My Father The Blue Pilled Simp

[Anonymous 1]

I Have tried everything I could to convince him that Mgtow is the path forward but the blue pill is too strong. Do I abandon the man who brought me into this world? He helps me in many ways. Paints my house. Takes care of my pets while I am away.

Is he perfect? No. Am I? Definitely not.

Why do I still push forward. Why do I still try?

Do I respect my Father? Yes

Do I Love my Father? Yes

This was very difficult for me to write. After going my Own way has made my life worth living. I have live by the b~~~~. I earn good money. I have skills which make me desirable in the worst conditions. I do not always have the words to make me the most popular.

I love my Mgtow Life no matter how long my life lasts.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Live by example…That is the only solution. It is almost impossible to show them what MGTOW is. It is a complete paradigm shift that turns your world upside down before everything clicks into place…

Take him on adventures or interests where he can experience solitude or reclaim his youth hobbies…
Just my 2 cents…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 54]

I dont understand why there has to be a choice.

I have blue pill freinds, I just dont go there.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22539]

You have done your best, you have been loyal and honest. You cant make him do this, hes on his own path. Not every man can be mgtow. Or is willing to be.

Its ok. Hes your dad, you can still talk and still toss little red pills lightly. He still has a big role in your life.

My dad isnt the same as me in a lot of ways and thats fine. hes my dad. Iknow i have influenced him through the years and so i do know he can take what i say into account.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 7]

My father passed 7 years ago.
We did not see eye-to-eye on everything. I wish he was still around.

Like others mentioned above, why cannot your father and you agree to disagree?

Is he f~~~ing with you to be a blue pill simp? Are you f~~~ing with him to be a red-pill warrior?

Please note that being a red-pill warrior is still an aberration an abomination if you will to western society.
If this is the case then pacify your father with meaningless words. He will be gone before you know it.

Unless, that is if you hate him. If so, tell him to f~~~-off and die. I loved my pops so that was not an option.

[Anonymous 1]

I can agree to disagree. I just do not like to see my father make the same mistakes again and again. That is one of the reasons I have decided to post this.

It is something I felt is worth while. My father had been there for me when things were difficult for myself. Just as my close friend who shuns me currently I hope in the future he I’ll come to the same conclusion.

It is for the individual to find his own way.

Sometimes it takes a swift kick in the ass
Sometimes it takes a shoulder to cry on.

Do you want to dig your own grave or the one of your enemy?

[Anonymous 54]

Your over thinking it.
Its not your place to change him

Just enjoy the commenn ground.

[TheDudeParticipant 724]

I think some men are just too far gone. My dad is as blue as they come, and at seventy years old, he ain’t gonna change any time soon. It would probably kill him.

I agree with old sage… enjoy the common ground.

[Anonymous 54]

My Old Man is the most pussy whipped motherf~~~er on the planet! Haha

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Men of previous generations were blue pilled mangina’s. They could afford to be because women were raised go be partners with men.

Then, in the 1970’s the personal became political and wives turned against husbands and sisters turned against brothers.

I was born on the cusp and my first marriage was marriage 1.0, my second marriage was marriage 2.0 and at that point husbands and wives were competitors and this competition extended to intra-family strife.

In marriage 2.0 even the judges are informed and help to keep the children in the company of both parents unless the mother strongly disagrees. They know that conflict is the mood of the age.

Learning how fast these cultural mores shift made me interested in sexual politics for the purposes of self preservation.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

Anonymous wrote:

Why do I still push forward. Why do I still try?

I’m assuming your father is married to your mother. Do you really want him to go all red pill on his marriage to YOUR mother and do you then want to support them both emotionally through a divorce and its aftermath? Sometimes that’s what adult children have to do when parents split up–even if divorce makes perfect sense.

I’m also assuming you’ve never been married and therefor haven’t experienced divorce. If that’s the case, it’s well to remember that a man who’s never married has a much easier time GHOW than the guy who needs to escape his marriage first or, equally hard, lay down a hard MGTOW line and keep his marriage intact. Whether your father is still married to your mother or not, he may not want to leave his house, part with his savings and future earnings and whatever else might befall him in order to do for himself what has been so much easier for guys like me, for example, who avoided all that by never marrying at all.

Going MGTOW to ANY extent is a serious commitment with real-life consequences. It’s not a spare time activity or hobby to dabble in.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

jimbob15217 wrote:

Do you really want him to go all red pill on his marriage to YOUR mother and do you then want to support them both emotionally through a divorce

I think that men going their own way is a philosophy.

