My Dialectic On Men, Women, and Sex

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

First, for the sake of this discussion I want to explore the value of sex in relationships outside of the obvious reason for it. Which is to say making babies. Let’s not go there right now.

Second, for the sake of this discussion, I will be doing some generalizing here. If you are going to take issue with this, place don’t take issue on a case-by-case basis. Please take issue with the generalization in and of itself. I.e. Men just like to f~~~ because it’s fun, feels good, etc.

So. Sex is good. Right? In established relationships, it strengthens and pair bond through the release of serotonin. It is a form of communication in and of itself. For men, it’s better than rubbing one out, though nothing wrong with that when you have a need and want to take an extra few minutes in the shower. Me, Rosy, and her five sisters are well acquainted. Lastly, I have found that men garner a sense of satisfaction (ego boost, etc) from making their female partner come seven times and say that “I can’t do it anymore, my pussy hurts.” I believe that this encompasses a lot if not most of the attitudes that men have about sex. If I have missed something pertinent here I really want to hear about it.

In so far as women are concerned, we can only make assumptions based upon personal experience, observation, and empirical evidence.

Important! I have heard it said that guessing at another person’s motives are counterproductive. I have also heard it said that if we don’t make some form of conjecture about motives, then we have no way of being able to plan and prepare should we encounter a similar issue and are required to navigate the various mine fields that can be expected. To state another way, when facing an opponent, an understanding of the opponent’s motives is key when examining the actions you find yourself up against. I’m sure that someone here can say it more eloquently than I, but I believe that I’m getting my point across.

Opponent is the key word here gentlemen. When was the last time that you ended a relationship with a member of the, ahem, “fairer sex” in a non-oppositional way?

Women also enjoy sex. As the relationship evolves, the frequency of sex diminishes for various legitimate and illegitimate reasons. As the relationship is not so much as established but entrenched, it can become nonexistent. Now in my personal experience, this is when women start using sex to manipulate. The if/then statement starts coming forward. “If you just do this then I would be in the mood for sex more.”

Sex being used for manipulation. Sex is withdrawn as a weapon to punish. Now if a woman is using sex to achieve a goal or to punish, this tells me that the outcomes for misusing sex in this way is more favorable than the benefit of renewing the pair bond, or just sharing physical pleasure with your spouse.

The benefits I see are as follows.

1.Having control over the relationship with sex as the power base. By proxy this means having control over the man.
2.The accomplishment of certain tasks, stated requirements, or the acquisition of some form of physical property. Shoes, purses, car, etc.

In short, women take greater pleasure and find greater security in a relationship when using sex to get their way and establish preeminence, rather than reaffirming a relationship, or just having the pleasure and satiety of coming over and over again.

Obvious to most, but I would like to hear what you have to say.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Today’s woman will use sex to manipulate many men, not just the one. Women are promiscuous, cunning, and do not care if they hurt someone because of their actions. As such, I would recommend not getting attached, and never let the woman control the sexual encounters, if you must partake. If a woman used to have sex with you and stops, chances are, she is still getting it somewhere, you are just not the one getting it. Be smart, don’t let them manipulate you, as this is their only power and only provision in today’s relationship.

Women cannot cook, cannot clean, cannot carry a conversation, cannot do anything for a man that a man cannot just simply do himself. It is easier to just do it yourself as a man, as you do not have to make a big argument for her to fold the laundry just one time, let alone actually carry her weight around the house. The only thing a woman can provide me that I cannot provide myself is sex. For what they want in return, and how they behave when partaking in the activity, it is simply not worth it. When it comes for a long term relationship, especially marriage, women are not worth the time or effort.

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

Yes, you could give it to her good, make her cum 7 times, 12 times or when her pussy falls right out, what you forget is that women’s brains are better at multitasking, while the man’s brain is usually better at mastering or doing one thing at a time, So by knowing that, even if you f~~~ed her that good, she still is a woman, shes going to be thinking at least 1,034 ways to extract value out of you……No, not by asking you to put a new toilet paper roll next to the toilet.

Also you seem to forget that women have facebook, twitter, society, etc… all working against you, out of jealousy any woman could tell your current gf that dumping you is a good idea, she will take that random woman’s advice any day compared to you who are her boyfriend of idk… 3 years?.

You can’t trust a creature that by its nature doesn’t trust you to begin with, women’s forte is not loyalty….The more time you spend with a woman, the more that clock is ticking, the closer that bomb is ready to go off suddenly, often times you don’t feel anything because of the s~~~ vortex manifesting violently and suddenly.

Don’t play the damn game boys….

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