My Dear John letter from cupcake

[joetechParticipant]

So, since I don’t know how to copy and paste from my phone, I’m in for a lot of typing. I got an envelope in the mail a few days ago from cupcake, who is still finding memories of me strewn all over her house. Today I opened it. Inside was a letter stating “I will always love you. I hope you’ll find it in your heart to forgive me. I really miss you in my life & the life we were building.” I’ve already blocked her e-mails, so letters and phone are the only options left to her. After reflection I texted her the following message…”Opened it today. You miss me and the life we were building? First you destroyed that life then you let your daughter physically abuse me without lifting a finger to stop it. What do you think I should miss? The nagging or the head injuries?”
I know I should just ignore her (which I’ve been doing), but 13 years is a long time to invest in someone to have it end like this. She’s finally taken some accountability for her actions, and as you can see…now, a year later, she asks forgiveness. Pay attention, guys. This is how they operate. I should tell her I miss my sleep number bed and to send THAT to me. Fat chance. In the end she destroyed the one thing she could have counted on but refused to. Now, it’s like, “Wait! Where’s my porridge?” Sorry honey, no soup for you. Thanks for listening (or reading, or whatever).

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

joetech wrote:

“I will always love you. I hope you’ll find it in your heart to forgive me. I really miss you in my life & the life we were building.”

Classic line mate. Once they wake up and look themselves in the mirror they soon realise they f~~~ed up.

DON’T GIVE HER ANY ATTENTION. You know you should be ignoring her, you said it yourself.

Looks like you want to get back at her a bit. Let her destroy herself. She will. Enjoy your life.

joetech wrote:

In the end she destroyed the one thing she could have counted on but refused to.

Women always see fault. If 95% is good, they will focus on the 5.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Anonymous 7]

joetech wrote:

I know I should just ignore her

Meh, sometimes a dude has to just get stuff off his chest.

You sly devil you actually made cupcake dig into her pocket for once (the stamp).

Cheers

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Ex Wife/Girlfriend 101:
NO CONTACT OF ANY KIND…EVER…
She is trying to s~~~ test you by provoking a reaction/response from you, why let her?
Over the years, I’ve received dozens of voicemails, emails, texts, letters, birthday/christmas cards from ex girlfriends.
I don’t ever bother to read any of it, I deleted/threw them away…

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Ignore her Joetech do not respond to her ever again.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Yup she is looking to circle on back for the kill! Ignore her.

[BoarParticipant]

Ghost is the only option. Any attention is the oxygen to fuel her fire and she is looking to burn you again.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[JakeParticipant 908]

mine chased me for three years that’s the problem when your nice to them don’t be nice

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

Yes you should ignore her.

But f~~~ing classic answer.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[HermitParticipant]

I was at my x’s house one time to see my son. She started crying and said, “This is just a house now and not a home without you in it.” I said, “You kicked me out.” She said nothing and that was the end of it.

Women are so f~~~ing stupid. They want what they don’t have and don’t appreciate what they do have. They’re like little children who get a new shiny toy for Christmas and they really love it at first. Then they don’t care as much about it and abuse it till it’s broken. Then they discard it. They after they’ve discarded other new toys, they miss that first one that they used to love so much when it was new.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[joetechParticipant]

Gerald wrote:

But f~~~ing classic answer.

Thank you.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Not bad, at least this one said she f~~~ed over.

My ex told me “I’m sorry things didn’t work between us”

Like it was destined not to work, Iñigo had nothing to do, etc… f~~~ off bitch.

I didn’t answer I refuse to give more time to a narcissist who can’t say “I’m sorry, I did wrong “

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[MonkParticipant 16985]

joetech wrote:

I know I should just ignore her (which I’ve been doing), but 13 years is a long time to invest in someone to have it end like this.

It’s not ending. That’s the problem.

CUT HER OFF.

She’s finally taken some accountability for her actions, and as you can see…now, a year later, she asks forgiveness.

Like hell she has. They are incapable of it.

This is a s~~~ test to see if monkey branching back is an option.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

You can’t effectively move FORWARD in life when looking BACK over your shoulder….

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

Ok, I think you needed to reply in this case. The brothers have warned you, so I’m not going to add to this.

