My family thinks that I'm depressed

[freedomParticipant 5129]

My dad texts me 2-3 times a week with “Son, is everything alright with you?”

I’ve been pretty busy these passing weeks, sometimes going your own way makes you not pay attention to things, also I don’t talk to him about women because I simply don’t date as much as I used to and I don’t really give a f~~~ about that.

My parents told me “stay the weekend”, don’t know why they are sure that I’m sad or something, I’m calm and I feel better, so they think I’m weird now.

Why people thinking that going MGTOW means that you are going insane or depressed?

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Becouse blue pill is deep inside them.

They have to see you tied, they just can’t get the red pill in their sistem.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I suppose if every salmon were swimming their asses off going upstream to spawn and they saw a happy looking fish headed downstream they would wonder the hell he knew that the rest of them didn’t….But then again, you don’t need a bike.

Order the good wine

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Explain to them that de-c~~~ing is not depressing it is exhilarating. Depressing is being around a woman who lies, cheats, spends your money like a democrat and in the end divorce rapes you…NOW THAT is depressing.

[GregB0Participant]

By default Parents are always asking about their children to their children so that they feel better and talk to others about their children. Parents live through the acts of their children, grand children, etc. etc. etc., and it they don’t they vilify their children and great grand children, etc. etc. etc.

It’s an uncomfortable fact of life at times. Best of luck

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Exactly Pistol Pete, I am in my second childhood, which explains the dominance of positive emotion… relationship tension is none existent. The path I take is mine alone, no shaming, nagging, guilting, s~~~ testing, wasting my second half of my life keeping an uneasy alliance going. Sex with 50 y.o. sandy saggy vaginas? No thanks. I had seen all there is to see about venereal disease by my 21st birthday… benefit of medical training.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

No, your father think that you’re depressed.
Your mother knows that you aren’t depressed: she convinced your father that you’re depressed because she want his help to push her agenda on you.

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[BeerParticipant 11832]

Haha…mine thinks I’m “socially retarded” because I’m happy single. Who cares what they think…you’ll be infinitely happier in life living how you want rather than trying to live how other people want you to live, especially when you know that path sucks.

[MonkParticipant 16985]

to father: “How can I be depressed? I’ve just got the biggest possible source of mindf~~~ery OUT OF MY LIFE”.

[Anonymous 1]

Eric Lauder wrote:

No, your father think that you’re depressed.
Your mother knows that you aren’t depressed: she convinced your father that you’re depressed because she want his help to push her agenda on you.

Evil.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Sovereignty above all else.

[XackStrykerParticipant 239]

My folks did the same thing when I stopped dating until I had a sit down with my father over a few beers explaining the reality of today’s world and how s~~~ is stacked against men. He leaned over and says to me “Thank god you figured it out early, now you get to enjoy a life of freedom son.”

Since my chat with my father they have never questioned me on it again.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Anonymous wrote:

Eric Lauder wrote:

No, your father think that you’re depressed.
Your mother knows that you aren’t depressed: she convinced your father that you’re depressed because she want his help to push her agenda on you.

Evil.

I’m 44, divorced, with kids, and my mother is still doing the same with my father, there is also a conspiration of Eastern women hitting on my mother to hook me: there’s a Romanian and a Russian both boasting with my mother that they own their house and telling her horrible things about my ex wife (translation: “I’m not like her”).
That moron of the candidate mayor (a woman, I was candidate to deputy mayor) furthered the damage by trying to tie me with her cousin (at least her cousin isn’t a foreigner, she have a very good wage, but I’m not the kind of man who is interested in a woman who is 3 years older than me, and have two “kids” including a 19 yo daughter that I would like to f~~~). Naturally, even the candidate mayor hitted on my mother to push her cousin, after her efforts on me (“party dinners” including just only 4 persons, such things…) failed.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

If my parents think I’m gay, I don’t give a f~~~ what they think.

NFG attitude applies to them too. They’re so frickin Tradcon. its annoying

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Ever5Participant 1008]

I think going through sadness, grief and what not is normal. Anyone who wakes up to this, I’m fairly confident is going to go through a depressive phase. And it’s a phase. If it prolongs, last longer than 2 weeks, then I would suggest someone is not successfully processing the emotions and possibly should hire someone to talk to. On this subject, that might be difficult to find, but with the internet, nothing is impossible. Just someone to talk to, vent at, and get “an outside perspective”. Because if the emotions aren’t processing, then the individual is probably stuck in their mind and can’t get out.

That’s kind of what this forum offers. Talking about it(venting) and getting outside perspectives.

The thing is, with all the brainwashing, denial, I would suspect that this subject is difficult to get out of. Because your mind is been filled with so many ideas that to wake up and realize that it’s all a lie. That’s going to be tremendous on the psychy. I know for me, I went through a lot of crap because of the denial. “It must be me” what am I not doing right. Not realizing, men and women are different. Understanding finally how women operate, and making sense of my past experiences, that’s what really helped me.

Just a simple thing like “women marry up”, but I’m already above every woman on paper. Well realizing that it’s about perceived value, nothing to do with money or education. If I fall in love with a woman, it’s only natural for her to see me as below her. Doesn’t matter about the facts, it’s perception. That right there made all my past experiences make sense.

Then hearing the stories. “I’m not the only one”, “It’s not just me.”, things like that really help.

And I wouldn’t “expect” family to understand, they are in the denial as well. And they want grand babies. So I think for a lot of guys, living your own life is going to require breaking away from family, to at least some extent. Part of growing up is the way I see it.

Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.

[ghostParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

Explain to them that de-c~~~ing is not depressing it is exhilarating.

^this.

Exactly this.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

To them the normal is the blue pill existence. So when they encounter anything else it’s weird.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

It’s not about having grand kids: my parents already have two grand kids from me and two grand kids from my sister, my parents are also aware that I have even two other biological sons.
Still, they insist. Their rationale (my mother’s rationale, actually, while my father just lazily parrot her) is more and more reality-fled:

“You need a woman doing chores at home”
“This is stupid, she would do half chores, I would have to do the other half, and since it would be two persons then chores would be more, almost twice, so it would change nothing”

“You need a woman to cuddle you”
“Don’t even try with such s~~~, I have been married, I know how it works.”

“Men need sex!!!”
“Women don’t. Are you really trying appealing to my dick?”

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

I’m not gonna lie. I’ve been a little concerned for you because I’ve seen the flood of drama topics you’ve posted recently. Just want to make sure (as I’m sure your family does too) that you’re in the right place and doing okay. Some guys when they go red pill don’t know how to deal with it. It’s like, when you’re blue pill, you’re staring at that trick picture and all you see is static. But once you go red pill, you see the actual picture within the static. Keep in mind, many guys who have found this site found it while they were depressed, or suicidal..

[joetechParticipant]

Family is the worst. When I joined the Navy in 1974 all my mother could see was Vietnam. She never understood that the Navy was more likely to send her to Nam than me. My stupid brother didn’t help either. Your family thinks married life is the key to happiness. My family thought civilian life was the key. It’s all a matter of perspective. If your family can’t acknowledge facts and see truth, they’ll never understand what you know or have learned. Gong your own way has a lot to do with living your own life the way you see fit and to ignore others, including family, when they disapprove. Tell them what I used to tell my brother. When you’re living the perfect virtuous life, then you can preach your doctrine to me. Until then, shut the f~~~ up.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

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