My boss

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

So. I work in retail as a supervisor. I am there on time each day that I am scheduled. I perform the essential functions of my position because I do enjoy what I do, apart from the petty drama that happens from time to time.

However, my boss, a man in his 60’s who acts like he is in his 20’s feels the need to call me a “pain in the ass,” or try to belittle me or intimidate me for reasons only God knows. I don’t understand why. When I ask him a simple question about a certain project, he turns it into a big argument when all I want is a simple answer. I usually have a calm, peaceful temperament. Lately, however, it’s as if he wants to fight and I am doing my very best to keep my cool though a part of me wants to perform the Vulcan nerve pinch on him so that he will stop his needless dialogue. I hope to God I don’t turn into that. It’s very challenging when going my own way to have to deal with an individual who feels that he constantly has to be controlling all the time or treat me as if I’m his emotional punching bag. How do I handle this without doing something stupid that I’ll regret.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22531]

Your response depends on how much you need your job.

If not much, tell him to f~~~ off and youre not going to be his godam emotional punching bag anymore.

If you need the job a lot, minimize contact, and i would wear a phone with a recorder app running when dealing with him,especially one on one.

If you think you can get him fired with the recordings, do it.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 38]

Get in his face and ask him what’s his problem – in private.

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

When you stop giving a s~~~, it’ll feel less significant.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[KeymasterKeymaster]

rebelandboltman wrote:

feels the need to call me a “pain in the ass,” or try to belittle me

I know Australian guy. I don’t care for this, but he has this “style” of constantly making digs that he doesn’t really mean. To me, this doesn’t translate, but apparently, this is common among “friends” in Australia. They diss each other and it’s not sincere. Like if you carry an umbrella when it rains, your buddy says “what are you a F~~?”. That kind of thing.

I don’t get it (or like it) but it’s common.
I know an Astonian guy like that too. Never says a kind word. Doesn’t mean jack.

rebelandboltman wrote:

How do I handle this

Apply humor if possible. There’s always a way to make it funny. That’s an art form.

HE: “You’re a real pain in the ass…. “

ME: “Well I could email you my question, but then I would miss the pleasure of your company.”

Said with a straight face, it can make a little impact.

Remind yourself not to take other people too seriously.

rebelandboltman wrote:

It’s very challenging when going my own way to have to deal with an individual who feels that he constantly has to be controlling all the time or treat me as if I’m his emotional punching bag.

Controlling, manipulative (and even sociopathic) tendencies are very common with bosses/employers. A defining trait – they aren’t usually self-aware, and don’t care if they upset anyone. Maybe read up on “the sociopath at work” and see if he fits the profile. There are ways to handle it. Quitting is one of them , because a sociopath can’t be fixed.

You said he’s in his 60s, so he could just be the crotchety type.

rebelandboltman wrote:

How do I handle this without doing something stupid that I’ll regret.

Would you regret not standing up for yourself MORE?

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Anonymous wrote:

Get in his face and ask him what’s his problem – in private.

Ahem..

WTF??? HELL NO!!!

What a BONE HEAD idea. When a man starts acting like that you leave that f~~~er alone. He’s does not have a problem you are going to be able to fix. And Fixing his s~~~ is NOT YOUR JOB.

DO NOT ENGAGE. Heard that Before? Why? THAT is what he WANTS you TO DO. Why the F~~~ do you think he is doing it?

You want a solution? Bring a Female Coworker with you. Also, stop asking questions. Next, start finding another job on the side, and stop giving a f~~~. I bet you a Hundy his pussy has been f~~~ing him over and he found out it was either someone in the office, or you remind him of that guy.

So. Here is the plan.

GET YOUR ASS TO THE GYM. Bulk up to the biggest dude in the space, and never hear from a t~~~ like that again. Physical strength is a key way to avoid such bulls~~~.

Send the guy EMAILS instead of talking to him. Best way to get around this bulls~~~. If he does not respond, just keep doing it the way you want.

