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Chase Pesos 2 years, 6 months ago.
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(Irony inside)
One day my mum went to visit my cousin and her husband as they just had their first daughter.
Her husband told my mother, point blank, that when the girl was a bit older he would get out of the marriage. Apparently, the main reasons were your usual suspects: Nagging and lack of sex.
Fast forward 9 years. He serves her. She cries, shouts, promises to change. But he is determined and then she gets even angrier, not helping her situation.
We have always been good to them, so they separately decide to keep my mum and I on the know of their lives. The following is what happened to them in the years post-divorce. By they way, they divorced in their early 30s:
My cousin (the woman): Gets into the c~~~ carousel like her life depended on it. On her first dates she tries to be “large and in charge” (she is a fatty, by the way) and realizes that, after she explain that she needs time before “getting intimate”, nobody calls her back. After several “never called back” dates she gets wind of what is really going on and, oh miracle, suddenly she loves sex! Oh yes, she is now a liberated woman!…just to find out that, “strangely”, man dump…err..I mean, stop calling her after a few sexual encounters.
Smart creature that she is, she soon realizes that a) Quality men used her for sex only, never calling again b) The only men who seem really interested are broke guys with previous kids, done time, substance problem, or all of the above. I mean, after all, she is a nice woman with real curves and a wonderful daughter (who hates each and every man mummy introduces to her). She is a catch!!!
But then she has an epiphany and tries to get her ex-husband back…and boy, I sure hope she didn’t.
My cousin in law (the guy): He takes it easy. She began by signing in for a spot in the c~~~ carousel, and boy-oh-boy he gets laid left and right. Then he goes down south for business and meets one of these “uneducated wet back visa looking lady”…except that, unlike my cousin, she has a real job in an international company, speaks several languages, has a degree and knows how to treat a man. Not an NAWALT because in her culture women are expected to be like this.
So, in the following years they develop a solid friendship that evolves into romance, and eventually they decided to get married…right about the same time as my cousin “wants to give him a second chance”.
Did you remember seeing news about North Korea and their nuclear capabilities? It wasn’t them. It was my cousin. When she heard that a) He got enganged b) She is non-national c) Her strained daughter happens to love her very much d) No way he is going to take her back…she went nuclear and decided to do the funniest-thing-ever.
She went to consult lawyers about the possibility of (hold your breath) prevent the new wife and future children for getting his inheritance, once the guy dies. I KID YOU NOT. Her rationale was that his “real” daughter should get the whole thing…and the guy is just 40!
Of course that didn’t fly, but it comes to show how incredibly stupid some women can be.
He has been married for some time, didn’t have new kids (yet), his new wife keeps fit, keeps him happy, and the daughter has finally found the peace and happiness she, as any other child, deserves.
As for my cousin…well, she keeps riding the c~~~ carousel, but the rides are now few and far between. She is getting fatter, older, and angrier. From time to time she gets a new idea to try to “get back” at the guy, but she cannot afford any more lawyer fees and he has decided not to pay attention to rumors.
Estupid is as estupid does.
đTo those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.
There is good in the world, after all. I mean, he still got remarried and all, but still, a feel-good story.
I love it when a s~~~ty ex gets her fat ass handed to her.
I bet she resorts to dying her hair pink and pretending to be a feminist victim from here on out.I bet she resorts to dying her hair pink and pretending to be a feminist victim from here on out.
The only surprise is that she hasn’t come up with a historical rape claim.
Smart creature that she is, she soon realizes that a) Quality men used her for sex only, never calling again b) The only men who seem really interested are broke guys with previous kids, done time, substance problem, or all of the above. I mean, after all, she is a nice woman with real curves and a wonderful daughter (who hates each and every man mummy introduces to her). She is a catch!!!
Haha in other words the only guys interested in her are guys on her level. Cupcake never imagined how different the game would be in her 30s as a divorced woman with a little kid than it was as a childless gal in her early 20s.
As for my cousinâŠwell, she keeps riding the c~~~ carousel, but the rides are now few and far between.
That trend will continue.
A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!
I’ll rate the story a meh.
Despite starting out well, the cousin-in-law was stupid enough to remarry and to a foreign national who can easily disappear overseas with any children he may have with her.
Also, is English your second language?
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
Iâll rate the story a meh.
Despite starting out well, the cousin-in-law was stupid enough to remarry and to a foreign national who can easily disappear overseas with any children he may have with her.
Also, is English your second language?
1. It is a real story, and I explained it as I lived it, from the point of view of someone who collected the stories from both parties.
