My Analysis of “MFTOW”

[UintatheriumParticipant 1861]

Hi guys. I have more stuff that I need to talk about because s~~~ has been eating up my mind lately. Today I want to talk about the whole “MFTOW” (men forced their own way) thing.

Lately, many of the opponents of the MGTOW have started insulting us by calling us “Men Forced Their Own Way”. The implication is that we became MGTOW because nobody wanted us.

Most guys here will probably say “That description is entirely inaccurate!” I’m going to take a chance and say “That description is mostly inaccurate.”

In our world there are plenty of men who can’t find a girl no matter what they do. I’ve been around the manosphere and I’ve spoken to plenty of guys like that. Many of them eventually give up and go here. Is that wrong? Well … no. That’s the real reason why the “Men Forced Their Own Way” garbage is bulls~~~. It’s bulls~~~ because it’s sadistic.

Yeah … some men go MGTOW because they can’t get laid. They’re still human. They might fall into depression unless they find brotherhood. If we don’t offer support to men like that then who will?

I also hate it when the MGTOW are considered “autistic”. When feminists say “MGTOWs are autistic!”, they are proving that feminism is cruel. Feminism isn’t based on “love” if they are hateful to people on the autistic spectrum. If we don’t offer support to men with high-functioning autism then who will? The rest of the world doesn’t care. The “autistic community” doesn’t even care because sites like Wrong Planet are run by feminazis.

If this site gives comfort and support to men on the autistic spectrum then what does that mean? Does that mean we are pathetic? No. It makes us a compassionate, humanitarian organization.

The people who call us “autistic virgins” are just proving that we are compassionate and the world is a cruel place.

I’m glad that the manosphere exists because feminists only care about women. They don’t care about weaker men. If we don’t care for them then who will? I’m glad that the MRAs are talking about women who abuse men. Here’s The Thing: Society will never listen. An MRA becomes a MGTOW when he realizes that his broz are the only people who will ever care.

TL;DR: Most us us are not virgins but we do give adult virgins a sense of brotherhood. That makes us compassionate, not pathetic.

MGTOW: because you can (and should) say anything about a woman as long as she isn't within earshot

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

Call us MNBL …. Men Not Being Lemmings.

Truth is I don’t don’t give a crap what they call me or us. They are purely irrelevant anymore. As Uintatherium states, we are here to support our own, and what brings us here is our own various life experiences.

Share your stories, share the advice, share the support, share the general philosophy and its benefits to each man, and from that each of us makes our individual lives better in our own way.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6419]

Lately, many of the opponents of the MGTOW have started insulting us by calling us “Men Forced Their Own Way”.

One of my own close family relatives has been married and divorced three times. One divorce was especially messy with lawyers from several states involved in the split-up. She’s also set up housekeeping and lived fairly long term with at least three other guys through the years ..probably more.
The point is, I’ve witnessed firsthand this crazy behavior from my own close female relative so I really don’t care what any women think of my lifestyle. I chose this path and it’s working fine for me.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Nobody is forcing me to do anything. I can keep trying to make things work on the plantation but things are such that this is the obviously best way to move forward. Shaming doesn’t work on me so they can say whatever they want.

First the ignore you,
then they laugh at you,
then they fight you,
then you win.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8288]

Great post, Uintatherium.

I’ve never shamed a guy for being a virgin or not being able to get a girlfriend. In my own personal experience with dating, there was either a natural progression to sex (w/o much thought or PUA techniques involved) or a woman who would resist my efforts to be physical. I can’t really give good advice to a guy who wants to get laid because what works for me might not work for him. He has to experiment with being sociable and learn his own methods.

Being MGTOW is a CHOICE! Any one of us could swallow the blue pill and pretend that we’re going to settle down with the woman of our dreams. Some of us have tried it, and it didn’t work out. To each his own. No one is going to shame me into marriage and serving the needs of nitwits who think our society should fit a certain model. Besides, those that feel the need to shame men have nothing of value to offer them in the first place—so they need to shut the f~~~ up and mind their own business!

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Uintatherium wrote:

many of the opponents of the MGTOW have started insulting us by calling us “Men Forced Their Own Way”. The implication is that we became MGTOW because nobody wanted us.

Oh really? I would play right into that and rub their noses in it.

YES!!! I was FORCED to “go my own way”. …. which is still better than being “forced” to make 216 monthly payments to some f~~~ing t~~~t. Still better than being “forced” to go to prison for a false allegation. Still better than being “forced” to pay alimony or child support for a kid that’s not even mine.

So what’s their point exactly?

• Women have tried to “force” me to stay in a relationship and I moved away for work instead.
• Women have tried to “force” me to listen to them.
• Women have tried to “force” me to propose by Christmas or else.

On the other hand…..

• I was never “forced” to take my first job overseas. I actually did that against a woman’s wishes.
• I was never “forced” to live in several cities or choose to travel the world for living.
• I was never “forced” into doing anything against my will and better judgment.

And even though I didn’t really WANT to, I was FORCED to determine that relationships and marriages are a raw deal and total waste of a man’s life. Not by choice? If they say so. It’s just the way things really are.

So what was that about being forced to go my own way, again?
Because I won’t deny it. I will lap that s~~~ up!!

It’s not a MAN’s problem when he realizes women are not worth his time.

“Rejection because nobody will have you” is not exclusive to MGTOW. Even young outwardly-“attractive” women can’t even get a date – or laid – and make goddam music videos about it. What is exclusive to MGTOW is a population of men who do the rejecting now. Yeah, it’s as foreign to some people as it is IMPOSSIBLE for women to imagine. But where do they think those dateless whining broads come from? MGTOW. That’s where. For every man going his own way, is another Taryn Southern sitting on her kitchen floor eating ice cream next to the garbage can with her cat….. and crying in her bed because nobody is calling on Friday night while eating cookie crumbs off her t~~~.

