Moving on to better oppertunities

[Pharma9Participant 108]

I would like to start by saying this may be the first time I have actually had the opportunity to breath in the past 6 years so bear with me in my raw excitement. But I will now tell of my tale.

I joined the Marine Corps right out of high school (2010) and went off to Boot Camp that next February in 2011. I left with a broken heart and high expectations for where the Marine Corps would take me. Well it did not take me a long time to figure out that I was good at my job (I did travel and mainly budget work for the Corps). So I was blessed with the choice of duty station after my school was completed around August 2011. I chose Washington D.C due to the fact of I was in aw of the sites I saw as a senior on a high school trip. Fast forward to May of 2012 and I am getting Married to this women (met her in October 2011) who I believed was my soul mate. Well years have passed and I would say as oblivious as it is to everyone on this site that I rushed very quickly into a relationship let alone a marriage to this women.

So after my service was up I was given an opportunity to work for high level Marine Corps Travel/Budget office in the special shape building in D.C. Life was good, money was good, trips every year, the good life. Now all this time, my wife has been going to school to get her “degree” in something ( to this day I do not know what she is getting a degree in) so obviously I have been paying all the main bills. She got a new car in 2015 (Brand new) while I have been driving my ole faithful 2000 Acura TL since I could drive. I paid for our new sleep number bed, two different mac books, and all these things that I myself would never need. This was around 2015 time.

So around December 2016 comes about I hear of a new boss coming in to our office. Heard all kinds of great things about the guy and so on and so forth from his past buddies. This is where I should have been worried but wasn’t, I was almost done with my probationary period and everything and he steps up to the plate and fires me after being there for a week due to “poor work ethics”. I must say, I was caught off guard and almost went off the hinges on this tiny man. I am right now awaiting word about my claims for negligent termination from the board but we will see how that pans out.

So now I imagine why you think I am here writing this long piece on this site. Well its to tell you that my wife told me in late March (I was “terminated” in February) that we should separate because it will help me get “My life together”. An obvious trope from women when the teet is not producing the $100’s she’s use to suckling from me day in and day out.

So now at this time, I write this little drop in the bucket to show face and to acknowledge that even though I constantly lurked on this site for almost a year and didn’t believe it could/would happen to me. I was not too sure MGTOW was for me, but now the quaint little kick the loin area has shown me so. I will be putting all my belongings in storage here in Northern Virginia tomorrow, signing my separation agreement in front of my lawyer and her lawyer as well tomorrow and leaving to pack up and head back down south to lick my wounds and prepare to take the world by storm once again. I may have been beaten down by this one but this will not happen again to me. Not ever…

Thanks to all who have made it through this long into, if you have any questions please let me know, and thank you for accepting me into this realm. I believe this is my time to rise from the crap I was so sure I was stuck in and become a better man than anyone would have expected from me.

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome to the forums Pharma9

I read your whole intro.. just one question if you don’t mind, why did you pick for handle ‘Pharma9’ ?

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[LurchParticipant 3882]

Pharma9 wrote:

I was almost done with my probationary period and everything and he steps up to the plate and fires me after being there for a week due to “poor work ethics”.

This could be one of two things…

1. This translated REALLY means, “You didn’t suck up to my huge, fragile, overcompensating for my lack of height ego”.

2. He wanted to look good to his bosses, by cutting expenses… which usually means cutting people… which usually starts with the newbies.

Either way… I HATE SHORT MEN AS THE BOSS. They are ALWAYS suffering from “Little Man” syndrome.

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Welcome, make yourself at home.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome bro . Hope you enjoy

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 25]

welcome

enjoy the forums. enjoy the freedom

[Dirtydog73Participant 232]

Welcome brother …be the best you can be in whatever you choose to do.Have a good time not being pressured into doing what society expects from you …only what you expect from yourself

Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.

[Pharma9Participant 108]

MACHO wrote:

Welcome to the forums Pharma9

I read your whole intro.. just one question if you don’t mind, why did you pick for handle ‘Pharma9’ ?

Thanks for reading it, The reason Pharma9 was chosen by myself is because I a background in travel and finance as I stated, however I enjoy learning about Pharmacuticals and doing research on the topic as a whole. The number 9 was my number when I played sports in high school and the Corps.

[Pharma9Participant 108]

Lurch wrote:

Pharma9 wrote:

I was almost done with my probationary period and everything and he steps up to the plate and fires me after being there for a week due to “poor work ethics”.

This could be one of two things…

1. This translated REALLY means, “You didn’t suck up to my huge, fragile, overcompensating for my lack of height ego”.

2. He wanted to look good to his bosses, by cutting expenses… which usually means cutting people… which usually starts with the newbies.

Either way… I HATE SHORT MEN AS THE BOSS. They are ALWAYS suffering from “Little Man” syndrome.

