My choice to go MGTOW

[OracleSummonParticipant 179]

Hello everyone and hope you all are having a good day.

This is a background explanation of why I have decided to walk the path of a MGTOW for the rest of my life.

All throughout my life there was some nagging feeling, in the back of my head, questioning the benefits of marriage and having children. A side that was perplexed as to why the laws are unfair to men who which to have a family or get married. Why go through the trouble of committing or having relationships when it is basically traversing a minefield in the hopes that none of them blow up.

Not to add that I just do not see a family of my own working out. I have Asperger’s Syndrome, which is a social disorder/disease, that hinders my ability to relate and converse easily with others. Though it does have the blessing of helping me be oblivious when a woman has taken a liking to me.

This is a Syndrome I have learned to cope with and use the benefits of it to further my life. Although it helps me in many circumstances, this is a syndrome that I do not wish to pass on to another human being. Some people affected with Aspergers do not learn to cope and many commit suicide. I do not wish to pass this curse onto another human being.

Have I always wanted kids? Not necessarily. Seeing the life of another going well is good, but it terrifies me to be solely responsible for the well being and upbringing of another life. To be the one who is responsible for discipline and setting their moral compass.

The other point is trusting another human being with the tender side of myself. It is too easy for a woman, who claims that she “loves” me, to attempt to pass her kids as my own and get me to accept responsibility for a person that I have no business raising. Trusting her not to stab me in the back as soon as something “better” comes along and decides to abandon ship. Being falsely accused of rape and domestic violence even if I was protecting myself. The laws are way too screwed up to even risk starting a relationship.

Starting my own family and establishing a marital connection with a woman is too risky and I see little to nothing worthwhile.

To be fair, I have not been in any circumstance where a woman has claimed her love to me or tried to seriously date me. Though at the time, I never tried to actively seek a romantic relationship.

With the economy getting worse and money hard to come by. I have dedicated my life to that of a MGTOW for one purpose:

To be there: financially, emotionally, physically, for my loved ones and to help my siblings’ families throughout hardships. To be a rock for them to land safely on. Having a family of my own would get in the way of this and would just be a hindrance.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome! You will find a supportive group of men from all walks of life traveling the same road as you. We may have started out from different points, but we all seek the path of freedom that only MGTOW can bring.

[OracleSummonParticipant 179]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

Welcome! You will find a supportive group of men from all walks of life traveling the same road as you. We may have started out from different points, but we all seek the path of freedom that only MGTOW can bring.

Thank you. It feels good to be among those who I can converse such things with.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[OracleSummonParticipant 179]

RoyDal wrote:

Welcome!

Thank you sir. Glad to have become a part of this community.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I have aspergers syndrome and your post resonates strongly with me.

Welcome home brother.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[OracleSummonParticipant 179]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

I have aspergers syndrome and your post resonates strongly with me.

Welcome home brother.

Thank you. Glad to be a part of place that I can call home. I hope your Aspergers is not troubling you too much and you have reaped the benefits it brings, that such as Hyper focusing.

[Anonymous 3]

Hello dude,
don’t worry, every human being has his own psycho problems. I am not originally good at human interaction too, so that I needed to learn it, there are good data on this, and typical human stuff among PUA literature. One can learn it, to help your everyday life. But to be honest, I prefer to interact with computers, because those are only stupid if they get stupid instructions, not like some always stupid humans.

It is no point to keep patching your weak spots. If you spend a lot of time to compensate your syndrome or other bad personal properties, you end up being average guy. If you go to strengthen your good properties and ignore your weaknesses, you end up being very good at something, that feels good, and possibly earns you lot of money. That’s what I’ve done. Don’t let any syndrome stop you.

And no, relationship is not that good as fairy tales and mainstream media tells you. Sex and girls is interesting for the first and may feel good, but finally will end up annoying the s~~~ out of you.

[OracleSummonParticipant 179]

Anonymous wrote:

Hello dude,
don’t worry, every human being has his own psycho problems.

Thanks. That is what my dad told me when I was younger, “Everyone has some syndrome or condition that they have to learn to do deal with.”

