My dad is a pathetic man child blue pill beta bitch

[Anonymous 5]

I need to vent. My dad is delusional and crazy. I have no respect for him and I am truly embarrassed of him. He is pathetic, a pushover and one of the biggest man babies I have ever seen.

Where do I begin? He is almost 50 years old. My mom divorced him like 5+ years ago and he is still acting like a little bitch about it. She moved across the country. He wont move on. It doesn’t help that he has been a sheltered baby his entire life and has the maturity of a toddler. The drugs and alcohol abuse he still does just make it worse.

Recently, he has been going more crazy. He is getting angry at me because I refuse to give him my mom’s phone number. I did give it too him a couple years ago because I didn’t think it was a big deal. He called her, she got p~~~ed and told me not to give him her number anymore. She changed her number soon after and my dad wants the new number.

She has made it clear she doesn’t like him/love him any more and she has moved on. She divorced him and guess what? She didn’t even take anything. Not that my dad has anything of value anyway. He is poor as f~~~ and pretty much a failure in life. He acts like a homeless person and if it wasn’t for HIS mom, he wouldn’t have a place to live. Yes, that is right, my dad still lives with his mom because he is too much of a baby to move out on his own.

He has no job, he collects disability/welfare, he smokes, he drinks, he does drugs, lives with his mom, is a disgusting horder and has a gambling addiction. He is the stereotypical piece of s~~~ that is taking advantage of the system yet bitches about how hard his life is. He doesn’t pay rent or have any bills yet is broke 24/7 because he wastes it on lottery tickets and his other addictions.

He actually believes in his mind he can win my mom back…LOL.

It is beyond pathetic. He acts like a baby and tries guilt tripping me all the time, but I just tell him to “grow up, I don’t care and he needs to move on”. He was all like “Fine, don’t ask me for anything ever again, don’t talk to me or expect help from me”. I am like: “LOL, I am 30 years old and have not needed your help for anything in years. I don’t need you.” Of course he gets all p~~~ed off and walks away like a little bitch because he knows I am right.

Anyway, I just needed to share that. Anyone else have a father who is blue pill beta bitch who wont move on from his divorce? 😛

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

my dad died when i was 11. sometimes i think having any dad would be better than nothing. maybe i’m wrong.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

lol @ being poor as f~~~ means you are a failure at life. Get a f~~~ing clue. Do you think it takes any skill to be a wage slave? Live poor, with nothing, then come back and talk your f~~~ing nonsense. Sounds like his son is a whining sack of s~~~ that knows nothing.

[MENGINEERParticipant 583]

My dad gets off work eats dinner and plops his fat ass on the couch to watch TV for 4-5 hours.

Been doing that for at least 15-20 years. Pretty sad life..

[Anonymous 42]

@ Mrpopps238, the alcohol your father consumes is only making things worse, his will power to rise above it all, clean his act up, and take responsibility, only diminishes with the abuse of mind altering substances. he needs professional help and some will power, If you’re going to be confrontational toward him, direct your focus at his addictions, and tell him that’s where most his failures come from, and remind him he’s killing himself, and that’s the worst form of self pity. You can only hope he hits bottom, before bottom hits him, and puts him in the grave.

Just keep doing what you’re doing, and don’t get sucked into any of the traps you mentioned, stay on course, keep yourself in prime mental and physical condition! You broke the mold, be grateful you’re not on his path! Stand strong brother! We’re MEN v 2.0, we’re almost indestructible!

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Woah. Popcorn time.

Definitely.

I talk to homeless people in the city because they know how to survive, what the f~~~ does a f~~~~~ in a suit know? How to get up at 6 am and work his ass off to pay for other peoples s~~~? Please, if you morons realized how f~~~ing stupid you sound.

Yo, if you have to talk about money, *you don’t have any*, so spare me the “I got a job” rhetoric. A man’s wealth is measured not by what he has but by what he can live without. Health is wealth is happiness. I could go on and on but it would fly over your little head. I guess I can just say “burn in hell” because that’s where you are headed, LOL. Don’t believe me, crack open any spiritual text.

[treznik87Participant 570]

Your dad is a blue pill mangina, but he is still your dad and he is suffering. You gotta understand that. If he was there for you when you were growing up and was a decent dad, then try and help him anyway you can. But he must want to help himself first.
5 years is really long time to live like that.

