My FWB asked me to be her boyfriend

[MrBurnsParticipant 83]

“Do you want to be my boyfriend?”
“No. You’re a nice girl, but I don’t want to ruin what we have.”

Friend-with-benefits zoned her and it went well. No tears. Not even a frown.

A bit of background, we’ve been sleeping together for over a year. During that time I’ve banged tons of other people (having only recently gone from PUA to MGHOW), she has hooked up a couple times too which is fine. She recently started going to college though so I’ve been vaccinating her against the feminism virus by having the occasional chat about s~~~ they say and the usual arguments for and against. I’ve made it crystal clear that I will never get married, reproduce, or share a single penny with her. I offer only good sex and physical intimacy which she can take or walk away. She’s been really good about it which is the only reason I haven’t gone full on celibate (yet?).

Still I’ve been partially expecting the question for months now. I’ve been telling her to find a mangina to get her relationship needs fulfilled while she keeps f~~~ing me on the side. She’s looked for one but is way too picky and rejects everyone.

“Do you want to be my boyfriend?”
“No. You’re a nice girl, but I don’t want to ruin what we have.”
“Ok”
“Are you upset?”
“No, I guess I knew what your answer was, I just had to make sure. I hope asking that doesn’t change anything.”

[22DeeboiParticipant 259]

You handled it well man, just be aware of anything funny she tries to pull. With that question she may be planning something…

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MrBurns wrote:

Still I’ve been partially expecting the question for months now. I’ve been telling her to find a mangina to get her relationship needs fulfilled while she keeps f~~~ing me on the side. She’s looked for one but is way too picky and rejects everyone.

“Her relationship needs”.

Maybe it’s a just a matter of time before she realizes a “her relationship needs” are all just bulls~~~.
A “relationship” just having sex between movies and getting something to eat.

So you cut out the movies and the meals. She can get a girlfriend for her “relationship needs”. She doesn’t even need a guy for that! Even her gay best friend will do. He goes with her to the mall and listens to her talk about golden retriever puppies….. and she gets her other needs met with you! Awesome!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[OldBillParticipant]

MrBurns wrote:

Friend-with-benefits zoned her and it went well. No tears. Not even a frown.

Very well done and kudos to you.

Be aware, however, that her question was just the opening salvo of her attack. Women are mortally certain that they can change men if they just try hard enough. Given the way manginas, white knights, and all the other pusillanimous pansies usually behave, it’s understandable that women have this belief. Your current cum sponge is just beginning her assault on you.

She’s already asked you flat out and has seemingly “accepted” your reply. You’ll note that, in response to your suggestion that she find a boyfriend to meet her “relationship” needs, she’s been claiming that she’s “too picky” and can’t find anyone.

You’re right her in cross hairs, Aaron, and it’s only going to get worse. While you won’t ever give in to her demands, it might be worthwhile to dump her sooner than later. Things could get nasty and women have government sanction to f~~~ up men’s lives.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 3]

Reminds me of this one girl that I was with some years ago. She wanted me to play her boyfriend stooge and brought up marriage. I told her “Go get your ex boyfriend, marry him. Have your cute little wedding with him. I’ll be the guy who crashes the party in the motorcycle and takes off with you.”

Yep, there are only two types of guys. The ones that women cheat on, and the ones that they cheat with.

And let me guess, if and when she gets a boyfriend, she’s most likely going to put up this innocent, reformed virgin facade and act as if she has class, have the guy jump through hoops and hoops before he gets to hit the slot c, the very same hole she gave to f~~~buddies for free for years, the very same hole that rode the carousel hard for years. Not only that, by then, she’s aged, older, probably hit the wall, ugly, into some higher spirituality s~~~ and expects the guy to just kowtow because she’s an angel. Give me a break.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

Well don eindeed!

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Watch for the pregnancy trap,check your condoms and never use any that she gives you! She see’s your mind is made up so she feels she has to change that for you by undercutting marriage and trying to get pregnant in hopes of you marrying her. They are f~~~ed up that way!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

Watch for the pregnancy trap,check your condoms and never use any that she gives you! She see’s your mind is made up so she feels she has to change that for you by undercutting marriage and trying to get pregnant in hopes of you marrying her. They are f~~~ed up that way!

Yup, never believe a woman who tells you not to bother with a condom as she is on the pill or plain just can’t get pregnant. I fell for that one and at the age of 43 she got pregnant and had a baby. There was another man on the scene at the time and it was a 50/50 chance of me being the baby daddy which was one of the most stressful and scary times of my life. She said she wanted nothing from me if it was mine, but I knew the 18 years of child support was coming once she spoke to her friends.

Lucky for me it turned out not to be mine, which is one of the closest escapes I have ever had.

Never, ever trust a woman always wear a condom or better still get the snip.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

I would nope out of there, you’ve told her your game plan so now she knows to use covert methods (I.e oops I’m preggerz).

Run, Forest, run!

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

https://youtu.be/MLmrpctTvmc

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

The other day, a guy wanted to fight over a girl with me……

I said: I don’t tolerate that s~~~ (her behavior). Keep her!
And by doing that you devalue her, the old, supply and demand theory. Lol I sleeped like a baby that night, too.
The End!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

bigboy83 wrote:

The other day, a guy wanted to fight over a girl with me……
I said: I don’t tolerate that s~~~ (her behavior). Keep her!And by doing that you devalue her, the old, supply and demand theory. Lol I sleeped like a baby that night, too.The End!

Fight him ? F~~~ no ! I bought the other man a beer once for doing me the favor ! Grand to see another man who doesn’t take that crap.

Why fight a man doing you a favor ?

Frank V.

[MrBurnsParticipant 83]

Thanks for the feedback, gents.

Saw her again last night, apparently she might have finally found a boyfriend she likes… she still wanted to f~~~ though, as expected.

I said no. I’m totally happy for her, but it’s just time to say good bye.

She was the last remainder of my pua days and I guess this means I’m officially celibate now. I hope I stay that way for the foreseeable future, too. It feels strangely calm.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

MrBurns wrote:

Thanks for the feedback, gents.

Saw her again last night, apparently she might have finally found a boyfriend she likes… she still wanted to f~~~ though, as expected.

I said no. I’m totally happy for her, but it’s just time to say good bye.

She was the last remainder of my pua days and I guess this means I’m officially celibate now. I hope I stay that way for the foreseeable future, too. It feels strangely calm.

While I am not advising people to go celibate, unless it is really their own idea and they wish to, it is wide to know when it is time to end it.

Going any further with her would result in drama, headaches and much worse. Get out while you can.

Frank V.

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