My approach to working with women – Faking the “nice guy” persona!

[onmywayParticipant 502]

Hi brothers.
MGTOW reporting behind enemy lines!
My long term goal is to become self employed, but currently I work in a government job as the pay is good and the job is really easy to do. Politically I hate government jobs like mine, and find them absolutely useless. However, I voted conservative, but the people of Norway still wanted feminist-socialism-not-all-muslims-are-like-that politics, so f~~~ it – if you can’t beat them, join them! Hence the government job.

Anyway, I work in an environment where 95% of my co-workers are female. I started out being really uncomfortable, because I’m the kind of guy that calls bulls~~~ when I hear it, and when you work with women you hear nothing but bulls~~~. So, needless to say I was insanely frustrated in the beginning to say the least.
However, I started to think how I could beat the system – how to make it work. And after reading up on the forum, I found a gold nugget of advice: fake the “nice guy” persona! I don’t remember who recommended this, but it works like a charm – I’m now the nice guy, the guy who never gets laid and always get friend-zoned. But my co-workers all love me now, and think I’m “really good at my work, and will make a great boyfriend some time”. It’s AWESOME – they’re not at all attracted to me (win! government Land-whales dodged!) and they are now very pleasant to be around since they don’t find me threatening at all and can’t seem to stirr up drama with me. If they try, I go totally blue-pill and apologize: “I’m really sorry. I didn’t consider your feelings in all of this. How terrible of me”. And they eat it up like candy and get me coffee afterwards.

It’s not ideal, but my workdays are now really peaceful compared to before when I spoke truth and called women on bulls~~~ and inefficiency. Now I just fake blue-pill mangina during work-hours (completely emotionally distant from that persona though), enjoy the decline of inefficient government work while grabbing my nice pay-check at the end of the month, and ride my motorcycle back home to my bat-cave and enjoy the rest of my day. My work-day ends 15:00 every day. Yes, that’s right – government job with benefits on steroids. F~~~ morals – they wanted socialism crap, refugees and single mothers on welfare – I’m getting my piece of the cake as well!!

[MarkusPolusParticipant 163]

Its almost entertaining isn’t it? The only annoying thing I could see is them constantly asking “why havn’t you found a girlfriend?” or “when are you getting married?” to which I would respond “aww schuks, someday I will find that special someone” and say it with extra cheese.

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

Yes, unfortunately you cant speak the truth in front of women and blue pill guys.

They will just pound you into submission.

[narwhalParticipant]

I am not a fan of pretending to be that guy. Then again, I don’t work in your environment. Plenty of females, for sure, but I live in a conservative part of the world.

I tend to either say nothing, often with a blank stare and raised eyebrow, at what crap they just tried to pass off as the truth. If I do respond, it is only after I carefully considered my words. They will frequently start backtracking on whatever ridiculous thing they just said. In some cases, I will just hang on to whatever they said and bring back up again after the contradict themselves.

Ok. Then do it.

[HitmanParticipant]

Survival. .you do what works and what you think you can live with doing. …I just try to be civil. .it’s just being a decent human being among the beasts. .

[Anonymous 0]

When you work “behind the lines” and do not appear to be a threat you pick up all kinds of useful Intel like which whale to point to when the workforce is being downsized.

Aside to OP: I ride a Kawasaki Vulcan 900 Classic. You? I am planning to ride US Route 66 in July of 2017 from East to West and then up the Pacific Coast Highway to Vancouver and then back home. Any rides planned?

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

A word of caution: Be careful that your fake persona doesn’t bleed over into your real one.

Living/working like that can take a toll on your soul.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Yes I agree. If you act too much if might become the role you play

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

I always fake it, are they ever fooled. Little as they know, I’m mgtow, smartass, asshole, jerk and badboy rolled into one. They haven’t received the memo.

I usually say in response, I haven’t found the Right girl. To there, why are you still single? Then they stop bothering me.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

My approach to working with women is this.

Don’t work with women.

Makes my life a lot easier.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Anonymous 0]

onmyway wrote:

I’m the kind of guy that calls bulls~~~ when I hear it, and when you work with women you hear nothing but bulls~~~.

Haha…same her bro. It is always funny pretending the nice guy as long as you realize what you are doing.
Sometimes I come home from work just laughing, can’t even hold back my laughs on my way home, thinking if they ever knew what’s really going on. Not giving them a tiny idea who I really am.

[onmywayParticipant 502]

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

A word of caution: Be careful that your fake persona doesn’t bleed over into your real one.

Living/working like that can take a toll on your soul.

Yes, this is something I’ve thought about. Like I said, it’s not ideal and I would definitely prefer to not work with women at all, hence the goal of self employment.
But as for now, this seems to be the best strategy. Sometimes it requires some self-discipline not to call out women at work, but most of the time I just smile, pity them and keep on doing whatever I was doing.

[onmywayParticipant 502]

Anonymous wrote:

When you work “behind the lines” and do not appear to be a threat you pick up all kinds of useful Intel like which whale to point to when the workforce is being downsized.

Aside to OP: I ride a Kawasaki Vulcan 900 Classic. You? I am planning to ride US Route 66 in July of 2017 from East to West and then up the Pacific Coast Highway to Vancouver and then back home. Any rides planned?

True that!
I’m very new to motorcycling, and currently don’t own my own – I’m borrowing a buddy’s Kawasaki Ninja atm (90’s model, but still working fine) and it scares the s~~~ out of me. In a good way.
It’s so light and fast it’s sick.
Route 66 is a dream of mine – however, I don’t know if I could handle the heat.
I’m planning on doing my first long-distance ride this summer all the way from south to north of Norway. I will have to get my own bike before that time though – do you have any recommendations for good and reliable bikes that will handle long-distance rides?

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