Much Respect To The Guys That Have To Share Custody

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    Sky-O
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    Sharing custody and/or only being able to see your kids every other weekend.

    Because I couldn’t do it. No kids over here thanks to the vasectomy I got back when I was a blue piller, smashing & thrashing holes.

    But hypothetically, if I was on the verge of losing custody of my dog due to a slut:

    I wouldn’t let him go. The stand off outside Sky HQ would make Waco (Texas) and Ruby Ridge (Idaho) look like a misunderstanding at a playground.

    I would go tactical. LOL And there wouldn’t be a parenting plan or a schedule on when I get to see him.

    I would have the windows boarded up. Strategic points of defense with a final fall back position inside. And they would finally get through only to find my dog with a shot to the Head and me laying next to him in what would be a final Samurai last stand as tear gas filled the place.

    But they would have never taken him back to the c~~~ or got me alive.

    And I would have expected a full siege by the FBI, ATF, etc. Even special forces outside.

    Because some things are worth fighting for.

    Mad props and a shout out to all of the guys that have had their God given rights to be father’s taken away. You are stronger than me in that sense.

    And to those of you with son’s that you think are being brainwashed by mommy:

    My dad left when I was a year old and I never knew him.

    But at about the age of 12, I sat quietly one day when my mother was in the midst of a massive BPD, bipolar meltdown. And I knew. I knew at that point why he left. And I harbored no bad feelings towards him: A man I never even knew.

    DEO VINDICE

    #576713
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    Hitman
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    I started with the standard every other weekend. .
    Made myself available and it turned into every weekend and a couple times during the week.
    But initially I was denied seeing my kid for almost 3 months until the court ordered the standard every other weekend.
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    If I acted on how I felt at that time I would be dead.
    Sometimes you have to hold on and see what happens.

    #576757
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    Northern Soul
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    I spent 40k going through court battles and was homeless for 2 years in order to get weekend access every other weekend.

    Coming home from work and not seeing my little boy is really difficult. I keep myself occupied and over time the pain eases but it never goes away. You just learn to live with it and accept that it’s a woman’s world. Society has no sympathy for me or men like me. It sucks and that’s why MGTOW is the only way.

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    Yes, it has been difficult at times, but at 15 my daughter now usually decides when she wants to come over. It has been like this for a few years. At the beginning, when she was three, it was the standard joint custody of every other weekends and Thursdays.

    As hitman states, making yourself available can change everything, if you are patient.

    At first, everything is very raw and emotions can overpower all the logic. Restraint and patience will win the day.

    My daughter is here almost every weekend now. We have dinner a couple of nights a week, and are constantly in touch by phone.

    The key is to be available and make every time you are with your child count.

    Your ex has a date with someone from Match… be available.

    The ex just needs a break… be available.

    Anytime you have a chance… be available.

    Trust me, your child is much more aware of the situation than we give credit. They will remember, and determine future interactions with you by what you do now.

    It can be a life ending feeling having constraints on the ability to be with your child, but 18 years watching your child grow up will go fast. You shoot it out in a blaze of glory and that is it… forever!

    I never researched outside of the great state of Texas, but at age 12 the child’s decision is held in very high regard by the courts as to where the child wishes to live. My ex homeschools my daughter so I never pushed the issue, for I get to see my daughter on a regular basis anyway.

    Any lurkers out there need to understand; there is so much to consider, but always remember to have restraint in what you say and do. Depending on your actions or inactions, things can go south quickly. Be smart and play the long game.

    #577154
    Eric Lauder
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    Shared custody (theoretical)
    Practically it’s every other weekend + every time I want to see them for few hours.
    I have my son at my home about 3-4 days per week in wife’s weeks, and 5-6 days per week in my weeks.
    I have the daughter less, but still it’s 1-2 days per week in wife’s weeks, and 3-4 days per week in my weeks.

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