We say, don’t marry, don’t co-habitate, don’t have children we mean, if you can avoid it.

Unless you have them already or just have an uncontrollable urge to reproduce.

Avoid relationships but if your in one maintain your path in life. Share that with your wife but never vear from the way you want to go. If it means you go seperate ways that’s how it is.

By the way, with no fault divorce this is exactly the way things are, like it or not. Women know this, see “Ear, Pray, Love” and look at the female initiated divorce rates of greater than 70%.

So your fantasy of a marriage would persevere going your own way, if it fits your needs. If you have a long marriage it is more likely that you are fulfilling each others needs I would suppose.

So going you own way is independent of race, religion, other creed or color. No limit on political philosophy.

It just means you are off the plantation and any unions are on your terms meeting your needs.

Go your own way, avoid marriage, co-habitation or giving a woman your child. But, if you must, get a vasectomy. Get a vasectomy…lol.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Anonymous 54]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Men of previous generations were blue pilled mangina’s. They could afford to be because women were raised go be partners with men.

Then, in the 1970’s the personal became political and wives turned against husbands and sisters turned against brothers.

I was born on the cusp and my first marriage was marriage 1.0, my second marriage was marriage 2.0 and at that point husbands and wives were competitors and this competition extended to intra-family strife.

In marriage 2.0 even the judges are informed and help to keep the children in the company of both parents unless the mother strongly disagrees. They know that conflict is the mood of the age.

Learning how fast these cultural mores shift made me interested in sexual politics for the purposes of self preservation.

God..did have to remind me of this?
I can still hear the stupid song in my head. Ahhha..

[Anonymous 38]

Part of loving someone is accepting their choices.
Don’t be afraid to speak your mind/the truth. Show him the way.
He will either be influenced by it or reject it.
Either way, accept the outcome.
That’s all there is to it.

My old man is a sacrificial provider, and he wouldn’t have it any other way. He seems happy.

[Anonymous 12]

Go YOUR way.

do not force others to go Your way.
Their way is a different one.

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

“You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it.”

-Morpheus

Some things and People YOU just have to ACCEPT THEM FOR WHAT THEY ARE.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[TrailbossParticipant 1844]

Let him be happy…if that makes him happy: So be it. Maybe he will be ready next time a woman screws him over….#MANOUT!

An educated, armed populace cannot be enslaved.

[Anonymous 0]

Some people like living a blue-pill life. They can’t understand the completely opposite red-pill life. The reason is all these folks look for EXTERNAL VALIDATION and they presume making others happy is their life goal. Many find satisfaction being a disposable utility. I believe you cannot teach them much. They won’t learn anything new, unless they hit the rock bottom!

I tried to teach my father about red-pill but he never understand. He still does many house chores and cleaning dishes. So finally I’m gonna keep my mouth shut and let him enjoy whatever he likes. At least he is happy. Also I would never recommend red-pilling an old guy because he might not be able to handle the RED-PILL RAGE which could make them EXTREMELY DANGEROUS! Think of it. All these years they’ve been told lies after lies and how would they react when they found out the truth?

[Anonymous 1]

Thanks for all the input guys. I am disappointed seeing him make the same mistakes over and over again. Part of the reason he moved in with me.

He is going thru a long overdue divorce number two. He is already involved with yet another train wreck. The whole situation has been bothering me for a while. Got to a point where I needed to vent about it. Thanks again for listening and your advice.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

I empathise Kowlaski – My Dad is the same. Its f~~~in heartbreakin to me. F~~~in heartbreakin. The thing is years ago he was the strongest man you could know and told my mother whats what. The argued and fought HARD for 30 years. But gradually she wore him down. Then the past 15 years she has won – he is now a blue pill mangina and she marches around like Hitler controlling him with mind games and shaming. He refers to her as the boss literally. She has spent 40 years f~~~in with his head. It makes me mad very mad as its all WRONG.

I dont know know what to do exactly. The advice on this thread is useful.

I want to help him and wake him up because he is suffering. Yet I had a conversation with him 6 months ago and he was verging on overload starting to think about this stuff so I changed the subject. He is old now and dependant on her but he shoulnt be – I think it might blow a gasket in him to go red pill – can you imagine realising for 40 years you have served and thrown your life away for a c~~~ who pretends she is the wise one but is actually just a bitch. Divorce – what happens to the house etc

FUUCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKKK !

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