My Dad legitimately had a NAWALT unicorn…. but

[SweetDaddyDom420Participant 391]

My father started seeing a woman when I was 15. They were engaged for 27 years, but lived separately. They both liked their own space I guess, but it worked for them. They traveled, shared a lot of memories, and were legitimately in love. This woman, her name is Nancy, is a saint and the closest thing I had to a mom. Dad passed away almost 2 years ago, and sometimes she still cries when she talks about him.
However, she isn’t the most attractive woman you have ever met. And she is now in her 70s, which means she comes from an entirely different time. I have always used their relationship as a model for what I was looking for. And then I met Stephanie.
Stephanie and I met a couple of years ago. She had brownish gray teeth, a manly face, but a decent body for a woman with 5 kids. I was bored, and made it clear that we would be FWB only. But of course, she fell in love. We got along great, laughed and had fun together, and I can honestly say that she and I would have been happy together for life, except for the fact that I wasn’t attracted to her. She even told me once, “I am your Nancy.” And maybe, she was right. All the women I ever knew, that were probably decent life partners, were unattractive.
It has since occurred to me, that out of all the men I have met in life, the only few that I knew of, that were happily married, had settled for someone who was considerably less attractive than they were. Maybe the only way that females get their attitude right going in, is to marry someone completely out of their league.
Or maybe this is the meaning of life. To realize that beauty is only skin deep, and that we will all be old and ugly someday. But I just can’t do it. Try as I might, I can’t look a woman in the face and have legitimate feelings for them, if there is no attraction. But my sex drive is simply too strong to just give it up entirely. I guess I will just stick to my porn and hookers.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Look son, you can try to date a butterface but it won’t work. You’ll never love her because men love women for WHAT they are, not WHO they are. Sure, you want loyalty and gratitude… but you want the loyalty and gratitude of a woman WHO CAN DO BETTER… not one who CAN’T.

And let’s say you did go “Shallow Hal” and somehow manage to convince yourself that you loved a physically unappealing woman for who she is inside. Do you know what would happen? Her hypergamy would kick in and she would LEAVE YOU. Hey, she can get you… someone CLEARLY out of her league… so why can’t she get you plus an extra $30,000 a year income or a nicer car or a bigger dick?

She’ll leave you just as sure as any woman would.

But you couldn’t love her anyway… because you wouldn’t respect her. You can only respect the sacrifice of a woman giving herself to you whose SMV is at your level or higher. That’s just way it is, kiddo.

Nice try, though.

[Anonymous 18]

Nancy was AWALT. You dad was the best she could have.

A woman’s as loyal as her best option.

Kudos to your dad.

[VerusParticipant 965]

People settle when they have to. Attractiveness in women is a double edged sword. The more attractive a women is the more options she has and the more she’ll take you for granted. On the other hand, the less attractive a woman is the less interesting she is from a male perspective. I’ve had a couple of family members tell me I should marry a longtime female friend of mine, but that’s because they are thinking of her happiness, not mine. She’s obese and there’s no attraction. Not gonna happen. And once you get to a certain age…I’m in my mid-50s, and women who are in my age range are post wall, and even if they did maintain their appearance they are mostly divorcees with more baggage issues than the overhead bins on United Airlines. Sadly, without attraction women are just friends who have more emotional needs and problems than male friends. Just not worth it.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

My father started seeing a woman when I was 15. They were engaged for 27 years, but lived separately. They both liked their own space I guess, but it worked for them. They traveled, shared a lot of memories, and were legitimately in love. This woman, her name is Nancy, is a saint and the closest thing I had to a mom. Dad passed away almost 2 years ago, and sometimes she still cries when she talks about him.
However, she isn’t the most attractive woman you have ever met. And she is now in her 70s, which means she comes from an entirely different time. I have always used their relationship as a model for what I was looking for. And then I met Stephanie.
Stephanie and I met a couple of years ago. She had brownish gray teeth, a manly face, but a decent body for a woman with 5 kids. I was bored, and made it clear that we would be FWB only. But of course, she fell in love. We got along great, laughed and had fun together, and I can honestly say that she and I would have been happy together for life, except for the fact that I wasn’t attracted to her. She even told me once, “I am your Nancy.” And maybe, she was right. All the women I ever knew, that were probably decent life partners, were unattractive.
It has since occurred to me, that out of all the men I have met in life, the only few that I knew of, that were happily married, had settled for someone who was considerably less attractive than they were. Maybe the only way that females get their attitude right going in, is to marry someone completely out of their league.
Or maybe this is the meaning of life. To realize that beauty is only skin deep, and that we will all be old and ugly someday. But I just can’t do it. Try as I might, I can’t look a woman in the face and have legitimate feelings for them, if there is no attraction. But my sex drive is simply too strong to just give it up entirely. I guess I will just stick to my porn and hookers.

