my bday

[treznik87Participant 570]

Had my bday last Saturday. Turned 29. I dont like bdays and especially not my own. What is the big deal anyway? have never liked it, anticipated it… even as a child and my family always put an effort for me.

Anyway, I have two things to say.

My aunt (over 60) came over to congratulate me on ‘that special day’. What she said was: ‘Congrats. I hope you will marry soon, and get your mother a grandchild so she will go crazy’
She basically congratulated me, but nothing she said was about me. Strange. I found it quite disrespectful so I told her back: ‘Well, that would be stupid of me, you have to have a child for yourself not others’ Crickets was all I was hearing.

Another one… Went out with my friends to a pub so we had a little fun for my bday. Drinks were on me. So there was one of my friends female friend Jenny (20) at the same pub that night. I know her from before. She is pretty hot and still crazy about a guy from my hometown – lets call him ‘Chad’. Hes is a soccer player and hes like Soccer/drinking/friends first, bitches second. You cant believe how attractive that is.

He is not even that good looking and not loaded, but what he does is sweet talk to a girl until he gets her, f~~~s her, and then dumps her. Its a patern. Women around there knows that but still go for him because they want to be the special one who will break that patern.

So anyway, now that you know a story lets return to Jenny. She was the one who did not break a patern. As I said she was at the pub that night and there was also Chad there in his element – talking to some girls. She was looking at him and he wasnt paying any attention to her at all, and she wasnt paying attention to me until drinks were on me.

So when i was ordering for my group of pals, she came to me all smiling and said: ‘What about me?’ I said: ‘What abut you? Oh… drinks?… ‘Chad’s got it for ya’. She stormed of pretty quickly. And i felt zufrieden.

ps.
dont congratulate me for my bday here. Tnx.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Congrats on ur bday.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[treznik87Participant 570]

Jackinov wrote:

Congrats on ur bday.

Tnx. At least you did not tell me to marry 🙂

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

I mean seriously that’s really rude. She comes over JUST to tell you to marry? And not for your own happiness, just so someone has a BABY to fawn over like a new toy?

That’s really bizarre actually.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

treznik87 wrote:

she wasnt paying attention to me until drinks were on me.

So when i was ordering for my group of pals, she came to me all smiling and said: ‘What about me?’ I said: ‘What abut you? Oh… drinks?… ‘Chad’s got it for ya’. She stormed of pretty quickly. And i felt zufrieden.

What a lovely, generic girl hahaha.
Love the situation and how you reacted. The only right way possible.

I also don’t usually care about BD’s, but me and friends use it as a nice excuse to get to meet once again, get drunk and have fun on that particular day. So it’s great. Any occasion to celebrate and have fun is great for us.

So I want to wish you to have fun, great days no matter if its birth day or not, and have a good health in general. Cheers!

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[Anonymous 42]

zufrieden: satisfied. Could be mistaken for sun dried or something…. I’ll add that to my German vocabulary. It’s easier than Liestungslaughter…

[Honorable_Juice_BoxParticipant 591]

I agree, I have always found celebrating birthdays to be a bit strange. It’s not liked I worked hard to be born, it just happened to me. It’s would be like celebrating my skin color or gender.

The most I did is go another year without dying.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

treznik87 wrote:

He is not even that good looking and not loaded, but what he does is sweet talk to a girl until he gets her, f~~~s her, and then dumps her. Its a patern. Women around there knows that but still go for him because they want to be the special one who will break that patern.

Women want what they think other women want. This is a prime example of that. They don’t so much want him as they want to be the one to “win” him (beating out all the other women). And as long as he continues dumping them before any of them can dump him first, he will continue this pattern.

As I said she was at the pub that night and there was also Chad there in his element – talking to some girls. She was looking at him and he wasnt paying any attention to her at all,

Yep. Right there. She perceived other women as wanting him, and so wanted him for herself.

She stormed of pretty quickly. And i felt zufrieden.

Well congratulations for that if for nothing else. Good on yah. And I think under the circumstances you’re allowed to feel a little smug as well.

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

treznik87 wrote:

So when i was ordering for my group of pals, she came to me all smiling and said: ‘What about me?’ I said: ‘What abut you? Oh… drinks?… ‘Chad’s got it for ya’. She stormed of pretty quickly. And i felt zufrieden.

Nicely Done ! That was probably the best present you got for your birthday.

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[RoyDalParticipant]

Congratulations!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

My aunt (over 60) came over to congratulate me on ‘that special day’. What she said was: ‘Congrats. I hope you will marry soon, and get your mother a grandchild so she will go crazy’

I think it was Jerry Seinfeld who said something like:

“Why do people celebrate birthdays at all?
All they did since last year was NOT DIE”.

Congratulations on getting pregnant is another one I don’t understand. You can open & build a business and work your ass off for 9 months, and NO woman will ever throw you a party….. but she expects to be “congratulated” for laying on her back and having sex without a condom.

It’s insane.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 1]

Don’t get me started on birthdays. Ever since my brothers started familys, this s~~~ is costing me dollar.

I’m expected to buy a gift for one year old who has zero concept of what the f~~~ is going on.

[RASmanParticipant 1994]

I think it was Jerry Seinfeld who said something like:

“Why do people celebrate birthdays at all?
All they did since last year was NOT DIE”.

True, but these days, that’s a pretty notable achievement! Survived another year of society’s attempt to annihilate the individual man – that deserves a pint.

[Anonymous 11]

treznik87 wrote:

Oh… drinks?… ‘Chad’s got it for ya’. She stormed of pretty quickly.

Nice burn!

That’s the thing about Chad. He can drive a rusted out 1981 Toyota pickup truck, or he can have a private island with a runway for his own Gulfstream jet all courtesy of family money. It makes absolutely no difference in his ability to Chad. Wow, I just used Chad as a verb.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

RASman wrote:

True, but these days, that’s a pretty notable achievement! Survived another year of society’s attempt to annihilate the individual man – that deserves a pint.

It certainly does.

For a man, when you think about it, another birthday really IS an accomplishment.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Lone Wolf83Participant 825]

When people ask me what I’m grateful for on my birthday, I tell them that I made it through another year of not getting anyone pregnant or coerced into signing a marriage contract. They usually have a wtf look on their faces.

If it has tits or tires, you know you're going to have problems.

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9555]

I don’t find birthdays a big deal, unlike when I was a kid, including my own. When I was a kid, I enjoyed it with friends, but since high school, all I want on my birthday is lunch at Red Lobster enjoying Endless Shrimp with my dad, mom and my only friend. Beyond that, I don’t care, and I don’t care to age another year when so little happened in the previous year. I look at my birthday as the start of another year of pain and suffering ahead. Since I’ve had my birthday earlier this month, I decided to make goals instead of constantly trying the same things that get me nowhere.

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[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

What your aunt did is nothing new for women. They see a single young male, not under the control of a woman, and they can’t stand it. In their minds you’re going to waste, throwing your life away, by not marrying and having kids. They have conditioned men to believe their life has no meaning, no purpose, without a “special woman” in it, and it boggles their mind when a guy can live his life without.

Keep this in mind, your life is simply a piece to a puzzle, the puzzle being the female collective hive. Your life means jack s~~~ to them, not a f~~~ing thing.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

treznik87 wrote:

Had my bday last Saturday.

Happy belated birthday mofo!

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

treznik87 wrote:

Chad’s got it for ya’.

Great line. Well-played.

Don’t be upset about your aunt. It’s just typical female behavior. Women believe all men should serve some female and they are bewildered when they come across MGTOW.

Happy Birthday brother. Do something for you.

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