My experience with marriage to an Asian woman.. Not so submissive…

[stanley311Participant 2]

I was married for six years to a very demanding and selfish Vietnamese woman. She would save all of her money and I would pay all the bills. Then we divorced. She’d yell at me and demean me in front of our very young child. At first, I was like, man, I should stay together for the kid. Then after a few more months of that, I was like, man, we should get divorced for the kid.

Sure enough, she’s collecting 500 bucks a month in child support despite the fact we have shared parenting. (She’s a nail technician, so she doesn’t have to report her tips on her income, causing the income disparity). Yeah, so I decided to join MGTOW once I had a few relationships since then. I guess raising my daughter to be a meaningful force in the world just doesn’t have time for any more deception. I’m gonna be 37 this next month, and in all of those years, never met a woman who seemed genuine. Either it’s my inability to connect, which is most likely caused by my mother’s “I’m never wrong” attitude, or women out there are just not finding me to be as resourceful as I actually am. Lol.

[Eric LauderParticipant 84]

Some questions for you:
Are you living alone now?
Are you self-sufficient about all, now?
Have you, now, enough money to enjoy a quite good life?
If you answered “yes” to all three questions, I suggest you to AVOID females: your life can go only worse if you let a female enter in your life again – she will exploit you as your ex-wife did.
You can f~~~ some female occasionally, but NEVER let they take the keys of you home.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Stanley I hear you brother

Women are all the same here on God’s green earth. I was married to a Chinese born Singaporean, and although our dating years were fun, my married life turned into a living hell mixed with a never ending nightmare!. Condescending, money hungry, bitchy, was a common occurrence with my ex wife. Prior to me marrying her I dated mostly Asians and came to the same conclusion that the whole submissiveness was a HUGE act.

Not only that but it was a ruse to bring you in, suck you dry, used and abused.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[stanley311Participant 2]

Deus Ex Machina, I think you’re right. I think the culture of women nowadays supports this type of heart they develop. I do my best to raise my daughter so that she truly can develop a relationship with people that isn’t artificial and considers the feeling s of others.

[stanley311Participant 2]

Some questions for you:
Are you living alone now? Yep
Are you self-sufficient about all, now? Pretty Much
Have you, now, enough money to enjoy a quite good life? Could always use more, but I enjoy my life.
If you answered “yes” to all three questions, I suggest you to AVOID females: your life can go only worse if you let a female enter in your life again – she will exploit you as your ex-wife did. Plan on it, aside from my daughter. lol
You can f~~~ some female occasionally, but NEVER let they take the keys of you home. NEVER

[Eric LauderParticipant 84]

I also have a daughter, and also a son.
I’m almost happy to have been married, but JUST ONLY DUE I had my sons 🙂
Now I’m MORE, MORE and MORE happy to be alone 🙂
I think a relations~~~ is worse than jail – try to imagine, for example: you stole 2 million dollars, then you hide it, then cops catch you: 12-15 years of jail, and then you’re free and you have 2 million dollars! 🙂
I have been married for 13.5 years and now I haven’t 2 million dollars, and my wife stoled my house – see? 🙂 the jail is MUCH better! 🙂

[stanley311Participant 2]

Interesting take. Yeah, I wouldn’t give back my marital situation because of my daughter. And ONLY because of my daughter. With you on that one, brother.

[MendokusaiParticipant 256]

I’ve heard this from Asian guys as well -submissive in dating then once married the tiger comes out. I shared a house with two Asian chicks,both at least ten years younger than me.Now let me say that from experience I normally would never share a place with a female (sexual innuendo & all that BS) but at the time I needed a place and having lived with Asians while hosteling I gave it a go. As a roommate and man I was treated like a king-think Richard Chamberlain in Shogun.They would leave me coffee in the morning,left overs from supper,and could they cook,even cleaned the place up for us! Now I had a job that required me to be away for three weeks of the month so I would give them my part of the rent.You know what,they paid it,not some BS excuse and bought shoes with it.Never partied in the place,when they brought their poor excuses of a man over even he would be respecful.Meanwhile I’d be having buddies & chicks over and never once did I hear a bitch.I have never dated one though but I’m assuming it’s better to get a FOB than one whose been corrupted by western values.I’ve known guys who’ve taught English in Japan & Korea and have said how they are treated like a god so maybe it’s just the Western influence that screws these chicks up.

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

She’d yell at me and demean me in front of our very young child. At first, I was like, man, I should stay together for the kid. Then after a few more months of that, I was like, man, we should get divorced for the kid.

I made the same decision for my son. It is far, far better for a child to grow up with split parents than it is to see the father destroyed, unhappy, miserable, disrespected and abused.
Fortunately I wasnt treated quite so badly but it was bad enough and I knew that if I stayed with her, he’d grow up with a hen-pecked father who’d lost his personality and so I walked in order to keep my own mind, pride and self-respect.
Its a tough decision, glad to know others have made the same.

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