My Exes leaving me depressed.

[WeakManParticipant 91]

I haven’t cried more in a span of 1 week in a long long long long time. I have been drinking a lot more too.

Let me start with the most sad thing, my last ex, she was by no means a good person, she is a sad, bitter depressed woman.

I know myself, I always run from that which has made me happy. So someone like her, was perfect for me. I would come to her with my cheery demeanor, and she would inundate me with all her problems and struggles. I would make her laugh sometimes, but, sometimes, her bitterness and sadness would take over and leave her lashing out at me for ‘living in a fantasy world where everything is rainbows and happiness’. well, we broke up when she admitted to me she cheated on me.

We continued to have an ‘afterburn’ aka still sleeping with each other for months, well, during the latter part of that time I started dating again, and have met a most wholesome woman who is mostly everything I look for in a woman. She has done me no wrong, and I have good times with her. She is awesomeness in a body.

When the time came, I asked to be exclusive, ending all things ex, even afterburn. Well, turns out, 3 days ago, she called me, tells me she is pregnant. She also asked if I am in a relationship, I tell her yes, and she cries profusely, and says she is going to abort.

…………..

I hate being a man sometimes…..I would want nothing more than a child. I ran to her, begged her, pleaded, all day, but, when she tried to come onto me, I couldn’t reciprocate………and her resolve became even more steeled. She has hinted that she is done fighting with everything she is going through and everyone she loves screws her over. The abortion is supposed to happen tomorrow, she has texted me that she has blocked me and please not contact her and that ‘dont worry, i’ll take care of everything, i will fade away and you can be happy with your new gf’ ….I don’t know if it’s true, but I haven’t contacted her…

it gets worse.

My other ex, oh…..this one…..I have never loved a woman more than this one. She had been cheating on me and lying to me since we first started dating, and yet, she deceived me for 2 and a half years, in fact, she is the main reason I joined MGTOW. well, I haven’t talked to her in over a month, basically, since the time the new girl had come into the picture. She called me today, saying her roommate(aka her ex(aka the guy who she cheated on me with the entire time)) had hit her, and she needed me immediately. I came blitzing down to her place, and got the whole picture, it wasn’t as bad as she claims, but, nevertheless for many many many reasons, she cannot just leave her ex’s place. She is trying, but, she tells me, she is so happy to see me, I tell her, I have a GF. She instantly moans in pain and cries and says “I didn’t think my heart could break anymore today”

She begins to become very emotional and tells me she had suicidal tendencies last week, and she kept saying to me, remember me, remember that I love you with all my being, you are the one that got away. I pray over her and tell her encouraging words and make sure to promise to call me tomorrow, she agrees, she tells me to go and ‘be happy with your gf’.

I come home and I have texts that say “I lied about calling you tomorrow, I am sorry, goodbye, goodbye I love you always”

So now, here I am, knowing my little one will be killed tomorrow, and the thought that both of my exes are suicidal, and here I am trying my damnedest to happy with the new girl. I LOVE both of my exes still today, I don’t think anything can take that away, I am just not in love with them, because they have hurt me so bad, they both cheated on me and have treated me so poorly after I have given them my love so pure.

I do not love the new girl only by the grace of time, it hasn’t happened because it is just too soon. I have faught myself and kicked myself from breaking it off with the new girl, at the wishes of now, both of my exes.

The 1st time: to pursue a life/family with my last ex(baby mama), but she also knows I would only be with her because of the child and she said she would still get an abortion even if I came back to her to prove that I want her for her and not the baby.

The 2nd time: to be with the 1 woman that I have loved more than any other woman in the world so as almost to save her life. It’s true though, that I could never truly be happy with her as she has done me so, so wrong, so wrong, I forgive her, but she has done me so wrong. Our futures don’t mesh well, oh but I love her so much.

And now, here I am, a broken man, who will lose my first child (RIP little one), and possibly lose the one I love the most, and possibly even lose the life my last ex too as they both are suicidal.

…..How the hell am I supposed to be happy with this new girl, oh it feels so wrong guys, it feels so wrong to be happy with this new girl. What the hell am I doing with her, why have I kept her so sacred.