Lurch,

I have been thinking both of those thoughts since it happened and I cannot stop thinking about how I was such a small fish and a HUGE pond. Relative to the status quo of the office I worked in, I actually produced products that people enjoyed, however I believe I was the low hanging fruit that was easily let go of. You think they would keep the young, motivated dominate male in the office. Was I sadly mistaken.

[MACHOParticipant]

Pharma9 wrote:

I enjoy learning about Pharmacuticals and doing research on the topic as a whole.

Thanks for the answer, you meant Pharmaceuticals right?

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Pharma9Participant 108]

MACHO wrote:

Pharma9 wrote:

I enjoy learning about Pharmacuticals and doing research on the topic as a whole.

Thanks for the answer, you meant Pharmaceuticals right?

I apologize, I am on using some Pharmaceuticals and did not see my error. Im laying on our bed right now cleaning out my stuff out of our room and its not the easiest thing to do honestly. But I cannot stay here and be beaten down any longer.

[MACHOParticipant]

Pharma9 wrote:

I apologize, I am on using some Pharmaceuticals and did not see my error. Im laying on our bed right now cleaning out my stuff out of our room and its not the easiest thing to do honestly. But I cannot stay here and be beaten down any longer

Thanks you’ve answered everything I was curious about. I got to catch some ? now. We will meet again on another thread.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings P9,

Appreciate your Introduction.

Cheers for signing up as a member and reading the treasure trove here.

It helps to have ideas and other’s experience to put what is happening to us in perspective.

I retired from the Trades and have been persuading a lifelong dream of being a Scientist who makes real contributions to our knowledge. Many of the things I put under a microscope have interesting chemical properties and some have Pharmaceutical applications.

However, my dream has turned out to be a nightmare. I am learning again that “the nail that sticks out, is the one that gets hit.”

The Academic and Research Institutions that I am involved with are dominated by a bunch of liars and cowardly scum. I am not equipped to deal with their level of lies, corruption, and villainy.

I am reminded of how good I had it in the Trades working with other men.
However, it was getting bad towards the end, even after I had moved up the top of the food chain. There were very few Veterans amongst the new Tradesmen and Blue Pill men on the Plantation have become more trifling. These new Tradesmen are tearing down all of the good things/ traditions that the Veterans have made.

The best time for me in the Trades was when I was working alongside more Veterans. Every Marine I was fortunate to work with was a great men. These Veterans created wonderful work environments in the worst s~~~ holes.

Here is a suggestion for something to look into: Power Plants and Facilities Management are still places where good men are needed. Veterans with your skills with numbers end up in management. There are lazy women in those offices, however, which is why I stayed with the men out in the buildings and power plant.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Great! A testimony!

Someone give this man a beer, please!

Welcome to the forums.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, P9
Beer’s in the fridge

There ya go, Akanbi
Ask and receive.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome P9!

Pharma9 wrote:

I constantly lurked on this site for almost a year and didn’t believe it could/would happen to me. I was not too sure MGTOW was for me, but now the quaint little kick the loin area has shown me so.

Think of MGTOW as a titanium cup for your junk. You can even fit your wallet in it!

Welcome to the forums man.

@lurch

Lurch wrote:

Either way… I HATE SHORT MEN AS THE BOSS. They are ALWAYS suffering from “Little Man” syndrome.

I’m 5’9″, I don’t have the syndrome. I always told the girls The extra inches went elsewhere. 😉

[Pharma9Participant 108]

Gentlemen,

I just popped the last cap of my last beer in this house. The room is deconstructed, the storage unit is purchased for the next 6 months until I back on my feet. I appreciate all the comments and I look forward to downing this red pill with beer and good times on the horizon.

*I do not have any children and I am currently 25. I believe this is the perfect age to start again from the data and information I have read.*

[Pharma9Participant 108]

Sounds like a wonderful new beggining for you without the c~~~ wife, you didn’t mention if you had kids, if you don’t then be happy your free. Yeah that sucks you got f~~~ed over on your job man, I’m sure you’ll get something better or maybe even win the negligent termination case.

Yeah man your not alone, welcome, and I love the avatar by the way, it’s funny as hell.

Its my mindset, I feel as if we all have our own Patrick Bateman in all of us and of course we all have our own Paul Allen’s in our lives…. Such a pain in the a.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Welcome Sir! Thanks for the great read.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome Pharma9,
It is good to read about one of us making through the hard lesson(s) without getting totally f~~~ed over by family court or put in jail for fake domestic violence. You learned young enough to make a terrific restart and you’re not encumbered with huge debt and monthly payments. Awesome!

If you haven’t already, I’d like to suggest that you look into minimalism. It goes well with MGTOW.

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