My beginning…

[BokehParticipant 65]

I’ve gone back and forth on this post, until I realized I was being a blue pill about it. I’m here. I’ve been feeling the MGTOW way for years, have never really bought into the blue pill world, have been single my entire life and don’t see any need to change it now that I hit 50. Woman have been nothing but a source of drama, confusion and pain for me, from toxic typical-NA-c~~~ sisters to an endless string of wasted time, money and effort on “girlfriends”. The only thing that I can count on in life is ME, and they don’t get ME anymore, not a piece, unless it’s on my terms.

I’m lucky that I have passions that drive me – art mostly. I am an artist. It’s my entire identity. I think the one thing that set me apart was dealing with selfish women who discovered they could never compete with art, never get the same passion and attention I give it, and eventually called it “that silly hobby” – which led them to being shown the door. I chose the name Bokeh because its’ a term from photography, where you intentionally change the focus to reveal and hide different parts of an image – it’s an artifice, a fake reality, and it’s how I view “dating” and “relationships” – it all depends on your focus, your intent, and what lenses you’re using. And, you can use that to your own advantage – everyone lies and distorts anyway.

I’ve been there, I’ve done that, and I burned all the t-shirts because it’s all a waste of f~~~ing time. If I can give any insight or help to others, awesome.

I’m not bitter, I’m free. Once you get over chemical addiction called “love” – it’s all just games, or in the case of marriage, a job you can’t quit or get promoted in. The sexual urge is easy for us – porn takes care of that pretty efficiently, and if it’s a really bad itch, we have a multi-billion dollar sex industry to satisfy our every need – and they leave afterwards.

I’ve been going my own way a long time. It’s pretty nice out here in the wilderness. I can’t imagine ever going back.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2726]

Welcome to the brotherhood, Bokeh! Great intro, thanks for sharing. Also congrats on making it to 50 without going through the meat grinder of marriage and divorce.

Here’s to living life on our own terms.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

Good for you brother and welcome home! That silly hobby of yours won’t be silly if one day it makes you rich, then women will line up and tell you how wonderful you are.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Bokeh

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