2. Yes, English is not my mother tongue. Is my English hard to understand, perhaps? I don’t fully see why this has anything to do with the story…
1. It is a real story…
I wasn’t suggesting that the story wasn’t real. I was pointing out that the story has little utility because your cousin-in-law was stupid enough to remarry.
2. Yes, English is not my mother tongue. Is my English hard to understand, perhaps?
No, it wasn’t hard to understand at all.
Your sentence composition, word choices, and eccentric spelling pointed to either English not being your native language or something else. It’s good to know it wasn’t something else.
I donât fully see why this has anything to do with the storyâŠ
The messenger is part of the story and, as I’ve already explained, your story is a solid “meh”. Your cousin-in-law divorced one type of cancer only to marry another.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
To me it’s sad. No real change in our favor can happen when there still are manginas who will f~~~ fat women. I wouldn’t touch a fatty if my life depended on it. I wouldn’t reproduce with a fatty if we were the last on earth. They DISGUST me…
Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.
I wasnât suggesting that the story wasnât real. I was pointing out that the story has little utility because your cousin-in-law was stupid enough to remarry.
The messenger is part of the story and, as Iâve already explained, your story is a solid âmehâ. Your cousin-in-law divorced one type of cancer only to marry another.
Aye, you are completely correct. Ideally he would have never marry at all. HOWEVER, in my humble opinion, one if not the reason why MGTOW exists at all is the constant abuse of western women. If women knew their place as it was long ago men would not rebel.
I am not advocating for NAWALT, but there are places and cultures where women are still women by default. So to me, the moral / summary of this story is:
– He told what he was going to do, 9 years in advance, and came thru. A real man says what he means and does what he says.
– By marrying someone else, from another culture, he clearly demonstrated that the sole and only reason for his divorce was the fat biatch and what she represented.And again, ideally the best is not to be married at all, but showing her what she herself could have is not bad either.
No, it wasnât hard to understand at all.
Your sentence composition, word choices, and eccentric spelling pointed to either English not being your native language or something else. Itâs good to know it wasnât something else.
I am sorry if I sound aggressive on this point, which I am, but I would like to explain to you why because I bet my life you will relate to it:
I am not sure if I call myself MGTOW, but I pretty much stray out of the herd of mindless men which, as you may have guessed, makes me being right most of the time. Right, but in the politically incorrect way.
When discussing an argument (for example, that over 70% of office jobs in the UK done by women are HR and Admin) people get furious and, too bad for them, they lack counterarguments because you can hardly dispute the facts. The next thing is then to make personal attacks against me.
You can guess by now that the first shots are directed at the fact that I am not an English native speaker, as if my argument could be invalidated because I use the wrong wording or grammar. The next shots are a guess game, with the usual assumption that, if I do not speak English, I must be from some third world country somewhere, as if that would invalidate my argument. Furthermore, they imply that, because I was born in a different country, I may not be a “citizen”, as if you could not hold several passports or naturalize, as if the place where you are born was somehow a punishment of a reward that cannot be changed.
I am willing to bet that something similar has happened to you, not with language, but maybe with the length of your hair, or your age, or weight. Such is the stupidity of people without arguments.
I come from Europe, from a first-world country where the vast majority of citizens speak two to three European languages. I can trace several 100% European generations of my family in both sides. The fact that I do not speak English as a mother language only implies that I am, at the very least, bilingual and better employable than people who only speak English. But even if I came from Pakistan, would that invalidate my argument?
So forgive me if I should aggressive but, unless referred as simple curiosity (which is what I take on this case), questioning my background in the middle of an argument starts getting a bit tired.
And so we are clear, I believe you are not. I just wanted to explain to you what non-native MGTOWs in English speaking environments go thru on a daily basis.
To me itâs sad. No real change in our favor can happen when there still are manginas who will f~~~ fat women. I wouldnât touch a fatty if my life depended on it. I wouldnât reproduce with a fatty if we were the last on earth. They DISGUST meâŠ
A-MEN to that. Fat is the most anti-feminine thing in the world. And trust me, I am a Taliban of being skinny. 110lbs is my standard.
But manginas are everywhere. At this point I don’t see how this will ever change. We are but a little resistance somewhere.
I just wanted to explain to you what non-native MGTOWs in English speaking environments go thru on a daily basis.
You can park your “fee-fees”, victim badge, and sense of outrage at the door. This is MGTOW, not C~~~s-R-Us, and I don’t give a f~~~ about how you think you’ve been treated elsewhere.
Understand?
I asked a question and explained my reason for doing so. There was no ulterior motive, no intent to besmirch you, none of that underhanded female stuff.
