Greetings to all,
I’ve been reading the articles on here for about a month and have been meaning to write an introduction but was sidetracked by what is hopefully my last bout of court drama with an ex (a truly sociopathic single mother, with 2 baby fathers) and trying to get better contact with my sons (a 4 year battle so far).
Have been MGTOW since last year after a series of ‘wake up calls’. Must admit I could not see the forest for the trees and was blue pill for way too long.
Some of my history: I was once married to an asian girl, thinking she would have better morals and be more family oriented (dumb I know but I was in my late teens and as naive as they come). Found out later that she would have been deported the next day and was desperately seeking to stay here with her family. I was only told of her intentions when I’d had enough of her ultimatums and ended up divorcing her (last one I was working far from home, she was all ‘go away and work, I need money’, then ‘leave your job and come back or I want a divorce’). Had kids from her, when we divorced she said: now you are no longer with me, you can go and find a new family and find some new kids! Had a legal battle for a few years with that one.
Ffwd a few years, I moved onto the dating scene, moved in with a girl who was a total control freak, got out of there pretty quick as soon as the tenancy agreement allowed me to. Ended up moving in with a single mother a year or so later (partly cos I had a deadline to move out of my parents house). On day 3 of moving in and after having slept with her, she tells me we need an AIDS test as she had unprotected sex a few months before. If it wasn’t that she was pregnant in that first few weeks, I would have kicked her to the curb there and then but being the dumb ‘Capt Save A Ho’ I was then and wanting to be a good father I stayed. Came to find out her daughter was conceived out of wedlock which would have shamed her family so she got married to her ex to cover up the ‘shame’. Yet another red sign! One day I found the paperwork for her divorce, initiated by him, citing domestic violence (something I would go on to experience). The last time I slept with her, she said ‘imagine we’d slept with other people while we’d been separated’, I didn’t really pay attention to that line until 10 days later I got a burning sensation when peeing!
I had only stayed with her 1 year (with a few periods of separation) when I got sent to prison for quite a few years for something her friends had done and I’d got blamed for, me not being a snitch (even though no one really lives by that code when s**t hits the fan) didn’t help and I kept quiet. Also she wasn’t speaking up for me even though she has and had no problem calling the police with numerous false accusations. Prior to meeting her I’d never had any trouble with the law.
Ffwd a few more years (4 to be exact) after coming out of prison, I finally found peace when I got my own place. Am no longer with said sociopathic ex, she has continued being a ho, she went onto marry another sociopath who had been married 5 times prior and met her match. They are no longer together now, after their attempts to lie against me in court went a bit pear shaped. She even got pregnant and had an abortion after telling the guy she was on the pill. Glad to be half free from that one! (Kids are the last chain I need to break)
Have dated quite a few women since her and found them all to be bat sh** crazy and liars so am pretty much fully MGTOW’d out now. One thing I will never do again is move in with a woman to ‘her place’ as that way I can never be kicked out again when its that time of the month (which seems to be every day anyway!).
Currently, going to court for last time, as I’ve realised, the courts are incredibly bias, facilitate parent alienation and even though I have clear proof on numerous counts that she is a pathological liar, they still rule in her favour and deny a father who wants to be a part of his sons life the opportunity to have reasonable contact (not a few hrs a month) After 4 years I think I’ve fought hard enough to say enough is enough. I’ll just wait till my sons are older when the bitch can’t come between us. Coming across this site has helped a great deal. Hope to share more experiences as this a brief summary of how I have ended up here.
J.D Silvernail 4 years, 8 months ago.