May the force be with you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Uintatherium wrote:

“Men Forced Their Own Way”. The implication is that we became MGTOW because nobody wanted us.

Laugh at them. Nobody gets to say that anymore. Those days are over. Who do you hear and see everywhere whining and complaining “where are all the men?”, nobody will date me, men don’t ask me out!, I am a middle aged princess who hit the wall.

Women who are forced to be single against their own will because men would rather go their own way. Nobody screams about this s~~~ like women do. You don’t hear men screaming “where are all the real women and single mothers to marry?!”. lolol!

[Anonymous 25]

If mgtow were forced to go their own way, why would people and women in particular be trying to shame them in coming back?

The facts speak for themselves.

[WallyParticipant]

Why do they care? When I was a kid there was a gentleman who I thought was a complete jerk and hated him for the way he treated me in bible class(he was the teacher). He was a smart man, engineer and had a wife and three kids. I saw him 30 years later and at first my hatred returned, but I recognized he was a high functioning autistic. He was divorced, had spent time in jail, had no contact with his kids, had fathered another kid at 65 and could not hold down a job. Would he have been better off being forced to go his own way? I think so!

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 3]

If a guy can’t get laid, then he can’t get laid. It’s neither shameful nor something to boast about, it’s nothing, it’s just what it is.

What really ticks me off is this underlying notion when guys shame virgins and whatnot for their lack of sexual conquest, as if women are some boss in a video game that you have to beat, or some trophy or championship, like an accomplishment or some sort.

It has always been the other way around, men are the prize. So if you think about it, when you’re the prize and nobody wants you, in other words, you’re not getting laid, it ain’t bad at all.

Somebody like Stephen Hawkings comes to mind, he’s pretty much by definition, a TFLer. No woman would ever want to f~~~ him and he probably can’t get it up in the first place. The man has to be a virgin. But, who cares, it’s beyond pathetic to reduce a man of such caliber, who by all means is a f~~~ing scientist legend, to what he does with his penis. Same applies to every other man.

I for one do not care who is a virgin here or not, who does what with his penis. It all means nothing.

What does mean something to me is, when I see men, virgins and non virgins, transcend through this primitive, stupid, blue pill mentality of measuring a man’s worth by his list of sexual partners.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

I don’t understand why women always shout “haha you can’t get laid! You’re pathetic!”, but when a woman can’t get laid, they all stand up for her, herd mentality, and feel very sorry for her, then try to get her laid by shaming guys into trying it with her at least once.

Women, no matter how fat or ugly, will ALWAYS get laid, so shouldn’t the tables be turned? Shouldn’t men be shaming those women who CAN’T get laid? A man has to do a gazillion things to get laid. Women just have to… exist.

I’m not doing the above, shaming women, but it was just a train of thought. Hell, the only interactions with women I have is with the girls at the local supermarket when I pay for my groceries, and with my mom, and that’s it.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Nerevar wrote:

I don’t understand why women always shout “haha you can’t get laid! You’re pathetic!”

Simple. They think it’s “the best” insult they can come up with…. because a f~~~ the best thing they have to offer.

• They don’t say: “Ha ha you can’t get LOVE.”
• They don’t say: “Ha ha you can’t get a woman’s TIME.”
• They don’t say: “Ha ha you can’t get STIMULATING CONVERSATION.”
• They don’t say: “Ha ha you can’t get MARRIED”.

They say… “you can’t get laid”, because in their hearts they believe their f~~~holes are the most valuable thing they have to offer.

If women thought her time, attention, love and personal vow had any value, they would shame you that way, but the women who lord no sex over your head as the BIGGEST LOSS they can think of…. don’t believe they are good for anything else.

They reveal themselves entirely.

Nerevar wrote:

I’m not doing the above, shaming women

Of course not, because men don’t behave like our penises are made out of Ming Dynasty porcelain. A man would say: “HA ha you’re pathetic. You can’t get a man’s, time, attention, resources and commitment!”

…. because those are valuable things HE has to offer.

Everyone who behaves like “not getting laid” is some great tragedy actually believes “not getting laid” (or being pursued for it) is some great tragedy. Not for you. For THEM.

Any man can order sex like pizza — tonight.
Can any woman who wants get married get a commitment – tonight?

Look at how women make such big deal about motherhood being the hardest job on the planet. But the easiest jobs to get are the easiest jobs to do, and becoming a Mom is easier than ordering a pizza. Nobody ever ordered a pizza by accident.

When you break it all down and really look at it, it’s all transparent bulls~~~.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Veritech AceParticipant 699]

Nobody can insult you when you don’t give a f~~~.

[Anonymous 42]

Uintatherium wrote:

The implication is that we became MGTOW because nobody wanted us.

Uintatherium it’s not that we weren’t wanted, we were, but on a tyrannical footing only merited by what we had to offer. We’re only wanted for rendering and extraction, the way a slaughterhouse wants a steady supply of livestock.

I’ve made full circle and arrived to the conclusion that it’s better to not give 1 solo f~~~ what they want!
I broke from the herd long before the slaughter house they call pussy and getting laid could process me into manburger.

Allot of those critics of MGTOW are ankle deep in slaughterhouse blood, and they’re pointing at us laughing as the blood dripping conveyor belt they’re standing on slowly ratchets toward the slaughterhouse.

Once you smell or taste the slaughterhouse blood you’re forever spooked and always run from the plantation ranchers…

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