My Brother's Marriage Led Him To Homelessness

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

I’ll keep this brief because a LOT has happened in this situation. I thought I had made a post about my brother on here years ago. I mus have been mistaken.

In April of 2015, my brother decided to marry his EX-FIANCE! You heard that right. They were engaged many years before, but he broke up with her when he found out she was pregnant by another man. The woman eventually married AND DIVORCED the man who first got her pregnant. Fast-forward to April of 2015, he decided to marry her. At that time, she had FIVE children from at least 3 different men. Everybody in my family warned my brother not to marry his woman. Also all of our friends warned him not to marry her.

Fast-forward to now (September of 2019)… My brother is being sued by two landlords, he has less than $1,000.00 to his name, and he is homeless. The only thing he owns now is an old, beat-up car. I’m sure he wants to get divorced, but he is unable to afford divorce.

I love my brother, but he is stupid and beyond help.

[MATRIXParticipant 2339]

I’m sorry about your brother.

BUT you can never go back.

Going back with any EX is suicide.

One chance, per woman, per lifetime.

He went back….

There is NO wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

[MATRIXParticipant 2339]

It’s not just marriage will make you homeless,

Cohabitating with a female or even general interactions with them can make you homeless if or when they make a certain call.

What sane man wants that loaded gun to his head 24/7 365 days a year.

#MANOUT

There is NO wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Aroused By Her Anguish wrote:

I love my brother, but he is stupid and beyond help.

It’s sad, but some men are there own worse enemies.

The real sad part is that even if you helped him obtain a divorce from THIS ONE, just how long do you think it would take him to find the NEXT ONE which would be at least as lovely as this one????

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

[VanXingParticipant 98]

There is probably a novel full of stories from your brother’s experience that I’m sure many men need to hear one day.

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

🤮🤮🤮🤮

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[AutoliteParticipant]

VanXing wrote:

There is probably a novel full of stories from your brother’s experience that I’m sure many men need to hear one day.

Or maybe even a movie!

Part of the reason the MGTOW message is not getting out is because the truth is unappealing. You can’t make money spewing unpopular facts…

[MonkParticipant 16975]

Aroused By Her Anguish wrote:

I love my brother, but he is stupid and beyond help.

For your own safety and sanity, walk away and stay away.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Aroused By Her Anguish wrote:

I love my brother, but he is stupid and beyond help.

We tend to underestimate how incredibly stupid most people actually are, particularly when it’s family. It took me many, many years to realize and finally acknowledge how stupid my own father really was. And now I’m still paying for the mistakes I made by listening to him. I’m beginning to wonder who is the bigger idiot. My father or me for listening to him???

[Sky-OParticipant 18933]

It is important to remember the point in time when he was ‘the man’ and was getting hole access.

Every man (including myself) that has had to regroup, recover and rise up from the ashes after total devastation – At one point was immersed in a situation with a woman that was exactly what he wanted at the time.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2725]

Aroused By Her Anguish wrote:

I’m sure he wants to get divorced, but he is unable to afford divorce.

Now is perfect time to get divorced because there is nothing left to take.

He can either find a lawyer with a low retainer —- my first divorce lawyer it was $2500. Or he can get the paperwork online or from court clerk and file himself. It should be $300-400.

I filed myself in second divorce. It is not that hard. He has to get out before it kills him.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22503]

Autolite wrote:

VanXing wrote:

There is probably a novel full of stories from your brother’s experience that I’m sure many men need to hear one day.

Or maybe even a movie!
Part of the reason the MGTOW message is not getting out is because the truth is unappealing. You can’t make money spewing unpopular facts…

You dont know how hard it is for people who agree with you to even always believe the unpleasant truths. Most all still hold out for a unicorn or nawalt, they just cant help it. they want it to be so true even though its not.

Now find a regular blue pill guy and they get very angry at you for saying the unpleasant truths. i believe partly because they believe its an attack on them personally.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

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