My Dad, the Blue Pill Man

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

I’m not asking for advice, just putting my thoughts and frustration from the last few days out there.

My dad, I believe, is a good man. He is probably the hardest working person I know, he strives to make everyone feel included and important, and he gives freely of his time to those who need it. That being said, he downs the blue pill like it’s candy and it annoys the s~~~ out of me. I have a very “traditional” family: Dad works in an office, Mom stays home and raises the kids. I’ll say that my mom works harder than most women I know who do what she does. She’s the mom of 8 and grandmother of 2 and she cooks, cleans, washes/dries/folds the laundry, cuts hair, hems/alters/patches clothes, drives the kids to and from school, and generally does all the “house” stuff. However, at the end of the day, my mom is still a woman and is quick to get overwhelmed about frivolous s~~~ and spend money while making my dad feel like s~~~ by taking out her anger on him and insulting his intelligence. I’ve seen my dad get gooey about complimenting my mom and showing affection, but I’ve never seen her talk about how much she loves him. It didn’t occur to me until I took the red pill just how cold my mom is towards my dad most the time.

And yet, he still acts like he’s got himself such a catch. He takes s~~~ from the bitches that work for him because he needs them to draw in the clientele and lets them walk all over him. He’s the boss, yet he’s most often the one that has to come in on weekends or stay late. When women say things like that he doesn’t know how to dress himself because he’s a man or he doesn’t know about/can’t have a say about X issue because he’s a guy, he just accepts it. Worse yet, he’s keeps trying to get me to come back to the blue pill side of the fence. He fully acknowledges that women in their late teens/early 20’s just want to “have fun” (aka ride the c~~~ carousel/use men) and that they’re “not ready to commit” until their older, and yet he wants me to waste my time and resources on them now, while I’m young. When he comes home and sees my mom working on a project like painting the ceiling or bringing in the groceries, he immediately berates me for making my “poor mom” do it.

The worst part is I finally told my dad I had no intent of ever dating or marrying and when he asked why, I explained divorce statistics, the lack of men’s rights in reproduction and parenting, false rape accusations and all that did was lead into an argument wherein he told me he doesn’t believe women can rape men. He’s part of the muscle behind the matriarchy and I find it sad that he’s bound to a woman who doesn’t love him and surrounded by people who can’t respect him anymore because they see as soon as they have a vagina, he’ll buckle to what they want.

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

I feel you, brother. I haven’t spent much time with my dad since I was 19. Last time I went to his house a year ago he asked me “what have you done with your life?”, and I intuitively knew he was asking it because I had no kids and have never been married. He has been married four times, twice to my mother, and left a family in ruin because he wanted to follow the life script. Refusing to pass your genes and possibly name on to another generation seems to threaten their ego and way of life. They resort to shaming in an attempt to justify their own life choices.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

That’s the bitch of the red pill. Everything …… absolutely everything is revealed. It spares you nothing.

Your story should serve as a warning …. and awareness … for those about to enter.

The only way I could cope was to forgive those I loved in my family.

 

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Yup, my dad is the similar and quite religous now, used to be a drunk but got into religion and changed his whole outlook on everything now he’s hardcore traditional blue pill all the way, honestly I liked him better as a drunk.

We don’t talk much anymore because of conflicting opinions and also I’m an adult. He’s always saying “ya gotta get back out there land a nice girl” and “I’m like ok dad,” say hi to everyone and I’ll talk you soon. It seems like mostly the older men are ingrained with a blue pill mentality its all they know.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[Lord VatsParticipant 379]

KingOfTheSea wrote:

He’s part of the muscle behind the matriarchy

I can relate too, friend. My father too, is a hard core blue piller. I’m 19 so I still live with my family and it drives me mad seeing him taking so much s~~~ for nothing.
The thing is, you can feel nothing but pity for them (although you shouldn’t) but they are a part of the problem because their ignorance causes a lot of trouble for us guys. Who do you think moonlights as a white knight? Guys like our fathers.

KingOfTheSea wrote:

He takes s~~~ from the bitches that work for him because he needs them to draw in the clientele and lets them walk all over him. He’s the boss, yet he’s most often the one that has to come in on weekends or stay late.

I’d go so far to say that he’ll even take care of troubles for them by white knighting.

 

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

Lord Vats wrote:

I’d go so far to say that he’ll even take care of troubles for them by white knighting.

Oh yeah, he goes out of his way to be a good boss to them. For example, every time he goes somewhere cool on vacation (Europe, Hawaii, Disneyland, etc) he brings them back these intense souvenirs. Spoils them on holidays and gives them outrageous monthly bonuses/gifts for accomplishing sales goals. Kind of upsets me because when I did tech work in his office (which was a joke; I consider myself basic at best when it comes to computers), I was treated like s~~~ the whole time.

[lonestar77Participant 406]

I see my parents almost every Sunday. The whole time I’m there, all I see is my Dad catering to my Mom’s every whim simply to avoid an argument. It’s like he is walking on egg shells constantly around her. He wrote the “Happy wife, Happy Life” mantra probably. I hate to see him (or any man) so whipped and if I ever said anything, he would probably just get offended. So I just sit there and laugh to myself! It’s too bad he has no friends and my mom even says so! I feel like saying ” He has no friends because you probably alienated them from him years ago!” Anyway I learned alot from my parents and even though they have a good marriage, it still sucks!!!

NOT FOR ME!

MGTOW IS THE LIGHT AND SAVIOR OF MEN ! ! !

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