my friend just won't get it

[TheBardParticipant 974]

For those of you who don’t know I have talked about a friend of mine on some other posts who is a total blue pill to the point where he doesn’t even care his girlfriend treats him like s~~~. Last weekend yet again something happened and it takes the cake lol. He wanted to surprise his girlfriend by cooking her dinner. He couldn’t do it at his house so he asked if he could cook at her house. Well when he asked her she threw a fit about how she didn’t want him to cook at her house and she didn’t want him over. So he went out to dinner with another friend of ours and my friend said the whole time during dinner he complained about his girlfriend like he does whenever she treat him bad like that. He then decides he wants to buy her ice cream. When my friend asked why buy her ice cream after she treated him like s~~~ his response was “well to just do something nice, to show her I’m the better person and I at least did something for her”. My friend said it was a bad idea and he wasn’t going to take him to his girlfriends house. My blue pill friends says he wants ice cream for himself and while at the shop he ends up buying some for his girlfriend and says my friend needs to take him to his girlfriends house now. My friend said to him “you know you’re a little bitch right?” and to that my blue pill friend said “well at least I’m doing something for her”.

I feel like I should be filming all of this to show future generations lol. In his mind he thinks he did something right and healthy for a relationship while his girlfriend just lost even more respect for him which is hard because she has pretty none already for him. Time and time when thi stuff happens we tell him to dump her and it is always the same thing “well it was kind of my fault, you know how she is, I just have hope, she gave me a chance”. Literally when she cheated on him last year and said it his fault the response he gave us when we said to dump her was ” well she becomes easy when she is drunk” then later said “well if I forgive her for cheating on me and I always use this against her and make her feel bad in the future if I need to”.

[ClintParticipant 331]

I had a friend in high school who would literally beg girls to f~~~ him. He would drive them around wherever they wanted, buy them stuff, and he would get literally nothing in return. He would talk to them on the phone daily for 4 hours pretending he cared – probably even convinced himself he did – just in hopes of getting laid. He even bought this one girl a f~~~ing ring! They weren’t even going out… he just hoped he could buy sex from her.

Needless to say, I’m no longer friends with this person because hes a pathetic moron. Last I heard he joined some frat and has a girlfriend with a bad case of oneitis and is convinced hes going to marry her despite having only a couple real girlfriends in his entire life. All of them only dated him because he begged and he bought them whatever they wanted. Can’t help people like that, they’ll stab you in the back to get laid – it’s dangerous to keep them around.

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Tell your friend he can be my girlfriend if he’d like.

He (she) would of course need to stay home and clean house and blow me after a hard days work.

I would treat him (her) much better the she (he) does.

However, he (she) still needs to bend right over for me (master) just as he (she) does for his girlfriend (master).

What a f~~~ing sap.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

@clint he pretty much begged her to be his girlfriend too. When they first met and were just friends he said stuff like “that’s a fine ass, you’re a dime, want to go out, you friend zoned me, i care for you, and just would not get the hint. She told him from the beginning she didn’t want to date him, but he wanted to date me and another friend so she came on to us but we weren’t interested in her. Back before they started dating I saw post on facebook he wrote to her asking if she wanted to go out to eat on a friday and she said “yeah but just as friends” and his said “of course just as friends”. Weel after they come over to say high to me and we ended up talking about ok cupid and she asked if I could help her make a profile right now. So I do and my blue pill friend is like “no you don’t need to resort to dating sites, you got a guy right here who will date you” and her response was “hehe you’re so funny”. A few days later he wrote me saying “you know it’s your fault I lost any shot with her, what kind of friend introduces a girl to a dating site while she is on a date? A jerk that’s who, you totally c~~~ blocked me”. She found a guy she dated for a month then when he dumped her she started being friends with benefits with my blue pill friend but in his mind that was good enough and he even said “if things keep going this good im going to ask her to marry me”