[Anonymous 5]

Anonymous wrote:

@ Mrpopps238, the alcohol your father consumes is only making things worse, his will power to rise above it all, clean his act up, and take responsibility, only diminishes with the abuse of mind altering substances. he needs professional help and some will power, If you’re going to be confrontational toward him, direct your focus at his addictions, and tell him that’s where most his failures come from, and remind him he’s killing himself, and that’s the worst form of self pity. You can only hope he hits bottom, before bottom hits him, and puts him in the grave.

Just keep doing what you’re doing, and don’t get sucked into any of the traps you mentioned, stay on course, keep yourself in prime mental and physical condition! You broke the mold, be grateful you’re not on his path! Stand strong brother! We’re MEN v 2.0, we’re almost indestructible!

I have tried for years to motivate him. It doesn’t work. He is beyond lazy. I have tried everything. I have tried being nice, being mean, ignoring him, spending time with him….

You are right that he needs to change himself and only he can do that. He has to want to change. As of now, he doesn’t. He is too comfortable with being lazy. He is one of those people who claims he wants to go to the gym, quit smoking/drinking…..but never even tries. He always makes excuses. Or he always wants “help”. He claims he “needs” someone else to quit smoking with him.

I just shake my f~~~ing head because he has such a poor loser negative attitude. He is too scared to do anything by himself. He is too sheltered.

It is frustrating that his own son is more mature and grown up than he is. It is frustrating because he acts like a child and the last thing I want in my life is a child. It’s the main reason I can’t stand to be with a female. They act like children.

[Anonymous 5]

Snake wrote:

lol @ being poor as f~~~ means you are a failure at life. Get a f~~~ing clue. Do you think it takes any skill to be a wage slave? Live poor, with nothing, then come back and talk your f~~~ing nonsense. Sounds like his son is a whining sack of s~~~ that knows nothing.

I am also poor, but I make enough to survive. That is all I want in life. Nothing wrong with being poor. I just want a place to live, some food and a little spending money each month. I don’t need much or want much.

The problem I have with him is he chooses to scam the system, purposely not work when he is able too, uses his free money to spend it on drugs, alcohol, smokes and lottery tickets. Everything about him is “poor” from the way he acts, dresses, lives and his s~~~ attitude. He is a very negative person and I hate being around negative people.

[HitmanParticipant]

Best to keep your distance until he gets some professional help. .50 is a little old to be acting like you described. .

[RoyDalParticipant]

@Stealthy Mgtow nailed it on this one. I have tried to deal with persons like your dad (fortunately none were close relations). I have discovered that I do not have the skills nor the resources to treat them with the methods they need and deserve.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 3]

I read a comment somewhere that most men are manginas because only the manginas get married and have kids in the first place.

Makes sense to me when you think about it.

[Anonymous 5]

I can say the overall situation of your father is grim. I hope you can find it in your self to balance things out with him. “But as all problems that are created by you are for you to solve” – words for your father. I gave up sympathy for drug addicts along time ago.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Snake wrote:

I talk to homeless people in the city because they know how to survive, what the f~~~ does a f~~~~~ in a suit know? How to get up at 6 am and work his ass off to pay for other peoples s~~~? Please, if you morons realized how f~~~ing stupid you sound.

Hey, where is all this anger coming from? This dude tells a story about his sack of s~~~ dad and suddenly everyone is all “I’d rather be homeless than have a job, you f~~~ing prole!” WTF, mate?

Hey, if someone has chosen to quit their job, drop out of the rat race and practice their scrounging skills, far be it from me to tell them to go back to the office. It must be observed, however, that most homeless people are not there by choice but as a result of a chain of circumstances. They may resent the idea of returning to “homeful” society but they did not originally intend to drop out of it in the first place. One must also consider that anyone who is homeless yet lives in a city is living off the residue of that city. They are not independent men surviving off the land like some romantic Grizzly Adams characters, they are c~~~roaches scrabbling for crumbs that the 9 to 5 proles drop on the ground. Shut down the system and stop the flow of services they depend on (handouts, liquor stores, EMTs, charity, etc) and they would be just as dead as the guys in the suits. So no points for dropping out of the system if you still live off the system… now you’re just a parasite.

Having lived in San Francisco for over 15 years, I have a significant amount of experience with the homeless situation and let me tell you this, they’re not homeless. If you gave each one of them a home, they wouldn’t suddenly be okay again. Homes aren’t what they need… hope is what they need. They’re “hopeless”… some by choice, yes (and if you think someone has the right to live off of society like a parasite, invite them to your home and let them live off you directly and see how you feel after a month or two) but most, as I said, as a result of a series of unfortunate events, many of them exacerbated by drug and alcohol dependency,

So let’s call them what they really are… bums. OP’s dad is a bum. When OPs grandmother dies, OPs dad will end up on the streets and most likely dead in a gutter somewhere… not because some guy in a suit is working a dead end job to pay for someone else’s s~~~, but because he himself refuses to earn his own keep, as each one of us must do,

Sorry OP, your dad is a lost cause. And for you guys glorifying the “homeless” the fact is they are worse than the garbage of the self-supporting individuals that they depend on. Give me a man who can pay his own way through life over one who has to beg, scrounge or steal from someone else any day.