He does not want to be involved. He just wants to be a Worker bee like the women. Having a MMA Belt in your cubicle also helps out if you want to go down that route.

You have to face the fact that he does not like you. Hates you. And you need to act accordingly smarter than the Low IQ motherfuker over you.

HE is not looking for help. He knows that you are better then him, and he wants to feel better about himself.

Trust me, I know how good it would feel to ram is face on the floor, tie him behind his own ride and go for joy ride on the train tracks. The thought of grabbing is Plumpy hide and ramming it into every solid object known to man for purly in the pursuit of scientific endeavors is a strong one.

But I warn you. Once you start. You won’t ever stop.

So be as cool as a cucumber. Its what hurts them the most. Not caring. Let him try harder. Be there to record it and it will escalate. This boss of yours is going to do exactly what so many men do. Play the same old script. The best thing you can do is bait him like any good Probation officer would.

Check out this video, see the tactics. See if he is doing the same thing. He is trying to make you lose your edge. Make you get off your game, and f~~~ you over if he can. Its either a power trip, or someone in that office he likes is p~~~ed at you, and the only way to get at you is through him.

SLOW down the video and watch this guys body language. Noice the tone of his voice. And think why he is acting this way.

You stay cool, and you don’t give a f~~~. And it KILLS people. This f~~~er here just gained 20lbs since he started seeing me. Why? Not fun knowing the world is going to be coming crashing around you. No longer is this the confident f~~~er he use to be.

You play the weakling. And everyone thinks that they got you. THen you come in one day. And no longer do they see that weak person you were only pretending to be.

There is no wining this office bulls~~~. There is a good reason to ghost at the office. But take note if he is doing any of these hand gestures, and trying to use tactics to make you angry or lose your focus.

https://www.bitchute.com/video/hQkRZ64rMj4p/

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[KeymasterKeymaster]

iMickey503 wrote:

You stay cool, and you don’t give a f~~~. And it KILLS people.

Was also gonna suggest…. you can also kill him with KINDNESS. Overdo it. Call him “sir”. “Good morning, sir”. etc. Miserable f~~~-sticks hate it when you dial up the politesse.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

Thank you for the input. I think I will go with the stay cool and not give a f~~~ and kill him with kindness options.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

rebelandboltman wrote:

However, my boss, a man in his 60’s who acts like he is in his 20’s feels the need to call me a “pain in the ass,” or try to belittle me or intimidate me for reasons only God knows.

He sees you as a threat.

Follow the advice given by Secret Agent – get wired up. One day, he will try to frame and then fire you, so screw him first.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

One other thought: You never really know what’s going on in his life. Maybe his wife just got a cancer diagnosis. Maybe he has to put his dog down. I guess you didn’t really say how long this has been going on. You did say lately he acts like he wants to fight, so I am reading you inferring that this is new, but I could be misreading that statement.

You could just ask him if he’s ok. Tell him his behavior has changed and it’s noticeable. Ask him if there’s anything you can do at work to help him out. If he says there’s nothing going on, then just say ok and leave it at that. If he isn’t crazy, he’ll realize it and change his behavior, as any normal person would. If he is crazy, he’ll keep doing what he’s doing, but at least then you’ll know. And most people deserve one chance at you taking the high road with them.

Order the good wine

[JVBParticipant]

Your boss has a boss. Tell your boss it’s time for all 3 of you to have a sit down chat. He will want to know why ? He just opened the door for you to tell him to go to hell in such a way he will enjoy the trip. Let him have it bro !!

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 38]

iMickey503 wrote:

What a BONE HEAD idea. When a man starts acting like that you leave that f~~~er alone. He’s does not have a problem you are going to be able to fix. And Fixing his s~~~ is NOT YOUR JOB.

In my experience, and some friends’ of mine, standing up for yourself in this way cuts that s~~~ out immediately. It shows you are not to be f~~~ed with, that there will be consequences for it. It separates men and women.

But sure go and spend all that time bulking up so he sees your muscles and leaves you alone, lol.

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