My ex HAHAHAH

[HeadstrongParticipant 84]

Im gonna tell yall brothers about the last girlfriend i had.
She was of russian decent and watching her parents taught me alot of how things work in their daily lives.
Her father maintains/works his ass off as a cabdriver/brings home the money to let her mother do the administering and making decisions of how when and why spending should take place for the home and what else.

So here i am during christmas in their town visiting, me being a person with an immense amount of personal integrity.. I went to school with streetkids junkies, thieves and haters and criminals. I watched alot and learnt much during that period, especially what not to do in life. Perhaps i was born with this instinct nvm it worked.

Well back to the christmas at my girlfriends parents home.
Initially her mother asked me to do the dishes like she wanted me to, i responded, that i’ve worked in restaurants and that my way was accepted by my superiors and should be ok with the responsible authorities of that particular business. I could smell the rage cooking her brain, It was obvious to her that i would not let my person be controlled by anyonne elses will, Ofcourse not, She should be thankful that i offerd myself to help her do the things at her home, but NO, it had to be done her way.

I moved away from a f~~~ed up mothers home by the age of 16 having my own responsabilities in life, i was one of them kids who had to grow up far too soon than normally expected.

That said and done i was hoping it would be the last, but she kept pushing it like a maniac. After several and too many occasions of unnecessary hateful and crazed behavior from her mother i had enough, i stepped up and started packing my s~~~, i was going back home damnit. Standing in the hallway one foot out thru the door her father came out after me asked me to please stop doing this… Right there and then i understood how things REALLY work in their family, and with my girlfriend, and what kind of girlfriend person really was.
It also rhymed well wit hwhat she said at the start of our relations~~~ “why me when you can get anyone you want”. At least her father was man enough running out after me, talking between the two of us. He said that this is the only thing he’s got in life, meaning his family. I was baffled, how a man, a person, any person could be like that, how low a person could get himself down on someone elses terms conditions, existential fabric and matter. So i stayed, cause he came out asking me to, like a half a man would do, he took some kind of initiative, and that i respected.

Back home after that christmas hanging out with my girlfriend, she increasingly acted more and more demanding, so i once again stepped it up in ways she’d never expected me to. For about a 2-3 week period i did every single little thing, in ways after her will, and i responded like some kind of robotic soldier housemaid utilitary tool helper to her uses. Example: i was at one of my computers which i had taken to her flat, since i studied computers back then, she simply said codeword, “laundry”, expecting me to act accordingly. i abruptly ripped out the electric cord from my computer saying “yes” standing up next to my chair. and off we went like some kind of workers unit doing her whatevers.. And later “buy food”, and once again i killswitched everything i was doing answering “yep”. During this period i did not engage in any kind of discussion that would be adhered as provoking, disturbing, or jeopardizing in any way, answering everything positively, you know almost like relations in a movie with big companies which are half yakuza half military complex and half something else.
Only then she understood that “it” could not keep going. And ocfourse my fault, since i am the one who had changed so much. This is how i spent time killing off the last of our relationship. I was figuring, since we’d have no argues and growling over one thing and another i had simply placed my relation to her in a state of protocol like manners of relating in situations to see if things would change or do anything, but she just kept pushing and she had no ending to it as far as i could see, until that last day she couldnt bear herself anymore and messaged me on the phone saying me and all my stuff should be away from her home by the time she came back. I’m like.. hey im not one of them, im outta here. Enjoying MILF porn playing GTA on playstation and eating triple cheeseburgers never felt and tasted better right then and there.

What i found so interesting is, that i could bear the pressure, hey man i can bear any motherf~~~ing pressure that’s out there, just let me adjust and i’ll do it fine, but what differs her from me is that i have denominators with clarity of what is a part of my own person and which is another ones idiocy. She literally cracked herself in pieces bailing off to her parents to reset her borderline personality head, expecting the badness to be gone by the time she is back home at her flat.

When looking at it in retrospect, she was a good you know what, a pretty looking moron thinking she’s ontop of some kind of imagined game, when there is no arena to play around in. Could i live without her, yes, i hated her for calling me after she dumped me. Now she is out in the sewers in my book.

We went out 2 wekends in a row after she had dumped me, and what i thought was so funny is while we had decided after her wishes to be friends, i made out with a chinese good looking girl, oh man she really like european males. i can tell. I saw my ex negatively surprized getting a cold shower from world of feelings, apparently i wasnt hers anymore. First she cracked herself like an egg when she realized im not her toy, and then finally once again when she saw me having a mind of my own not being her slave.

I mean, i better go do something other than this. so past 10 years ive been MGTOW, and just lately i found out about MGTOW through sandman, and i truly enjoy the openness in his youtube vids. Cuz that is what things are about in life, being constructive and free, having full of good initiatives.

Take care out there brothers and rock on.