[Big Viking Chef BVCParticipant 1286]

He is still your father. When he is gone, you will understand what I mean. You don’t have to follow in his footsteps, but you have to let him be himself…without your shame. He has every right to walk his own path, and so do you. Don’t judge him. Just love him. Don’t condemn or enable his behavior. Just don’t stop letting him be your dad. You might be all he has left. Be a friend, don’t try to fix him. Just listen to him and spend some time with him.

Just my opinions.

BVC

Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Where is all this anger coming from? That’s real grand, Doc, considering you are one of these “Hey, hey, I’m so cool, look at me blowing money” peeps. Your argument, and the OP’s tone of voice and diction, is the same old tired Peter-Pan-Syndrome-Man-Up shaming language that we hear from THE REAL PARASITES(women/banks/corporations/BDG) day in and day out of our lives and are tired of listening to it.

It’s passive aggressive man-up-get-a-haircut-and-a-real-job-make-money-so-we-can-take-it-from-you t~~~tery. I’ve lived in San Francisco, I’ve spent plenty of time with gutter-punks in Golden Gate Park. You aren’t telling me s~~~ I don’t know. I wanted to make a separate topic on this issue, but this thread looked as good as any to hammer away at this bulls~~~.

“OP’s dad is going to end up in the streets dead”, huh. Wow, Doc, that sounds exactly like the tired-ass “You are going to die alone” female argument, doesn’t it? There is nothing wrong with being a bum. If that’s how men want to go their own way, so be it. Your attempts at trying to shame me and others will not work. I have left the plantation and I am not returning. You will not get another f~~~ing dime from me. Now who is the parasite?

“When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years.” -Mark Twain.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

You can only control your own feelings.

Hate will keep you warm but it is the path to destroying yourself.

Forgiveness will help you.

I know it sounds stupid but it’s true.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Snake wrote:

That’s real grand, Doc, considering you are one of these “Hey, hey, I’m so cool, look at me blowing money” peeps.

It’s getting ugly in here, isn’t it? Apparently I’ve struck a nerve.

Snake wrote:

There is nothing wrong with being a bum. If that’s how men want to go their own way, so be it. Your attempts at trying to shame me and others will not work. I have left the plantation and I am not returning. You will not get another f~~~ing dime from me. Now who is the parasite?

I take it you don’t care for being called a bum and a parasite, if indeed those labels do apply to you. I suppose they must as you seem to be answering to them. In either case, I’m sorry but mooching off of society is not the same as being independent, off the grid, ghosting or whatever you like to believe it is the people you’re thinking of are doing.

Freegans depend on the leave-behinds of others. Panhandlers use guilt and fear to extract resources from those who have their own. Substance abusers rely on a network of do-gooders and enablers to keep them from offing themselves. “Gutter punks” in $200 Doc Martens talk about bringing down the System by day then get rides home from their mommies at night… children playing at being revolutionaries. None of these people are “going their own way”, they’re moochers… wards of society… surviving only by the grace of the system you claim they have rejected… no more standing on their own feet than the single mother who plays well-meaning men for spending cash while living off the State.

I’m not getting money from these people… it is they who are getting mine in the form of scrounging off the infrastructure my efforts have helped to build. My money comes from my own ideas and hard work in providing value to people who want it.

I am sorry if my having money and occasionally mentioning what I do with it upsets you.

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

You haven’t been through s~~~, you f~~~ing f~~~. I have lived on the god damn streets, I have been to maximum security prison with serial killers, I have been beat on, bones broken, paternity frauded, had my life turned upside down by f~~~ing women, false rape charges, and you prattle on about your f~~~ing bulls~~~ life making money, stick your money up your ass you f~~~ing t~~~. Shut the f~~~ up.

[HitmanParticipant]

Im going to chime in on this one if you are collecting welfare food stamps and government hand out money because you need it temporarily as a hand-up.. that’s what it’s there for to get you back on your feet… if you’re taking the same help as a lifestyle that makes you a bum a piece of s*** parasite you would be treated as such if we ever crossed paths

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