My first and last relationship

[PatrickXParticipant 217]

So, I met this girl at a hotel convention. We shared the same hotel room, and a few days later we had sex. We got along just fine that day. 2nd day, we went out to a sushi place to eat. Great sushi. Was happy to try that. We always had split the bill 50/50. But later, I found out she was having health problems. tachycardia, along with chronic fatigue syndrome, and PMS. During the 3rd day her symptoms were acting up, and she started to take advantage of me. She would make me pay for a few things at Walmart. She was crazy with her spending. She would spend $40-$60 a day, and then she surprised me by telling me that she didn’t have any money to pay rent. I drove her to a computer store to get her computer fixed. Basically, I had driven her around 30 minutes back and forth for free. She told me she had 3 kids, but she lost her parental rights. She didn’t tell me why. That raised a big red flag, but I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Whenever I drive her around, she always bitches at me telling me how to drive. One time I told her to stop bitching and she denied bitching. You can never win an argument with her, and she always have to be right. Yesterday, I was supposed to take her back home, driving her an hour a way, and we communicated about what time I got off. Guess what? She made me wait 2 hours outside using her chronic fatigue syndrome as an excuse. I called my friend about it and he told me to leave her and never look back. So I did. Personally, I feel bad for her, not only because she has health problems, but financial problems as well as not being able to get back home. No job, getting evicted from her apartment. If I stayed with her and helped her, she would had drained my bank account and ruined my life. Thank god I got out of that hell hole when I did. I had no sympathy for her when I left, but I did feel guilty last night, but I had to keep moving forward.

Now, I’m done with women. I had to have sex and date one girl just to have the experience, but it really felt good to get in a relationship just to get out of one.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

PatrickX wrote:

She made me wait 2 hours outside using her chronic fatigue syndrome as an excuse.

She didn’t make you do anything. You chose to. And, therein, lies the problem. Choose wisely next time. Strictly avoid ALL women who have children, or have chronic fatigue syndrome, fibromyalgia, depression, who are taking meds for mood elevation, etc.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[PatrickXParticipant 217]

You’re totally right. It was my fault. I am a submissive beta male, who just couldn’t man up to the situation. It’s hard to un-emasculate myself when I was brought up emasculated by others.

[Anonymous 54]

PatrickX wrote:

You’re totally right. It was my fault. I am a submissive beta male, who just couldn’t man up to the situation. It’s hard to un-emasculate myself when I was brought up emasculated by others.

There it is Brother! You can see it! So how do you get re- masculated is the question.Keep reading here,and my favorite,cook a steak on the grille,do some push ups,put a woman in her place.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

“…but it really felt good to get in a relationship just to get out of one.”

This needs to be your mantra. Hell, it’s been mine for over three years.

Don’t ever forget that sweet taste of freedom those first few days after you leave a relationship — it will serve you well and keep you from getting into another.

BTW, what the hell kind of hotel convention did you meet this special cupcake?

[PatrickXParticipant 217]

It was a sci-fi convention. I just needed a hotel room and she offered for $90 for the weekend.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

PatrickX wrote:

You’re totally right. It was my fault. I am a submissive beta male, who just couldn’t man up to the situation. It’s hard to un-emasculate myself when I was brought up emasculated by others.

The next time you start to feel the tug of your emasculation programming, think of how the money you are about to fork over for a c~~~ could be better served in bringing you pleasure. No woman no matter how beautiful, is worth spending a dime on. Always abide by the 50/50 rule, if she complains tell her to f~~~ off.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

PatricX, I went to my first SciFi convention last summer. Had a blast!

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

So you’re telling us that you went to a sci-fi convention in a different city without any plan for accommodations and found a f~~~able woman willing to share her room on the first day?

You are either so naive that you’re lucky to be alive or this story is complete bulls~~~.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

PatrickX wrote:

You’re totally right. It was my fault. I am a submissive beta male, who just couldn’t man up to the situation. It’s hard to un-emasculate myself when I was brought up emasculated by others.

Excellent. You’ve just taken a big step toward going your own way. It’s a difficult step to recognize and admit there’s a problem. Think of it as the Red Pill getting stuck sideways in your throat. Keep drinking water to wash it down.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

PatrickX wrote:

You’re totally right. It was my fault. I am a submissive beta male, who just couldn’t man up to the situation. It’s hard to un-emasculate myself when I was brought up emasculated by others.

I was glad to hear you say this man.

Now that you’ve made that mistake, you have 2 responsibilities to yourself:

1) Learn from the mistake
2) Don’t ever, ever, f~~~ing EVER REPEAT IT!

Bonus points if you can learn from others’ mistakes (mine included) of not knowing the financial & legal risks before going in to a marriage. Christ what a s~~~show.

[PatrickXParticipant 217]

MattNYC wrote:

Bonus points if you can learn from others’ mistakes (mine included) of not knowing the financial & legal risks before going in to a marriage.

I’m never getting married. Ever. In fact, I’m getting a vasectomy and a lawyer to cover my ass just in case.

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