Writing like yours always points to either a non-native English speaker – which I was hoping you were – or someone who will eventually become a problem – which I don’t think you will.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
You can park your âfee-feesâ, victim badge, and sense of outrage at the door. This is MGTOW, not C~~~s-R-Us, and I donât give a f~~~ about how you think youâve been treated elsewhere.
Understand?
I asked a question and explained my reason for doing so. There was no ulterior motive, no intent to besmirch you, none of that underhanded female stuff.
Writing like yours always points to either a non-native English speaker â which I was hoping you were â or someone who will eventually become a problem â which I donât think you will.
Sounds good to me, and thanks for the explanation.
Still, abusing your good nature (me being a newbie and all) and understanding that I am moving a bit away from the topic, how would a native English speaker with bad English skills become “a problem”? Furthermore, even people 100% against MGTOW (which again, I am not), how could they be a problem? At the end of the day, I have been reading many posts and facts trump anything else…and if MGTOW has something is their facts right…
Just curious, as it seems you are far more experienced.
Cheers.
how would a native English speaker with bad English skills become âa problemâ?
For the most part they turn out to be trolls, have psychiatric issues of some sort, or are just plain stupid. All of those three cases become problems sooner or later.
Odd word choices, constantly eccentric spelling, verb confusion, poor sentence composition, and the rest point to someone who either does not or cannot care enough to write in a comprehensible manner with the former being trolls and latter being psych cases and/or “tards”.
There are exceptions naturally. We’ve a member here who writes all his postsLIKE THIS because he’s legally blind and it helps him read what he’s typed.
As a rule of thumb, poorly written English in repeated posts by a native English speaker is a dependable “red flag”. I’ve been on-line since the dial-up BBS and Sears Prodigy days when a modem was something which cradled your phone’s handset and this rule has rarely failed me.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
For the most part they turn out to be trolls, have psychiatric issues of some sort, or are just plain stupid. All of those three cases become problems sooner or later.
Odd word choices, constantly eccentric spelling, verb confusion, poor sentence composition, and the rest point to someone who either does not or cannot care enough to write in a comprehensible manner with the former being trolls and latter being psych cases and/or âtardsâ.
There are exceptions naturally. Weâve a member here who writes all his postsLIKE THIS because heâs legally blind and it helps him read what heâs typed.
As a rule of thumb, poorly written English in repeated posts by a native English speaker is a dependable âred flagâ. Iâve been on-line since the dial-up BBS and Sears Prodigy days when a modem was something which cradled your phoneâs handset and this rule has rarely failed me.
I appreciate the time you took to explain this to me. Frankly speaking, I never even thought about it.
For me, and I believe for most non-native speakers, once you reach a certain level you simply do not realize when you make mistakes. Since other parties already understand your meaning, they do not correct you, and your grammar or wording ends up permanently “handicapped”.
I would reassure you that I have no mental issues but unfortunately I cannot because this is what I have constantly being told when I bring my ideas about “real equality” and “facts not feelings” đ
In fact, a couple of days ago a woman disputed me a sentence by saying that “my facts were irrelevant because she was talking about her life experience”.
I appreciate the time you took to explain this to me. Frankly speaking, I never even thought about it.
You’re welcome.
For me, and I believe for most non-native speakers, once you reach a certain level you simply do not realize when you make mistakes. Since other parties already understand your meaning, they do not correct you, and your grammar or wording ends up permanently âhandicappedâ.
There’s a great difference between speaking and writing.
English has become the world’s lingua franca not only because of it’s dominance in STEM but because it you can speak it poorly and still be understood. What’s more, English has no AcadĂ©mie française, AsociaciĂłn de Academias de la Lengua Española, or any of the other dozens of language policing organizations controlling supposedly native tongues ranging from Albanian to Tamil to Welsh.
The only remotely similar organization for English is the OED which limits itself to documenting how people are using English instead of legislating how people should use English.
Written English is somewhat different. There proficiency, or a lack of the same, quickly stands out. Because the reader is only seeing the words in their juxtaposition to each other, rather than hearing the words spoken in a verbal context, any odd formulations are immediately apparent.
As I’ve explained already, poorly written English indicates the writer either does not or cannot care enough to write in a comprehensible manner. In some cases that indicates future problems and in other case it does not.
In fact, a couple of days ago a woman disputed me a sentence by saying that âmy facts were irrelevant because she was talking about her life experienceâ.
The operative word in that anecdote is “woman”.
Fact never trump a woman’s feelings, delusions, desires, or dreams because women have vaginas and vaginas are all that matter.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
because women have vaginas and vaginas are all that matter.
Oooh…but they are in for a little surprise, arenÂŽt they?
Mark,
You’re good bro.
Old Bill Hickok,
Let him live, Sherrif!
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