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My friend is a teacher and has a home remodeling side business. He tells me he is busting his ass working two jobs to pay off his student loans and mortgage. Now that his home is almost paid off, he wants to start putting more money aside for his two children’s education.
So today, he tells me that his wife, also a teacher, brought home a bunch of real estate fliers. She has been on him lately about moving since a lot of the teachers in my area have $300,000 homes, albeit with 30 year mortgages. The basements in these new homes aren’t even f~~~ing finished. So that’s another 20 to 30 grand they have to spend on framing, insulating, painting, and decorating.
Terrible.
The way I see it, he’s in a really bad spot now:
If he refuses to move to a new house, he will get the “I’m not happy” speech and his wife will make his life hell, leading to divorce.
If he relents and buys a new home, he will basically erase all the hard work he’s done over the years to pay off the home they almost own. This house has plenty of room for them, btw. All this for a vanity home that they don’t even f~~~ing need.
It’s crap like this that makes me so thankful I never got married. You get put into bad positions like this constantly and there is nothing you can do about it except get bossed around by your childish wife.
I remember when they started seeing each other and he told me that she is the type of woman that will take care of him when he’s old. She is also from a super religious family, so there’s noooooooooooooo way that she will ever screw him over.
Terrible.
He’s married. It’s already too late for him. Once a man makes the mistake of signing on the dotted line, all that can be done is wait for it to all come crashing down, and then try to pick up what’s left of the pieces.
That being said, just because he’s f~~~ed up already doesn’t mean he should compound that f~~~ up by going further into debt for her. He should absolutely refuse to buy a new house. If this leads to divorce, then so be it. The odds are she’ll be divorcing him eventually anyways. And if she divorces him for refusing to get another mortgage to buy her a vanity house, at least after the divorce he won’t be forced to pay off the mortgage for a house he no longer gets to live in.
Anonymous18Why not turn the tables and ask her to get a second job so they can afford it?
She wouldn’t be so persistent then. Sure might nag for a few months but the standard, ‘Honey I would so love to but I am working jobs and the loans need to be paid. Now if you could get a second job and later down the road work hard and overtime to get promotions, we might able to do it. I love you too’.
at least after the divorce he won’t be forced to pay off the mortgage for a house he no longer gets to live in.
Which she gets to keep and move in her live-in boyfriend.
Why not turn the tables and ask her to get a second job so they can afford it?
She wouldn’t be so persistent then. Sure might nag for a few months but the standard, ‘Honey I would so love to but I am working jobs and the loans need to be paid. Now if you could get a second job and later down the road work hard and overtime to get promotions, we might able to do it. I love you too’.
at least after the divorce he won’t be forced to pay off the mortgage for a house he no longer gets to live in.
Which she gets to keep and move in her live-in boyfriend.
Women don’t expect to have to pay for this s~~~, they just expect it to happen so they can post the pictures on Facebook. They don’t think about debt, or worry about having to pay it back all they know is there is a shiny thing that all their friends have and they want a better one than they have.
She gets to keep the house after divorce, move her new boyfriend in and you get the pleasure of paying for it all while you live with your parents or in a rented bedsit. Trust me on this one, I have got the T Shirt.
For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
Anonymous43lol
I was guilted into buying a 140K house when the numbers suggested we could afford about 100K Its only another $300 a month more…s~~~.
10 years later that $300 a month more could have been $36,000 we coulda invested
Also in those 10 years, we bought 3 cars, each one was about $30K, $90K
f~~~ing cruise every year at 9K for 10 years…gotta have a balcony and the meal plan and the drink plan $90 large to ride on a boat, chase mickeymouse and get pukey sick in some third world hole.
Then it was her marathons, walking marathons all over the country, Alaska, Disney, Chicago, Boston, Seattle, New York WTF, She walked while I rode my bike ahead with snacks and drinks. , the same bike she later sold for $5 in her fuked up charity garage sale.instead, we divorced, spent a combined total of $400K, p~~~ed away all the equity we had to split, and she is stuck with a house she cant sell that I renovated room by room. With a s~~~ty driveway. She made a minimum of $100K a year for 10 years and didn’t save a dime.
