restrooms… but after reading more about this, I think I’ll hold it in until I get home instead. Scary invisible bugs ! BLEH !

[MonkParticipant 16975]

Stealth wrote:

The second former fwb, 39, lives in another part of the state. I randomly found myself nearby on New Year’s Eve and attempted to get in touch with her. I’ve refused her lately when she proposed sex with me a few different times––in large part because I know she admitted to me that she is trying to get pregnant.

Are you on a kamikaze mission or something?

Simply turning her down could lead to a spiteful false allegation. Random man off the street and a turkey baster? Jesus. H. Christ. That’s textbook crazy.

Waiting until you become ‘naturally’ monk? No – you go monk on the facts. It’s a rational business decision made on the the basis of what you see around you.

If you wait until you are played out you won’t last that long. With stakes that high and odds like that, want to play the lottery?

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Monk wrote:

Stealth wrote:

The second former fwb, 39, lives in another part of the state. I randomly found myself nearby on New Year’s Eve and attempted to get in touch with her. I’ve refused her lately when she proposed sex with me a few different times––in large part because I know she admitted to me that she is trying to get pregnant.

Are you on a kamikaze mission or something?
Simply turning her down could lead to a spiteful false allegation. Random man off the street and a turkey baster? Jesus. H. Christ. That’s textbook crazy.

That one WROTE the textbook for Cra-zee!

Waiting until you become ‘naturally’ monk? No – you go monk on the facts. It’s a rational business decision made on the the basis of what you see around you.
If you wait until you are played out you won’t last that long. With stakes that high and odds like that, want to play the lottery?

He’s right yaknow….
It is not a matter of your body telling you WHEN to go full MONK; It is a quality decision of thought.(your body could help you in making that decision but it is ultimately up to YOU</strong

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[GrumpyParticipant]

bahahahahahaha…
Sorry I didn’t mean to bahahahahahahahahaha.
snicker..
sorry, couldn’t help myself.

S~~~ like this makes me picture Robert Crumb’s artwork.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[MonkParticipant 16975]

Grumpy wrote:

bahahahahahaha…Sorry I didn’t mean to bahahahahahahahahaha.snicker..sorry, couldn’t help myself.
S~~~ like this makes me picture Robert Crumb’s artwork.

Or the Fabulous Furry Freak Brothers. It’s bizarre enough.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Monk wrote:

Or the Fabulous Furry Freak Brothers. It’s bizarre enough.

Multiple thumbs up.
We are either showing our age, or collectors of old comics.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

FWB with women 35 and over is a very dangerous game to play. In my experience the majority of them fall into two groups.

1)Multiple children, often with multiple fathers and obvious bad decision makers, Low quality rented home, low paid job, lots of debt. Now they will tell you they just want to see someone for an occasional night out and sex, but the reality is they want someone to make their s~~~ty life and decisions go away. They want to meet a man who will let them move into his nice house with her children, be a baby daddy, buy her an SUV and let her live the lifestyle she believes her friends are living.

2)Single women, f~~~ed hundreds of men, probably living in a house share with younger people, low paid job, debt, trying to live like she was when she was in her 20s but starting to realise it is getting too much. Realises her fertility is slipping through her hands and wants a baby now. Doesn’t care who the daddy is, in an idea world it would be a guy with a nice house and money but right now she hasn’t got any more time and realistically realises he isn’t looking for her.

Either way FWB doesn’t exist for Beta’s, they only want you because they think you are going to take them away from it all.

Definitely not worth the potential of having your life f~~~ed over for sex with a pussy that the Alphas long since discarded and is on the cusp of going bad.

Oh and at 38 you are in your prime, I went from no pussy in my 20s to being knee deep when I hit 40.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

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