I have denied both women, and for what?! For happiness? I am not happy…..I feel so selfish, I don’t want to be happy…

I desperately want to break it off with the new girl even though she has done me zero wrong and is so good to me and I have fun with her and she is so wholesome, a word I can’t use to describe either of my exes. Furthermore she is a HAPPY PERSON and she is BEAUTIFUL.

I sit here, sleepless, with a half a bottle of Sangiovese, sad…

I hate being happy. I don’t want it if it comes with such a terrible price…and yet, my actions, have preserved that shred of hope, (my current gf), and have forsaken my exes…

I drink and I will wake up tomorrow, debating on to call both of them tomorrow, or to call my GF and try to live my life in the present.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

I couldn’t bring myself to read your whole story, but you were still having unprotected sex with your ex, and are surprised/depressed/or whatever because she’s pregnant.

While at the same time, you found a new lil cupcake to f~~~ up your head a lil further. Just what ya needed ????

And, you wonder WHY you’re depressed, and drinking yourself to an early death ??

I hate to tell ya , but NOTHING GOOD ever comes from a relationship, and that includes your new lil unicorn as well.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[bladeParticipant]

WeakMan wrote:

and have met a most wholesome woman who is mostly everything I look for in a woman. She has done me no wrong, and I have good times with her. She is awesomeness in a body.

TUNA

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[WeakManParticipant 91]

Awakened wrote:

I couldn’t bring myself to read your whole story, but you were still having unprotected sex with your ex, and are surprised/depressed/or whatever because she’s pregnant.

no, I am sad that she is getting rid of it 🙁

[Anonymous 54]

When you change your name, I’ll read it.

[Anonymous 42]

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

You don’t even see how your ex’s have been manipulating you, but they are saying and doing the same things that every woman does. All of us have experienced the same things.

Let’s start with their “suicidal” tendencies. First off, do you actually think they are going to off themselves? F~~~ NO. They will talk about it endlessly until they have twisted you into knots, but they will never do it. It is a cry for attention. If they were really suicidal, they would do what a man does; eat a 12 ga shotgun shell or jump off a tall building. Worst case, they will take a few too many benadryl then call everyone they know and tell them they are trying to kill themselves.

Second, the pregnancy. Listen carefully. DID SHE SHOW YOU A POSITIVE PREGNANCY TEST? My guess is no, she did not. Chances are she was never pregnant. Even if she was, there are women who buy fake positive tests on ebay. You can’t make this s~~~ up. And even if she was lregnant, HOW DO YOU KNOW IT WAS YOURS? Especially since these c~~~s all cheated on you. There would be a good chance they are comitting paternity fraud. Read as much as you can about it, paternity fraud is real and much more widespread than people think. It is one of the many methods women use to manipulate men, destroy their lives, and extort resources from them.

If she is pregnant, and it is yours, you better f~~~ing PRAY that she aborts it. Having a child with one of those women will ruin your life. I am not kidding. You think you feel like s~~~ now? Imagine how they will manipulate you once they have the kid then use it to extort child support from you and commit emotional blackmail by literally holding your child ransom and keeping them away from you. Your life will be over if she has your kid. Read some of the many stories on here or ask questions from the men on here who have children.

If you want our help, and you are willing to listen to us and take our advice, it is not too late for you to turn your life around. But here is your first step towards a better life.

1. Cut these c~~~s out of your life completely. Block their numbers, get off of any social media sites you are on, move to a new goddamn state if you have to. Get them out of your life.

2. DO NOT GET A NEW ONE. You have a pattern of letting damaged women into your life, and it is only a matter of time until one of them completely destroys you. That is the reason why MGTOW exists in the first place. It is what they do.

I have a feeling you will not listen to anything i am saying, or anything the other members here are telling you. You will go right back to these c~~~s and they will ruin you. But if you want to live, this is a critical moment in your life, and what you do next will determine the course of the rest of your life.

Do not be stupid. Do not allow your feelings to get the best of you and make you do something you will regret for the rest of your life. The fact that you are here shows that you have some sanity left, and that you know you have a problem. Listen to your reasonable side. The rest of your life starts today.

Everything you are experiencing now, i have experienced too. Literally the exact same things, i have been through. I am telling you now, this is how i got through it. My life is f~~~ing awesome now, i could not be happier. If you want that for yourself, you found the right place.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

1) you are insane or you are the most blue pilled guy on earth.