[Anonymous 18]

Feigning beta is perhaps one of the advanced skills that need overriding one’s ego and defensive mode. Especially when a woman is being irrational (even to her own mind- which is crazy to us), letting her have her way is going to kill off any interest on her part.

Women strive on conflict. That’s what they all have in their minds. C-O-N-F-L-I-C-T.

You did good man. Her father is a sad case like most current mangina’s future.

[HeadstrongParticipant 84]

I still from time to time find myself smiling when i think of the cord and the computer saying yes. HAhAHAH that was MGTOW.

As a person i think i got a little of each type, talking that alpha beta and the others.

But i’m never afraid of being aggressive and conflict striven if needed to. Sometimes it can be a good thing not attacking as a measure of defence. Im deterring enough with the visage of my persona, got wider shoulders than many cops out in the field, and ofcourse any female opponent would expect me to use this asset or whatever it could be called regardless of the situation. Physical violence, especially women are often found projecting the potential of occurrence.

Example
my sister called the cops on me simply for being strong having my own will in things, cops was like, uhm he is military, has he done anything? she like, no but he is strong, the lady cop answered, but it’s not a crime having physical strength and speaking clear with determined voice isnt it?

Nothing can subdue me with bitchslap, being spat at and called a scank. Hey man, i attended far rougher training, for far more terrible circumstances than light offences. BRING IT ON, and dont forget giving your best at it too. I’m probably more of that incredible male knight of her dreams than all pickup artists she ever met, all at once.

Right there we have a problem. A huge chunk of troubles for the future of humanity, There are more females in this world than men. And the majority are to be found in La-La-Land. F~~~in encredible. The odds are terrible for equality. In fact my sister reflects much more about society and the state of MGTOW than any exgf ive had, since i see them from a much closer perspective. Females overtly play themselves out expecting physical violence or the threat of it to be present.. to gain from, in all ways possible. This is not an economic question, not race, not sexual preference, not determined by the level of education, not culture or custom, or social. Its MGTOW. Im gonna make a MGTOW Diploma for myself and give it to people that have deserved it.

Nothing bad with a social skill diploma.

[HitmanParticipant]

thanks for sharing headstrong ..look who raised that woman ! the apple never falls far from the tree ..you avoided a real bad situation !

[HeadstrongParticipant 84]

thanks hitman and ILearn.

I’m still amazed over women thinking men are cavemen by nature, when it is by choise.
I had had a phucked up mother and ive seen it all, with clarity.
Herbivore caveman

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Anonymous wrote:

Feigning beta is perhaps one of the advanced skills that need overriding one’s ego and defensive mode. Especially when a woman is being irrational (even to her own mind- which is crazy to us), letting her have her way is going to kill off any interest on her part.

Acting broke/low-status keeps the c~~~s away for sure, lmao

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[HeadstrongParticipant 84]

Yea so i’ve noticed, i use worn out workwear most of the time, u know really hard labour kind of worn out, not trendy imitating worn out clothes, now and then i see some ladies having a hard time peeling their eyes off of me, and i wonder what in the hell now then. WHY? im ugly and poor and non grad school

[bomwaParticipant 488]

Headstrong wrote:

Yea so i’ve noticed, i use worn out workwear most of the time, u know really hard labour kind of worn out, not trendy imitating worn out clothes, now and then i see some ladies having a hard time peeling their eyes off of me, and i wonder what in the hell now then. WHY? im ugly and poor and non grad school

Well my grandpa told me many times when I was a teenager, that women want to take home a real brute of a man. They want to see if they can reform him. He said the best way to find a woman was to get horribly drunk and pass out in the gutter. If there was a woman out there looking for a man she’d come back with a wheelbarrow and put you in it and take you back to her house.

Maybe you’re cultivating the wrong look entirely!

[HeadstrongParticipant 84]

Hmmmm bomwa, what would a good look be if i wanna be left alone? any ideas?

[MemberParticipant 323]

Its funny how you can learn a lot about a potential mate just by watching their family interact. I totally believe that women (just like men of course) learn relationship dynamics from their mom and dad. If she is used to seeing Mom brow beat Dad her whole life she will expect the same. They have been taught nothing less……..it may happen soon or it may happen later but it will happen. Probably not long after you say ” I DO”.

Maybe I should use that line of thinking with the next woman I meet. I should just skip the questions about her and go right to questions about her folks, ” Has your father ever slept on the couch after an argument with your mother? Has your mother ever locked your father out of the car or house when angry? Does your mother frequently refuse to cook for your father because she thinks its demeaning? Does your mom put out on a regular basis or does put out only on Leap Years?” Etc etc.

[experiencedParticipant]

@bomwa
priceless
~”my grandpa says to get drunk and pass out in the gutter” to pick up women.
You made my day, still laughing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
thank you

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