My First Red-Pill Experience

[Stevo2000Participant 22]

Hi, I’m Steve and I stumbled upon this web-site and thought, how cool is this? There are actually others who have been through the same crap, different story.

Probably the first Red Pill I took was 42 years ago at the age of 18. I have had many Red-Pills since, at least a good dozen, because I can’t imagine life without being in a relationship, others that I know have been together since childhood and are still pretty happy. I’m guessing.

It was 1975, I was in the Army, stationed overseas in Europe, a high school cutie I knew starts writing, has baby out of wedlock, wants me, wants to get married. I say wow, nice, OK, fly home to make arrangements, spend time with my future bride, and she’s being distant, can’t see me every day, no kisses, nothing. I find out from my friends that she’s sleeping with my brother, brother confirms it, She denies it. I don’t believe her and return to military duty, don’t respond to her letters. 42 years later a boy who was put up for adoption by my former fiancé is looking for his real daddy. I say Not Me, and point him in my brother’s direction.

Life is all about being with a Bitch, running away from a Bitch, or living without a Bitch. In other words, Life's a Bitch, then you Die...

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

The only question I can think of is, did she have a sister?

Peace brothers

[Anonymous 3]

That’s a heartbreaking story & a tough pill to swallow.
We are about the same age. Another man raised my son. My ex has been with her husband about 40 yrs.
I have a good relationship with my son today.
I swallowed a lot of red pills too. Was MGHOW for a long time before coming to this site. Stay & read as much as you can. I am sure you will b surprised at the wisdom of some of the younger men. Most of us have paid a hard price to wake up. Stick with the winners. Stick with MGTOW

[Anonymous 12]

Aww…. crap.

welcome.

Post some more!
🙂

[UntamedParticipant]

WOW Stevo, that’s a hell of a Red Pill! I’m glad you’ve finally found your way to MGTOW and decided that loving these selfish monsters makes no more sense than wining and dining them. We here have experienced weemins’ devilries first hand for decades and NO mangina, white-knight, feminist or her advocate can ever put that genie back in the bottle. That’s why many MGTOW’s, when presented with the unlikely scenario that weemins would apologize, promise to redress all the inequalities of gender THEY have created and then seriously work on it, would still say that it’s too late.
And it truly is too late. In my view, nothing will make up for the general willful destruction of several generations of Men by unscrupulous Men-Hating C~~~S who plan to have Men Concentration Camps once “the Patriarchy” is defeated.
That’s right, they are that evil! And we Men don’t want those monsters corrupting our very sane, educational and helpful conversations here.
Welcome to mgtow.com, Stevo, where we care about weemins’ opinions like we care about our first pair of socks.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Stevo2000Participant 22]

I suppose that I can extend upon what I wrote in my original post. I did end up not returning to my family home, cutting them off for at least 25 years where I didn’t know if they were alive or dead, extended my stay in the military, haven’t really trusted anyone since, especially American women. I actually did not return to the USA until 1996, 21 years later, with 3x marriages left behind me over in Europe.

When I married the first time, at the age of 20, I thought that I had the right woman to be married to, to have kids with. We talked about everything and were in agreement, waited a year prior to marrying. On our wedding night a year later she announces that she doesn’t like sex, never liked it and doesn’t want to have it ever again, that there were new rules. I’m like what planet am I on? I couldn’t get out of the marriage fast enough. 3 months after the divorce was finalized she was re-married and moved to the USA with her new husband. I decided that all women are evil and selfish, that spending a lifetime married and happy was never going to happen for me, at least not with the same woman. I went and had myself sterilized, knowing that if I had children I would have been forced to stay with that monster.

Life is all about being with a Bitch, running away from a Bitch, or living without a Bitch. In other words, Life's a Bitch, then you Die...

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings S,

Thank you for your service.

Your descriptions of your Red Pills is excellent.

Stevo2000 wrote:

I decided that all women are evil and selfish…………

Bravo! Your perspective of womyn is right on the mark, see poster below.

Congratulations for finding the MGTOW Road and joining MGTOW.com

You will fit in well with other MGTOWs.

Nevertheless, this is your Introduction and you have NOT introduced yourself.

And your Profile does not say much about your life as a free man.

No one here is being asked to give out specific details that will lead others to identify them. NO DOXING!

But, you are honor bound to provide general descriptions of your life as a Man.

So, here are some tips to Improve your “Introduction:”

In the reply box below, give general descriptions to the following questions:

What does YOUR Sovereignty look like these days?

Home, social, and work situations?

Hobbies?

What kind of fun things do YOU do?

Where have you lived?

What kind of jobs have you done?

Training/ Education?

Any future projects?

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Stevo2000Participant 22]

There should be some blanks to fill out under the profile settings. I’ll do my best to summarize my answers, without missing out on too much detail. Here we go with my introduction:

What does YOUR Sovereignty look like these days?

I’m still putting myself back together after my last big red-pill in January 2017 where I was abandoned in the middle of the night by my wife of 8 years, for no apparent reason. She wanted to return after a couple of days but I refused. I am very happy that she is gone, have since paid off most of the debt.

Home, social, and work situations?

I moved to a nice 1 bedroom apartment, bought a new car, thinking about dating again, stomach churns when I see what’s out there in my age group of 55-60. I am a computer programmer/systems – infrastructure analyst with over 35 years of experience, switch jobs/locations every 5-10 years, actually moved 7 times in the past 8 years.

Hobbies?

I’m a home body, love to cook and stuff, had the wife’s son, his wife and 3 kids living in my home for 2 years, I was the only one working, so always busy.

What kind of fun things do YOU do?

I’m open to doing just about anything, just now finding the time to do things, joined a bunch of local meetup groups.

Where have you lived?

Born and raised in Southern California, 4 years Army in Germany, 17 years civilian in Germany, Tampa FL, Jacksonville FL. Atlanta GA, St Petersburg FL, Tampa FL, Bethlehem PA, Savannah GA

What kind of jobs have you done?

Programming and Infrastructure Jobs.

Training/ Education?

On the Job.

Any future projects?

Getting ready to retire in 6 years. Looking at joining an Ex-Pat community in a country like Cambodia, join a UN program to teach the natives basic computer skills. A good friend of mine is retired there and teaching English to them as part of a UN Development Program. My retirement benefits should go a long way there, allow me to have a couple of young, cute live-in care-takers, which I can fire and replace when they try to serve me up with red-pills.

Life is all about being with a Bitch, running away from a Bitch, or living without a Bitch. In other words, Life's a Bitch, then you Die...

[GregB0Participant]

Stevo2000 wrote:

I say Not Me, and point him in my brother’s direction.

Damn, that had to be an extremely uncomfortable conversation. Kudo’s to you and welcome to the MGTOW brotherhood.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[AttonParticipant]

I find it rather interesting that women magically become pregnant. Despite having access to birth control 100 years more advanced than that of men.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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