My Cat Came Back After An Abnormally Long Absence (Ex-Wife and No Contact)

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Well, I’m taking the risk of getting doxxed here. But I’m so happy to find out that my cat returned home after a long absence. I was essentially booted from my property and didn’t want to deprive my cat of the grounds he knows so I left him behind for my son to take care of. Now, thing is this, I really want to go visit them both and normally I see my son NOT at my ex’s place (our place technically) but I want to see my old buddy, my cat, and see how he’s doing, this may entail Contact which I try to avoid as much as possible, but after being worried for quite a while that maybe the cat-snatchers got him, I’m so happy he’s o.k. and look forward to checking him out and seeing how he’s doing one-on-one. I see my son twice a week with normally zero contact from the ex involved. Any now, this is more about showing how it’s hard to keep No Contact in cases where there are kids, a property, etc. Any of you had to ‘go back’ in order to do certain things you want? Now I intend to not talk to the ex and if need be just hello and that’s it.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Also, any thoughts on doxxing and what it can do are also welcomed. Sometimes I wonder if doxxing had anything with Stealthy’s ‘disappearance’ from these forums. It’s not obvious to share on specifics now that MGTOW.com seems to be the go to more and more for weemins looking for dirt.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Anonymous 25]

BODYCAM

one member already got caught out with this and is facing false accusations. just make sure it’s legal where you live. always best to cover your back when around women. she doesn’t need to know and you can just use it to protect yourself if she does try accuse you of anything

[GregB0Participant]

Point Of No Return wrote:

But I’m so happy to find out that my cat returned home after a long absence.

One of the issues normally not discussed in divorce/separations are the pets of the household. Kudo’s for not letting you Cat get kicked to the curb by your ex. As you know, pet’s usually do not take well to being moved to an new environment, especially one where their “family” has been split in 1/2.

Hang in there

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Anonymous wrote:

BODYCAM

one member already got caught out with this and is facing false accusations. just make sure it’s legal where you live. always best to cover your back when around women. she doesn’t need to know and you can just use it to protect yourself if she does try accuse you of anything

Good, I really should get one of those.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

GregB0 wrote:

Point Of No Return wrote:

But I’m so happy to find out that my cat returned home after a long absence.

One of the issues normally not discussed in divorce/separations are the pets of the household. Kudo’s for not letting you Cat get kicked to the curb by your ex. As you know, pet’s usually do not take well to being moved to an new environment, especially one where their “family” has been split in 1/2.

Hang in there

Exactly, this is why I left my cat to the grounds he knows and with my older son.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[GregB0Participant]

Point Of No Return wrote:

and with my older son.

Having a pet can be such a character builder for a young man and not on often allowed in today’s fractured family model. I hope that they both are thriving.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

GregB0 wrote:

Point Of No Return wrote:

and with my older son.

Having a pet can be such a character builder for a young man and not on often allowed in today’s fractured family model. I hope that they both are thriving.

Thanks GregB0, so far, so good. Only time will tell, the divorce is not even final yet.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

With my avatar, I should be giving you a bad time. But not from me. I’m personally more of a dog guy, but I like cats too. In fact, one our friends that I lost in the divorce had a cat that loved me more than the three of them. Anytime I went over, he came straight to me and hung out the whole time.

I just had my daughters’ dogs over the weekend with one of my girls. Hadn’t seen them in a couple of years. They’re little “punt dogs”, mixed breed. The female barked at me for the first minute or two until they figured out who I was, and then didn’t leave me alone all weekend. So I get it.

Good for you, really cool. And always good to know that the pets are ok.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 42]

Point Of No Return wrote:

Also, any thoughts on doxxing and what it can do are also welcomed. Sometimes I wonder if doxxing had anything with Stealthy’s ‘disappearance’ from these forums. It’s not obvious to share on specifics now that MGTOW.com seems to be the go to more and more for weemins looking for dirt.