Do you really think they don’t marry for looks? I mean unless you are going to be rich and old and want a bimbo wife gold-digger, women want an attractive man. More attractive than them if possible, because vagina status.

Men do not get married to be celibate. Sex requires physical attraction for men. We are not nearly as harsh about looks of women, than women are towards men.

Why feel bad about not being attracted to someone? Since when has any woman felt bad she wasn’t attracted to any guy who wanted her but she didn’t have a spark for? It is what it is.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Beautiful story, but there are no unicorns.

Verus wrote:

Sadly, without attraction women are just friends who have more emotional needs and problems than male friends. Just not worth it.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[bladeParticipant]

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

I guess I will just stick to my porn and hookers.

Bro wtf happened to your hot doll .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[bladeParticipant]

THE BEST ADVICE

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THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I married a 2.5-3 SMV… I am and was out of her league.

Result is the same.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

After a women HAS YOU by the marital b~~~~; Everything Changes.

It may not happen Over night, but it does happen Over time.

Remember, the Gray Divorce Rate (Couples over 50) is the FASTEST Growing Segment of Divorces. Ask yourself just why that is ?????

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[SweetDaddyDom420Participant 391]

I just cant live like this. I set the doll on fire in the backyard. I will never, ever, ever be happy living alone. I am just not cut out this way. I wish each day for death, yet it eludes me. If this is truly the existence I was born into, I wish to exit it stage right. Since I was 8 years old. I wanted one thing. To be married and live with a female. If this is just not an option anymore….. I want this life to be over. I will give any of you $5000 to kill me anonymously, so my daughter can be taken care of. I am tired of being here,

[AttonParticipant]

Porn is always better.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Will guys stop it with all of the NAWALT Unicorn talk; Unicorns do not exist, hence the name. If you think that NAWALTs exist, then you are just deluding yourself. As TFM says, there is a difference between Instinct and Behaviour; all women have the hypergamous instinct, but not all women act upon it – hence AWALT. However, the hypergamy in modern women is un-restrained and rewarded – hence you cannot have a relationship with a modern woman, nor can you trust a modern woman.

Carnage wrote:

I married a 2.5 – 3.0 SMV woman… I am/was out of her league.

WTF?!

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I think the NAWALT phenomenon of women of a previous generations (old mothers, or your grandmother) can be explained by the fact that all women are hypergamous, but like some women are delusional about the SMV (a 3 thinks she is an 8), some women may swing towards the other extreme… a 5 may think she is a 2 and settle for a guy who is a 5 or a 6.

The woman who was a “NAWALT” 5 is STILL hypergamous, she simply lacked the incentives of no-fault divorce, a hive at her back, and cell phones providing an endless supply of Chad dick. In other words, she WOULD have monkey-branched, but she simply didn’t have the confidence to. Anti-hypergamy training, such as parents and religion also helped in the old days.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

I just cant live like this. I set the doll on fire in the backyard. I will never, ever, ever be happy living alone. I am just not cut out this way. I wish each day for death, yet it eludes me. If this is truly the existence I was born into, I wish to exit it stage right. Since I was 8 years old. I wanted one thing. To be married and live with a female. If this is just not an option anymore….. I want this life to be over. I will give any of you $5000 to kill me anonymously, so my daughter can be taken care of. I am tired of being here,

WHY since 8 years old?

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[SwampFootParticipant 62]

@sweetdaddydom420, if you REALLY want to get married, then go for a mail order bride. 80% success rate. go for a wife that comes from a country where they honestly believe that their place is in the kitchen.

as a benefit, she will probably appreciate the type of relationship dynamic that your screen name implies. i know a guy who regularly bends his russian wife over his knee, spanks the s~~~ out of her(beats her ass black and blue) like they used to do here until the 50s, and f~~~s her pretty much whenever he feels like it. and you want to know the craziest part? she craves it. gets lippy with him sometimes just so that he will spank and f~~~ her more often. they have been going at it for fifteen years so far, so i guess it works for them.

i know another guy who is a retired green beret. married a girl from cambodia. similar deal, but she is less lippy. married almost 40 years now.

just dont ever marry a modern western woman…

[KeepQuietParticipant 114]

That woman seems to have left a fantasy in your mind to think shes any different from the rest.

[tripvanParticipant 193]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Why feel bad about not being attracted to someone? Since when has any woman felt bad she wasn’t attracted to any guy who wanted her but she didn’t have a spark for? It is what it is.

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