My first post.

[pZ1$Participant 110]

Hello,

This is my first post. I just learned the term MGTOW on Youtube. I looked it up and found this cool website. I am a man who is begging for his wife’s love. I need help to stop. Furthermore, I am in a sexless marriage. We are trying to work it out. I am also chronically unemployed. I am in a bad situation. I hope to learn some things here.

Thanks

[RyanJamesParticipant 20]

Welcome to the group – I am new here myself, but my life was turned around previously with the sort of information that is being explored in this group, so I am qualified to comment. I was married and it sucks. I begged her for her love, but have discovered that that bulls~~~. Love is nothing more than a bunch of hormones that make you feel a certain way, combined with the fear of being alone and never getting a shag again. Now that I can get sex from many beautiful girls anytime I like, I don’t give a s~~~ about monogamy, caring for women, love and being alone. In fact I want to be single, coz it is way way more fun than being in a marriage. Marriages become sexless because people are simply not meant to be together in monogamous long term relationships for very long – nature dictates that is is that way. Best thing to do is go and find some girls to f~~~ and then tell your wife you are no longer monogamous and she can go f~~~ herself if she doesnt like it.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Hey! You’re in good company here. Sounds like it’s time to rearrange your focus. I was once a broke motherf~~~er too so I feel your pain. I heard more than 70% of marriages are sexless so don’t beat yourself up about that. It’s more than normal. Enjoy your stay here, PZ

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Welcome PZ. Sorry to learn you’re down right now, but happy you like our site! Thanks for saying so.

I agree if you’re in a sexless marriage and you don’t want to be DO something about it and make a BOLD move. I once had a girl in town visiting towards the end of a fling with her. She started to withhold it and I got sick of her s~~~. She wanted me to “work harder” and “lets work it out”….. until one day I had enough of her hard-to-get s~~~ and at 11PM I grabbed my car keys and told her Im going out to get some tail. Don’t wait up.

Her entire attitude flipped on a dime. “WHAT????”

Im telling you If Im not getting it with you… I’m getting it someplace else.
There’s nothing to “work out”. It’s really simple….

Don’t let your man leave the house with a drop of semen in his b~~~~
because if he’s not dumping it at home… he’s dumping it someplace else.

Even jerking off in the shower is more fun than women like that.

But first things first. Concentrate on work. Ive never been unemployed so I don’t know what “chronically unemployed” means. Care to elaborate?

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

I am a man who is begging for his wife’s love. I need help to stop.

Just remember that when you DO feel the craving for her love, ask what she has done for you to deserve yours. Too many men fall into the trap of thinking the whole marriage is up to THEM and they solely are the ones to put the effort into pleasing their wife. Its a two-way street mate. When you do feel that anger that shes expecting it all from you and has done nothing for you, you’ll realise you dont WANT sex from her.

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[RabidcavemanParticipant 57]

“Chronically unemployed” is a red flag.

[JediTimParticipant 50]

pz1 – welcome. I was in a similar situation like yours not to long ago. I found that there are plenty of people in my life that loved me just on account of my existence. There was no need for me to “beg” for love. Unfortunately, I took that need/hope/begging for love that wasn’t being fulfilled, and found it elsewhere. While I regret what I did, people respond to sexless and loveless relationships in different ways. You have intrinsic worth. Begging for love is a sad place to be, brother. It can get better. Stay strong.

[pZ1$Participant 110]

Just want you guys to know that I am going through all of your replies to my posts since I started posting here. There is a lot of valuable info. Thanks.

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