Since Trump got in we don’t have to worry about MGTOW doxing, I think we hit the high water mark of insanity with the Hillary presidential failure to romping stomping Trump!

Anonymous wrote:

BODYCAM

one member already got caught out with this and is facing false accusations. just make sure it’s legal where you live. always best to cover your back when around women. she doesn’t need to know and you can just use it to protect yourself if she does try accuse you of anything

I’ll take a BODYCAM with a side order of DASHCAM and a CCTV to go, thank-you!

[joetechParticipant]

When I moved out after my second divorce I got custody of both dogs. She got the cat. Well, the cat was so upset that his dogs were gone (they were really close) that he s~~~ all over her books. I got a call from the ex to come over and get the cat or she was going to take him to the pound. Needless to say, I got full custody of all three “children”. The dogs were very happy to have their cat back. P.S. Could someone please explain to me what exactly is doxxing?

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 43]

my dog went into a bull blown depressive stage, and lost the will to live. the c~~~ took my dog to a vet to be killed and did not tell me. I would have gladly driven the 200 miles to say good bye to my furry friend. That one phone call would have gone a long way toward some sort of rebuilding bridges

oh, but wait, beatings stabbing, s~~~ vortex, tracking devices, recreational litigation, car chases, attempted to run me over, jail, stuck with bills, lies, hidden money, cheating, poisoning kids against me, losing parenting time, and no contact order with kids.

The bridge is burned, crushed, stomped on by Godzilla, nuclear radiation contaminated, slimed by space aliens and claimed by a race of hostile mutant fire ants. The lake of burning s~~~, swirling into oblivion, she can go jump into it with her mouth wide open.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Anonymous wrote:

the c~~~ took my dog to a vet to be killed

I don’t know about the rest of the country but here in the South you mess with a man’s dog–that is a death wish!

[MonkParticipant 16995]

Point Of No Return wrote:

Good, I really should get one of those (bodycam).

No man who has to have any form of contact with the ex, should do so without covert recording.

By that stage in the game, the man must know what she’s like, so taking a risk like that is madness.

It’s like mountain climbing. If you do it often enough, and for long enough, then statistically it’s going to happen. You WILL fall off.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Anonymous wrote:

my dog went into a bull blown depressive stage, and lost the will to live. the c~~~ took my dog to a vet to be killed and did not tell me. I would have gladly driven the 200 miles to say good bye to my furry friend. That one phone call would have gone a long way toward some sort of rebuilding bridges

oh, but wait, beatings stabbing, s~~~ vortex, tracking devices, recreational litigation, car chases, attempted to run me over, jail, stuck with bills, lies, hidden money, cheating, poisoning kids against me, losing parenting time, and no contact order with kids.

The bridge is burned, crushed, stomped on by Godzilla, nuclear radiation contaminated, slimed by space aliens and claimed by a race of hostile mutant fire ants. The lake of burning s~~~, swirling into oblivion, she can go jump into it with her mouth wide open.

I can’t see the bridges from here, where I now stand, or perhaps I barely can see them, the ones my ex and I built together many years ago. However, I must remember though, that nothing my imagination can fool me into believing equals the reality of where those bridges are right now, under the flowing currents of the waters of life, half submersed into the riverbed, already collecting slimy green algae.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Compared to women, cats actually love you.

And the affection they give is not fake and “staged”. Cats don’t demand new cars, houses and expensive s~~~. You can stroke them and they purr without giving them your credit card first.

A can of good cat food a day and a place to stay will do. And if you care for them medically, your friend stays well and healthy for over 15 years.

And cats take care of all kinds of rodents and critters that would normally chew up the hoses and cables of your car. And rats and mice also spread lethal diseases.

I’d take a hoard of feral cats over any woman every time.

Compared to women, cats are actually good for something.

Only woman keepers let them s~~~ and p~~~ all over the house as if to say to others around her: “This is my place and I do what I want”.

The cats are not the problem: The women that keep them are…

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Author]

Posts