I am not originally good at human interaction too, so that I needed to learn it, there are good data on this, and typical human stuff among PUA literature. One can learn it, to help your everyday life.

I have learned to overcome the social problems when it comes to conversing with others, the main problem is finding someone worth conversing with. Thank you for the info though. About PUA, I have read upon it for the past couple of months and it has taught me plenty about humans and how we interact.

But to be honest, I prefer to interact with computers, because those are only stupid if they get stupid instructions, not like some always stupid humans.

Very true. I limit my interactions with others, but I will not pass a good conversation with someone who is of good character and is interesting to talk to.

It is no point to keep patching your weak spots. If you spend a lot of time to compensate your syndrome or other bad personal properties, you end up being average guy.

No worries there my good man, I have learned how to tap into my inner focus (something that people with Aspergers can do) and use it to my full advantage. Thanks for the tip though.

If you go to strengthen your good properties and ignore your weaknesses, you end up being very good at something, that feels good, and possibly earns you lot of money. That’s what I’ve done. Don’t let any syndrome stop you.

Exactly. No syndrome should stop me to achieve my goals and happiness in life.

And no, relationship is not that good as fairy tales and mainstream media tells you. Sex and girls is interesting for the first and may feel good, but finally will end up annoying the s~~~ out of you.

I figured this out early during the end of my Highschool Days. Relationships are not for me and would only distract from the ultimate goal.

Again, thanks for your time and concern. It is good to know that there are people who care enough to give advice.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Welcome. It sounds like your goal is to be like my uncle. He has never married and has been “a rock” for his siblings. I have also never been in a relationship. I’ve been skeptical of marriage and relationships since childhood and I am also an introvert. I’ve never asked out a girl and have ignored the few that have shown interest in me. Its like you said, relationships are a risky hindrance to my life goals, so I’ll live without them. Being Mgtow makes me happy. Thank you for sharing your introduction.

[OracleSummonParticipant 179]

Tiga K wrote:

Welcome. It sounds like your goal is to be like my uncle. He has never married and has been “a rock” for his siblings. I have also never been in a relationship. I’ve been skeptical of marriage and relationships since childhood and I am also an introvert. I’ve never asked out a girl and have ignored the few that have shown interest in me. Its like you said, relationships are a risky hindrance to my life goals, so I’ll live without them. Being Mgtow makes me happy. Thank you for sharing your introduction.

Thanks for stopping by and may you and your uncle’s lives be prosperous, fruitful and fulfilling as long as you all live.

Relationships are a risky hindrance, no question about it, they would only slow me down in my ultimate goal.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

welcome pal!
i’m glad you found the path to freedom
enjoy the website and the forums

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

OracleSummon wrote:

Have I always wanted kids? Not necessarily. Seeing the life of another going well is good, but it terrifies me to be solely responsible for the well being and upbringing of another life. To be the one who is responsible for discipline and setting their moral compass.

i feel exactly the same way actually….so much responsibility, stress, worry involved.
in fact, i chose to never have kids about a year before becoming mgtow. it helped with my transition to mgtow because if i don’t want kids, there’s no need for women….other than occasional, no strings attached sex.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[OracleSummonParticipant 179]

Blue Skies wrote:

welcome pal!
i’m glad you found the path to freedom
enjoy the website and the forums

Thanks. Glad to take part in this place.

Blue Skies wrote:

OracleSummon wrote:

Have I always wanted kids? Not necessarily. Seeing the life of another going well is good, but it terrifies me to be solely responsible for the well being and upbringing of another life. To be the one who is responsible for discipline and setting their moral compass.

i feel exactly the same way actually….so much responsibility, stress, worry involved.
in fact, i chose to never have kids about a year before becoming mgtow. it helped with my transition to mgtow because if i don’t want kids, there’s no need for women….other than occasional, no strings attached sex.

Having kids is one thing that does terrify me. With how the world is, being unfair and dangerous, why would I want to bring an innocent person into this messed up place?

May you stay safe while interacting with women to attend to your sexual needs/wants.

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