Grab a forever stamp, return address written over yours that the c~~~ wrote an the same envelope. Throw an open condom in there with a note saying her friend just left but said hi?

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Always best to forgive, but not forget. Giving her an emotional response is what she was/is looking for. That is what she was attempting to get from you. Makes her feel validated.

When a woman I was seeing for a few months called me out of the blue and said, hey, I really like you, but I do not think we should see each other anymore. She was prob. thinking he’s going to ask why or what’s wrong. ForeverDone ver. 2.2 said and did the following:

Okay. Take care and I hung up the phone. No emotional validation. That is what us men have to learn. They live off of drama and emotional responses. Do not give it to them. I would not had responded. I would had gone so far as stamp the letter, return to sender. It would had driven her nuts.

Women are the masters of mind games. We, as men, must learn to master them as well.

As Dale Carnegie states in his book, How to Win Friends and Influence People, if you need to get something off your chest, write the letter and print it out. Do not mail it. Just put it away and revisit it when you calm down. The book was written nearly 80 years ago. E-mail and texting wasn’t around. I wish I read the book prior to my marriage. Lots of insight.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

joetech wrote:

So, since I don’t know how to copy and paste from my phone, I’m in for a lot of typing. I got an envelope in the mail a few days ago from cupcake, who is still finding memories of me strewn all over her house. Today I opened it. Inside was a letter stating “I will always love you. I hope you’ll find it in your heart to forgive me. I really miss you in my life & the life we were building.” I’ve already blocked her e-mails, so letters and phone are the only options left to her. After reflection I texted her the following message…”Opened it today. You miss me and the life we were building? First you destroyed that life then you let your daughter physically abuse me without lifting a finger to stop it. What do you think I should miss? The nagging or the head injuries?”
I know I should just ignore her (which I’ve been doing), but 13 years is a long time to invest in someone to have it end like this. She’s finally taken some accountability for her actions, and as you can see…now, a year later, she asks forgiveness. Pay attention, guys. This is how they operate. I should tell her I miss my sleep number bed and to send THAT to me. Fat chance. In the end she destroyed the one thing she could have counted on but refused to. Now, it’s like, “Wait! Where’s my porridge?” Sorry honey, no soup for you. Thanks for listening (or reading, or whatever).

You f~~~ed up and contacted her. Don’t do that.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[joetechParticipant]

ForeverDone wrote:

Women are the masters of mind games. We, as men, must learn to master them as well.

I got my response a little while ago. It said, “You’re welcome.”
So, I should be thankful for being lied to, verbally abused, and then assaulted with a wine glass to the forehead? Yeah, I’m blocking her.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

joetech wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

Women are the masters of mind games. We, as men, must learn to master them as well.

I got my response a little while ago. It said, “You’re welcome.”
So, I should be thankful for being lied to, verbally abused, and then assaulted with a wine glass to the forehead? Yeah, I’m blocking her.

Again. She was just looking for an emotional response and validation. Next time, don’t feed the beast; if there is a next time. I too have fallen into this trap. We’re all human.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Under the laws of most states, any contact that occurs from the first party to the second party after the second party has requested no further contact = harassment. Harassment is a criminal offense in my state. Although it’s a 3rd degree misdemeanor (no more significant than a traffic ticket), it remains a criminal offense that will appear on a background check for job interviews etc.

I had an ex wife still contacting me many years after telling her to stop. Messages were the usual irrational prattling of a p~~~ed off woman, and I ignored them for years. Finally, she crossed the line and made a threat, which I saved.

I had an attorney call and explain to her that harassment charges and restraining orders appeared on background checks, and that if I ever heard from her again, that message would be played for a judge and she would be on the receiving end of both.

Check the laws of your state, and if you choose to ever contact her again, I would recommend that the contact be made by an attorney explaining to her the consequences under your state’s laws for continuing to contact you.

In my experience, nothing says “GET THE F~~~ OUT” quite like an attorney with a restraining order. It is a public announcement (humiliating) that a woman is such a nut job that a man has resorted to legal mechanisms to push her away. They don’t like rejection, but they are terrified of public rejection. It’s the only thing I ever found that would influence a crazy bitch’s behavior.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

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