My Biggest Regrets In Life

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

I was talking with my buddy about “the old days”. When we were in college and in a fraternity and were party animals. Pussy galore was always available (not that we always got it). But we sure did have some fun times back then.

One thing that stands out though, and this is where the regret comes in, is that we both were such pussies. In his case, he had a girlfriend and even though he had MANY opportunities for way hotter girls that wanted to do him, he always shyed away from it. He says to me now that he clearly wanted to do these women really badly. But he didn’t go for it out of fear that it would ruin his relationship with his girlfriend.

As for me. I wasted too much time on this one girl too. I should have been going for way hotter girls than this one.

And in the end these girls left us anyways. So it was all for naught.

Hindsight is a bitch isn’t it?

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[Anonymous 5]

Look at it more positively. If you would have slayed all those pussies, maybe one of them would have accused you of rape and you could be in jail right now. Who knows how much your life could have been made worse if you f~~~ed all those hot c~~~s? Maybe you dodged a huge life changing bullet.

Half of those c~~~s probably had STD’s which you didn’t have to suffer through. 🙂

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I don’t regret anything because I had a fair share of everything. It would have been nice if the good times lasted longer, but hey – at least I am contempt with what I had. It was good while it lasted. Most people have never experienced what I had, so I take this as a blessing not as some kind of a loss. You can pretty much ask me about anything, and chances are – yup! been there done that
My biggest regret is choosing a business school over IT. Masters in Economics is a useless degree

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

I regret a relationship or two, which sadly brought me off course, but that therein would be the consequence of my own choices, at least I wised up later, rather that than never, I take it for a good thing, also before getting hooked on child support and alimony, that would be near dream killer for me.

So for what it’s worth, I might have to take this as the best current position, that I’m currently in, although I’m quite certain had I made some different turns, I would have been able to pay off some soul sucking harpy and live through that mistake too, that will be seen in 10 years from now though.

Sometimes you work better with a handicap, that makes you push you even further, than you ever thought yourself being able to.

[Anonymous 11]

My biggest regret was being overly loyal to certain women and sorry ass employers over the years thinking they would actually value that instead of trading them all out for some that would actually value me. BWHAHAHAHAHA…… The joke was on me.

MGHOW 4 LIFE!

@op: When I was in college 30 years ago you could f~~~ ’em and dump ’em with no fear of fake rape claims. Hell, they were total sluts and loved every minute of it. I remember banging one particular red head, and right in the middle of it she gasped “What about my boyfriend?”. It didn’t stop me from hitting it a dozen more times though. Poor boyfriend, she was a total cheating slut.

[KingSalmonsParticipant 3]

My biggest regret might be actually wasting 5 months of my life feeling sorry for myself for being a virgin and never having  a girlfriend. Holy f~~~ing s~~~ I want to strangle myself in the past for that dips~~~tery. Got a girlfriend and laid, turns out she was cheating on her other boyfriend in prison, her only interest in life was buying f~~~ing phone cases online, and the sex wasn’t that all hyped up to be like the dumb c~~~s in the media make it out to be. I put up with that s~~~ for 3 weeks.

I’m sure sex is great, and this was just a sour experience, but holy s~~~ I’m livid at myself for believing at one point that a girl would actually solve my f~~~ing “emotional problems” all those years ago.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

@doinmyownthing40 In hindsight yes, the women you wish you had pursued would have been enjoyable had you not been in a relationship. However, all roads would have reached the same point: women that have emptied not only your testicles, but also your wallet, esteem, time, energy, and will to live. Be thankful your are clean and not severely burned like so many other men have been dealing with women.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Not knowing about Mgtow sooner in life………

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Not knowing about Mgtow sooner in life………

Same here! I wasted a lot of time, money, and emotional energy chasing women. I don’t really regret it, because I learned lessons from it. I would have learned a lot faster if I had seen that video below in my early teens. But there are no take backs in real life. Forward we must go.

/video/mgtow-advice-for-the-younger/

Edit: The “marriage equals prison” lesson, and the “marriage might land you in a real prison, the kind with bars and felons for roommates” lesson are exceptions: Those I figured out before entering my teens. This saved me from a lot of grief.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[HimeoParticipant 471]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I was talking with my buddy about “the old days”. When we were in college and in a fraternity and were party animals. Pussy galore was always available (not that we always got it). But we sure did have some fun times back then.

One thing that stands out though, and this is where the regret comes in, is that we both were such pussies. In his case, he had a girlfriend and even though he had MANY opportunities for way hotter girls that wanted to do him, he always shyed away from it. He says to me now that he clearly wanted to do these women really badly. But he didn’t go for it out of fear that it would ruin his relationship with his girlfriend.

As for me. I wasted too much time on this one girl too. I should have been going for way hotter girls than this one.

And in the end these girls left us anyways. So it was all for naught.

Hindsight is a bitch isn’t it?

Think about it this way:

You made an investment. You spent twenty years doing something you learned didn’t work. Now you have thirty years to try a new approach. Imagine what it will be like at 70 to look back over the thirty years you have between now and then and everything you will accomplish.

Your story isn’t over yet.

I get this way when I write my first drafts. I get 60-70% through and I think, f~~~ this looks awful there’s just no point to finishing it.

But I push through, and it’s always better than I thought it was while I was writing.

[EdogParticipant 254]

I trusted a female once. And when I say trust, I mean the real s~~~ where you open up and all that. Won’t make that ignorant mistake again. Nothing but red pills for breakfast, lunch, and dinner nowadays.

[Anonymous 12]

I used to regret not talking to some women who looked at me with that “Come F~~~ me look” but then I realized that everything I have now and the stability I have in my life is due to not getting too absorbed in sex and women. I could have gotten involved with many women when I was younger, I might have married one, had a kid or two and then a divorce and been sentenced to a life of literally paying for it all.

Regrets about anything are a waste of time, the road you didn’t take might have been the one that got you ruined or killed.

Enjoy what you do have instead of  worrying about what you didn’t have.

 

 

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

DoingMyOwnThing,

I identify with a lot of your posts, besides who does NOT identify with an avatar of The Dooood lol :p

 

Sometimes I wake up in the morning and think of all of my regrets. That’s been happening a lot to me lately, but it has made me depressed. We ALL have regrets. Its easy to play monday morning quarterback, but not much, if ANY good comes out of it.

I hope you dont spend too much time doing this. I know I have and Ive been really hard on myself. Dont beat yourself up man. Easier said than done because I do this as well.

Resident cynic.

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