2) wtf, wtf wtf wtf?

Dude wtf is your problem? Seriusly? Slut one, bitch two, and now you have a GF? Let me guess you guys live toguether?

And your first ex? She calls and you go there?

Do you wanna die? Couse that’s how you get stabbed.

She cheated on you remember? If a truck run you over, she wold probably laugh at you.

WHY DO YOU CARE IF THE BITCH GETS BEATEN UP TO DEATH WITH A BASEBALL BAT?

ITS NOT YOUR F~~~ING PROBLEM.

why do you give a f~~~?

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

If I see my ex being turn to minced meat alive, I WOLD WATCH EATING POPCORN.

LEARN TO BE ALONE SOLDIER.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

So let me get this straight. You do self destructive things that you know will turn out badly. Then you complain about how bad your life is. Due to the aforementioned self-destructive behavior. Then you seek attention by telling people your woes. Due to the aforementioned self-destructive behavior. Seek sympathy by adding how depressed and suicidal you are. Due to the aforementioned self-destructive behavior.
You enter a MGTOW site using a nick like weakman and tell simp stories. See self-destructive behavior.

You know exactly what your doing.
Why you’re doing it is a mystery to me.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[DocParticipant]

F~~~ing Hell.

What’s that smell.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[HermitParticipant]

WeakMan…..are you for real? If you are, then you deserve everything you’re getting. You run back to bitches who cheated on you? …..and they’re making you feel bad? THEN STAY THE F~~~ AWAY FROM THEM! “Damn this fire is hot, but I keep sticking my hand in it because I love it so much!”

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

At the great risk of stomping on a broken man who truly needs support…

F~~~ you.

That is all.

When I see a novel the bulls~~~ meter goes off.

Ok, now that I read it, lots of tuna/troll indicators I wont even bother quoting.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[JVBParticipant]

no, I am sad that she is getting rid of it

Best thing for the both of you. Neither sound fit for parenthood.

Peace is > piece.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

FrostByte wrote:

So let me get this straight. You do self destructive things that you know will turn out badly. Then you complain about how bad your life is. Due to the aforementioned self-destructive behavior. Then you seek attention by telling people your woes. Due to the aforementioned self-destructive behavior. Seek sympathy by adding how depressed and suicidal you are. Due to the aforementioned self-destructive behavior.
You enter a MGTOW site using a nick like weakman and tell simp stories. See self-destructive behavior.

You know exactly what your doing.
Why you’re doing it is a mystery to me.

Nailed it. YOU are the cause of your misery. Make better choices. I joke about my “picker being broken” when it comes to women, but dude you need to take at least a year or two off with NO women in your life. What you are going through is a s~~~ show. Women are causing all of the s~~~, but it’s your fault for letting them into your life.

One year, no women. Oh yeah, and

ONE CHANCE, PER PERSON, PER LIFETIME. NO EXCEPTIONS. Exes are exes for a reason.

Order the good wine

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Really? The first common denominator in your misery is you.

The second is the women you allow in YOUR life.

Why do you think so little of YOUR life that you allow this?

Start taking care of yourself. Not just to be selfish or a dick. Do it because nobody else truly gives two s~~~s about you. These women causing drama and cheating wouldn’t come to your funeral if you died.

Fix YOUR life. Set personal goals and tell nobody what they are! Accomplish them! Build YOUR future.

If you’re here to troll or want advice on which woman you should be with… I can’t help you.

Wholesome girl… got a good laugh at that one

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Damn tax Guy! Beat me to it! 10 stars!

[KolaxisParticipant 668]

Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

[Maximus AureliusParticipant 351]

No one can help those, That are not willing to help themselves!

All the bad feelings and misery you unloaded… THERE’S YOUR SIGN!

You either like your life and how women treat you or you don’t.

I almost got the sense you were bragging about how much s~~~ one man can pile up in one’s life all at the same time…

(where’s that eye roll emoji when you need it!!)

Meditating on the Wisdom & Truths of Man, Isn't just a Philosophy, but a Calling......Be willing to be Called a Man!

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Trapper wrote:

Damn tax Guy! Beat me to it! 10 stars!

Don’t worry about it. He needs to hear the message over and over and over until it sinks in. It’s for his own good.

Order the good wine

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