After divorce she moved in next door to her best bud from hs, into a $400K house shacked up with chad thunderc~~~, further away from work, but still kept our old house too. lol carrying about $6K in mortgages on 2 houses for 7 years while im homeless and wrecked.
I wish I knew to laugh or cry…
Do not be guilted into buying a more expensive house, f~~~ that noise. Draw the line at spending a big pile of cash like that. Do not end up is a 6X10 tent like I did. It was blue, and gray, I splurged for a coleman.
My friend is a teacher and has a home remodeling side business. He tells me he is busting his ass working two jobs to pay off his student loans and mortgage. Now that his home is almost paid off, he wants to start putting more money aside for his two children’s education.
So today, he tells me that his wife, also a teacher, brought home a bunch of real estate fliers. She has been on him lately about moving since a lot of the teachers in my area have $300,000 homes, albeit with 30 year mortgages. The basements in these new homes aren’t even f~~~ing finished. So that’s another 20 to 30 grand they have to spend on framing, insulating, painting, and decorating.
Terrible.
The way I see it, he’s in a really bad spot now:
If he refuses to move to a new house, he will get the “I’m not happy” speech and his wife will make his life hell, leading to divorce.
If he relents and buys a new home, he will basically erase all the hard work he’s done over the years to pay off the home they almost own. This house has plenty of room for them, btw. All this for a vanity home that they don’t even f~~~ing need.
It’s crap like this that makes me so thankful I never got married. You get put into bad positions like this constantly and there is nothing you can do about it except get bossed around by your childish wife.
I remember when they started seeing each other and he told me that she is the type of woman that will take care of him when he’s old. She is also from a super religious family, so there’s noooooooooooooo way that she will ever screw him over.
Terrible.
Jesus f~~~ing christ women are perfect f~~~ing saboteurs. A little f~~~ing weakness in your cards and it’s all over they will blow up a f~~~ing perfectly manageable situation with their f~~~ing whims.
My Ex-wife moved her boyfriend in and then changed the front door (so I no longer had a key) and had a loft conversion done to make it into a 5 bedroom house. This is while I am living with my parents, unable to buy anything.
My name was on the house deeds but she didn’t even bother asking my permission before doing any of this. As far as she was concerned the house was hers and she could do with it what she liked. I suggested selling the house so we could both start again to which she replied “I don’t want to sell, I have just got the house how I like and I refuse to sell it”. She earns around £20K a year working part time and is now living in a house valued at £700k. Remember, I am living with my parents and she never paid a single penny of the mortgage.
In the end her new mangina wallet offered me about 30% of the equity to sign over my share of the house to her so I agreed as it was the only way I would get any money out of her. She would have got a mesher order to stay in the house until the children were 18 (another 13 years) and then would have just made up some disability to avoid having to sell later on.
So she has managed to get a £700k house, never put it a penny and got two guys to pay for it. The new wallet is so stupid he has no legal stake in the house he paid out for, she is now the only name on the deeds. I suspect it won’t be long before he gets the “I love you, i’m just not in love with you” speech and she gets back on the carousel.
I have been saving my arse off and have now managed to get a 50% deposit, my plan is to buy my own little house and never let some slore scam it off me again.
For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
No new home. No way. No how, not happening.
If the unhappy snowflake wants a 300,000 house tell her to get a job and start making payments.The same thing happened to me when I was married, except she wanted an even bigger house.
Women are never happy.My friend is a teacher and has a home remodeling side business. He tells me he is busting his ass working two jobs to pay off his student loans and mortgage. Now that his home is almost paid off, he wants to start putting more money aside for his two children’s education.
So today, he tells me that his wife, also a teacher, brought home a bunch of real estate fliers. She has been on him lately about moving since a lot of the teachers in my area have $300,000 homes, albeit with 30 year mortgages. The basements in these new homes aren’t even f~~~ing finished. So that’s another 20 to 30 grand they have to spend on framing, insulating, painting, and decorating.