He also did turn on me because of her. The night she she got that boyfriend from ok cupid was a s~~~ty night for him and that same night I made a post about how Kevin Smith named his daughter Harley Quinn so people need to stop giving me crap I am going to name my future daughter after a comic book character. Well the fact that this girl who kept telling him no got a boyfriend, I am naming my daughter after a comic book character, and the fact I decided to adopt instead of having a kid with woman made him turn on me. He took to facebook to call me all of these horrible names and that I was a loser for quitting on women and then he started to turn his back on nerd stuff. He was making posts directed towards me saying how people who cosplay need to grow up and if you play video games or read comics you are pathetic. After that he got this false confidence that he was so bad ass because he gave up on nerd culture and started drinking. I think it was because in his mind when she said he wasn’t her type he figured if he stopped being into nerd stuff and started drinking and partying to be like her. He never stopped being into nerdy stuff though as it was just an act.

[ClintParticipant 331]

@thebard that sounds very similar to what the guy I was talking about was like. At the time we were friends and the one girl had a crush on me. He would try to get inbetween us and out of school would take her for ice cream and drive her wherever. He also talked to her on the phone often for long periods of time. She knew well that she could get free stuff out of him without anything sexual in return. Eventually he gave up on her because he found a new girl to be a puppy to.

The stuff he did was really shady. For example, when me, him, and another friend were hanging out he stole a girl’s phone number that the other friend was talking to and tried to get her to like him instead. I can just picture that prick saying trying to disqualify us to the girls he was talking to. “Oh Clint? He’s just a jerk, you don’t wanna talk to him.” Little does he know it works against him acting like that. When he marries some chick – I know for a fact a mutual friend between us is going to tell me how he caught the girl cheating on him and probably still won’t dump her.

This kid did the same thing with the comic book stuff, but it was with other stuff instead. He bought a BMW and thought he was the s~~~. Tried working out, but gave up. Also he liked hunting, so he would show off his knives like a serial killer. It was kind of weird actually.

Basically, everything this kid ever does is to try to impress women. I have no time for people like that, and I’m glad I was smart enough then to stop being friends with him. Looking back I realize how much wasteful drama I saved myself.

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

[RoyDalParticipant]

This is kind of like the Stockholm Syndrome except it’s slaves falling in ‘love’ with their slave drivers.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[RoyDalParticipant]

How to “convert” others to MGTOW. Answer: just show them the truth

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

Use the NAWALT fallacy against her.

Take him to a bar, preferably one with a bunch of drunk barely pre-wallers in it. Get a few drinks in him. Announce to the laydeez: “This is my friend Insert-Name-Here. His girlfriend is a joyless, no-fun, ungrateful bitch. We’re trying to convince him that Not All Women Are Like That, but he won’t listen to us, so we’re hoping he might listen to a woman’s insight.”

Women LOVE to poach. Play it right and he’ll be reconsidering his relationship situation halfway through his first backroom blowjob that night.

There is of course a very real risk that he might get stuck with a new joyless, no-fun, ungrateful bitch girlfriend, but if so, rinse and repeat. Hopefully after a few cycles he’ll clue in.

[UnbelievableyetnotParticipant 512]

Society is rigged to produce guys like that. The oblivious provider. What does society teach as skills to get and keep a woman. Certainly not male beauty, which is regarded as ugly compared to the female (even by so called “straight” women). They’re shamed for looking up game theory, which is made to feel as unwholesome as possible. The only skills that’s taught is to be nice and provide. And against the arsenal of social manipulation skills of women they never stood a chance. They repeat the niceness and providing in the face of being treated like s~~~ because that’s literally all they know when it comes to women. Their father? Likely not even around to teach any different and even then he’s just as blue pill.

[RennieParticipant]

He has to see it for himself, or it’s very unlikely he’ll ever understand it.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

sidecar wrote:

Use the NAWALT fallacy against her.