Terrible.
The way I see it, he’s in a really bad spot now:
If he refuses to move to a new house, he will get the “I’m not happy” speech and his wife will make his life hell, leading to divorce.
If he relents and buys a new home, he will basically erase all the hard work he’s done over the years to pay off the home they almost own. This house has plenty of room for them, btw. All this for a vanity home that they don’t even f~~~ing need.
It’s crap like this that makes me so thankful I never got married. You get put into bad positions like this constantly and there is nothing you can do about it except get bossed around by your childish wife.
I remember when they started seeing each other and he told me that she is the type of woman that will take care of him when he’s old. She is also from a super religious family, so there’s noooooooooooooo way that she will ever screw him over.
Terrible.
She is building her equity, she will keep home ensuring she extracts every ounce of blood..she has two kids and a husband is but the husband is just a slave, once women have children the father is and ATM no more.
You don’t want to delay divorces. Better sooner than later.
She wants a new house – let her buy and pay for it, or we’re not getting it. Period.
She doesn’t like it – boo f~~~ing hoo.proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome
You don’t want to delay divorces. Better sooner than later.
She wants a new house – let her buy and pay for it, or we’re not getting it. Period.
She doesn’t like it – boo f~~~ing hoo.Very good advice , I read in a paper yesterday 2 million divorcees in UK are still tied in financially.
The quicker you get out the lower the bill, of the women goes full c~~~ and won’t play fair.
Run , run then run..
lol
I was guilted into buying a 140K house when the numbers suggested we could afford about 100K Its only another $300 a month more…s~~~.
10 years later that $300 a month more could have been $36,000 we coulda invested
Also in those 10 years, we bought 3 cars, each one was about $30K, $90K
f~~~ing cruise every year at 9K for 10 years…gotta have a balcony and the meal plan and the drink plan $90 large to ride on a boat, chase mickeymouse and get pukey sick in some third world hole.
Then it was her marathons, walking marathons all over the country, Alaska, Disney, Chicago, Boston, Seattle, New York WTF, She walked while I rode my bike ahead with snacks and drinks. , the same bike she later sold for $5 in her fuked up charity garage sale.instead, we divorced, spent a combined total of $400K, p~~~ed away all the equity we had to split, and she is stuck with a house she cant sell that I renovated room by room. With a s~~~ty driveway. She made a minimum of $100K a year for 10 years and didn’t save a dime.
After divorce she moved in next door to her best bud from hs, into a $400K house shacked up with chad thunderc~~~, further away from work, but still kept our old house too. lol carrying about $6K in mortgages on 2 houses for 7 years while im homeless and wrecked.
I wish I knew to laugh or cry…
Do not be guilted into buying a more expensive house, f~~~ that noise. Draw the line at spending a big pile of cash like that. Do not end up is a 6X10 tent like I did. It was blue, and gray, I splurged for a coleman.
God damn man. Its stories like these that make me never want to marry or have kids. Signing over that much control of my finances to a woman is never gonna happen! Its bad enough they can run up debt in your name while married…but when you have to continue to fork over money even after divorce…f~~~ that.
I remember reading another members intro or post regarding a wife who took her children’s education fund and bought a brand new car with it because she could and emptied the account. No matter what your friend does when it comes to money and status she will try to make sure she gets any piece of that pie. If he saves money for the children she will not care she will use it on herself. If he buys her a bigger house she will always want another one that is even bigger in a few years.
You cannot please women, their hypergamy shows no bounds and if he can’t provide her with what she wants she will find some other beta who will. Your friend is screwed either way, but like others have posted he can minimize the damage done. He is looking at a divorce no question about it the only thing he needs to ask is when it will happen. Your friend must refuse to buy her a new house, and on top of that he must protect his assets including the education fund he wants to set up for his kids. Have him put it in a trust to accumulate over time where she cannot touch it. If he refuses to listen to the advice we are giving here you have done all you can and he will have to learn his lesson the hard way.
I never got the big house thing. So much more to clean and take care of, and of course pay for. I have several sets of great aunts and uncles(WWII generation) who spent their entire lives in either the same modest house or apartments out toward NYC. And they never upgraded their furniture, spent money on stupid Disney vacations, or had new cars. And they seemed happy not only with their situations, but with each other also! Today’s women are the worst.
WWII generation
There’s your answer right there. The WW2 generation grew up during the depression. They had the importance of personal economics drilled into them at a very early age. They also grew up after WW1 which killed and maimed enormous numbers of men, making husbands and fathers scarce. They learned that husbands need to be EARNED. This lesson was driven home even more after WW2 when they themselves had their turn to try to find husbands in another round of post war male scarcity.
Modern women, in contrast, are unbelievably spoiled and entitled. They really think they can have it all, or at least more than any of their female friends, and expect to be provided it.
Joker, keep a couch handy for your friend. He will need it soon.
Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.
Living in a beautiful, million dollar house in a great neighborhood, two kids, four bedrooms = plenty of room and all is good.
xW gets new house rabies – wants a house that “makes people wonder, “who lives there?” when they drive by…”
And that is the kind of crazy that drives the modern woman.
I said no way. Little man with a badge knocking on my door within the year with some papers for me…
C~~~.
Your friend is screwed. The fact that the current house is almost paid off means that he probably does (or can get) the funds for the house. She’s chatting with family and friends and feeling jealous, being told she deserves the bigger house. She knows other families have done what she wants to do, so in her mind, it’s a matter of how much he cares about her, not economics.
Asking her to get a better paying job or 2nd job won’t work. She’ll only think less of your friend. She doesn’t share his economics goals. Not saying she doesn’t care about kids education, just that she sees that as something to worry about later.
To me, this isn’t even really a problem with women, it’s a problem with the structure of marriage. In the past, the husband made the decisions, and his word was final. He usually did not make decisions selfishly because he cared about his family. Now, you have two decisions makers, and over a lifetime, they are bound to disagree…a lot.
Growing up, my family had reverse roles then this example. My mother was the one who wanted to be conservative and stable, while my Dad was constantly switching jobs, homes, and cities. We moved at least once a year. I never spent Christmas in the same house twice until I was 12 years old.
To be clear, I don’t have a problem with the woman wanting a new house. That’s human nature, and we all should have the choice to save or spend with the money we earn. It’s marriage and the mingling of finances that’s f~~~ed up.
Ok. Then do it.
I remember when they started seeing each other and he told me that she is the type of woman that will take care of him when he’s old. She is also from a super religious family, so there’s noooooooooooooo way that she will ever screw him over.
The “super religious” type are the craziest. Take it from someone that lives that nightmare. Mines a converted religious wacko, as she wasn’t interested prior to marriage. It kind of grows on her, like an uncontrollable mold.
If they don’t have any kids together. He’s best getting out now !! Split the equity, and learn a lesson. He’s young he can easily start over with a pile of cash and a good job.
He’ll probably stick it out until AFTER they get the McMansion and a couple children to boot before he realizes how f~~~ed up she is, and how much he hates his life. I hope not for his sake.
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I had a friend that went through this till it killed him. She demanded bigger nicer house, he bought it for her. After a few months, “I hate this place! Let’s remodel.” She starts at one end and remodels the entire house; not just easy stuff either. Very expensive interior renovations. A few years later she says ” I hate this place! It’s time to move up!” They buy a bigger place; same thing again. ” I hate this place!” They remodel the new place stem to stern for thousand and thousands of dollars. A few years later, again, ” I hate this place!! I can’t stand to live here another minute!!”. They buy a place so big it has two water heaters and HVAC units. She fills it with the most expensive antique furniture you’ve ever seen; looks like a palace. Then what happens? “I HATE this place!” So the renovations begin – $40,000 for the kitchen, $30,000 for the bathroom; it went on and on and on. Then she wanted botox, tummy tucks, boob jobs, new SUV every year.
Sadly, the only way he could escape her insatiable greed was death.
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