Take him to a bar, preferably one with a bunch of drunk barely pre-wallers in it. Get a few drinks in him. Announce to the laydeez: “This is my friend Insert-Name-Here. His girlfriend is a joyless, no-fun, ungrateful bitch. We’re trying to convince him that Not All Women Are Like That, but he won’t listen to us, so we’re hoping he might listen to a woman’s insight.”

Women LOVE to poach. Play it right and he’ll be reconsidering his relationship situation halfway through his first backroom blowjob that night.

There is of course a very real risk that he might get stuck with a new joyless, no-fun, ungrateful bitch girlfriend, but if so, rinse and repeat. Hopefully after a few cycles he’ll clue in.

That sounds like a great idea, but he doesn’t have the look that is going to make other women want to come over and talk to him. Maybe if he was skinny like before he met his girlfriend and maybe the girls drunk it could work, but would women still care to poach a man who they most likely aren’t going to find attractive?

[Jim01Participant 6678]

Rennie wrote:

He has to see it for himself, or it’s very unlikely he’ll ever understand it.

pretty much this

unfortunately the red pill has to be taken by choice and can’t be forced. As others have said on here I would ditch him completely

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

Hey Bard, I’d say not to give up. I was the biggest blue pill in high school, but here I am thanks to some red pills who posted their thoughts where I could see them. It could happen.

[LathanderParticipant 6]

We call these guys ” vagina parasite” around here. They sell out males to get validation from females, can’t be trusted and never  accepted into brotherhoods, nor they desire to. They got friendzoned but have no pride to get irritated about that.They try to make te girl think bad of his boyfriend,like a amazon feminist female who c~~~blocks, and persuade her to trust him. Then wait for the moment when she is weak, needs attention most, give her a drink and  hugs her,  f~~~ her than. Boyfriends know them but cannot persuade girlfriend, they are called extremely jealous macho guy. If they threaten or beat the parasite, they may lose girlfriend. However the type I mentioned earns pussy from time to time. They are pure evil and sneaky type.

Then  the type 2 vagina parasite comes.  He is shy, helpful and not sneaky. He gets friendzoned, but he says ” I want to be her side, I cannot endure not seeing her”. They are used for attention, maybe for money too, though the ones I saw was not rich and the rich parasite sometimes was successful. They endure it, maybe with hope she will someday be hers or in total despair. They will stay alone for  a long time and got into a “serious relationship” if they earn stable financial status.

The 3rd type of vagina parasite is maybe the most successful type. He tries his chance with every girl he sees, no stomach, no honour and no limit. He doesn’t get himself used, but he always put effort to be  in places where  pussy is dense. he occasionally gets pussy, whether be it  his ” friend’s” sister or or the girl he loves.

These are types ı  have observed for now.

[MaxParticipant 887]

Your friend it’s literally the God of Blue Pill Men!

I became a MGTOW because this was the only logical solution for a man survive in a world replete of gynocentrism and biased against men!

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

TheBard wrote:

That sounds like a great idea, but he doesn’t have the look that is going to make other women want to come over and talk to him.

Which is why you, not him, announce to the whole bar. you don’t wait for women to approach him, you just shove them all together.

but would women still care to poach a man who they most likely aren’t going to find attractive?

Trust me, the one thing women find attractive over all else is if another woman already has her claws in him. Women poach for the sake of poaching. The guy himself is largely irrelevant.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

It is easier to fool a fool, than to convince them they have made a foolish decision.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Sessna12Participant 119]

TheBard wrote:

 A few days later he wrote me saying “you know it’s your fault I lost any shot with her, what kind of friend introduces a girl to a dating site while she is on a date? A jerk that’s who, you totally c~~~ blocked me”.

He took to facebook to call me all of these horrible names and that I was a loser  

 

girl abuses him, he turns around and takes it out on you.

i wouldn’t call that guy a friend.

being MGTOW also includes eliminating s~~~ty so called “friends”

Sebastian

"We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
-Sidecar

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