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BuckFitches 2 years, 5 months ago.
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I don’t feel like typing my whole story of becoming MGTOW because it’s so long, but I definitely feel like ranting this morning so here’s one reason…
I became MGTOW because of my mom. My mom and I spent way too much time together growing up. I think she was babying me all those years because she subconsciously knew it would make me depend on her longer. We we’re really close until I went to college and started thinking for myself. I began to question my mom and saw her as weak. What really cut the ambilical cord is when her and my dad started fighting to the point where they got divorced.
This all happened while I was in college 45 minutes from home. My parents got me really involved with the divorce because my brother and sister were living far away and they both needed someone to be on their side. So they’d visit me constantly at college and I’d hear everything that’s going on. My mom came to college without being invited, my dad came to my college because I would ask him to come tell his side of the story.
My mom lost a bunch of weight on purpose. She also started getting nose jobs, forehead lifts, and other creepy enhancements to stay young looking. This made my dad really depressed and embarrassed because she didn’t look like herself anymore. She was NEVER fat and had an amazing figure, but then “she lost her butt and boobs in an attempt to look perfect.” (quote from my dad) But what really made my dad angry is that her faced looked different so now everyone could tell the second they looked at her that she was ‘fixing herself.’
She also began nagging my dad 24/7. He kept changing everything about himself to make her happy, but nothing worked. He’s a legit Christian (takes it really seriously) so divorce was not an option for him. He bought her stuff, went to awkward therapy sessions, quit drinking alcohol, and he did anything else she asked. Nothing made her happy.
My mom’s complaints about my dad were always outlandish and whiny. They sounded childish and downright stupid. This is what lead me to really question my mom for the first time in my life. I had always seen her as the perfect woman that I want to find my own version of, but she started feeding me the red pill.
Now for the juicy part that I’ve been building up to. All that stuff I just mentioned happened over four years (my last 2 years of high school and first 2 years of college) so then…
The night before moving back into college for my third year, I was having dinner with my mom and dad. They bickered at each other all day and were only having dinner together to support me. My dad was drunk, the poor guy was dealing with alot: his small business had just expanded quite quickly and it might have grown too fast. Work was really stressful and my mom bitched at him all day. So my mom started screaming at my dad for drinking again right there at dinner. Then he gets so mad he picks up his plate full of food and smashes it on the ground. They go to their room to fight and I ate dinner alone. When I was done eating I went back to my room to finish packing and listened to them yell at each other. I could tell this was a bad fight.
Then my dad bursts into my room crying because my mom was making all these threats about divorcing him. His parents were divorced and it devastated him. It’s the last thing he ever wanted. My mom, while screaming, comes marching down the hall towards my room so my dad quickly closes the door and says, “Go away I’m trying to talk to our son”
She wouldn’t go away and kept screaming, “LET ME IN YOU BETTER NOT TOUCH MY SON. (MY NAME) GET OUT HERE RIGHT NOW WE ARE LEAVING”
She kept trying to get in the door but it wouldn’t work. Meanwhile my dad is in tears and telling me he’s sorry that he screwed up our family. Finally my mom bursts in the room and starts hitting my dad like crazy while screaming at him. She was smacking him pretty hard and he was sitting there taking it like a man. And asking her to stop. She wouldn’t stop so he shoves her back and she fell on the ground and bruised her elbow. My mom and I left the house and stayed with friends. I went with my mom because my dad asked me to leave so he could be alone.
My mom went around the whole neighborhood telling everyone my dad is a drunk who beats me and her and has no soul. She got all her friends to think that my dad was evil. She divorced my dad and tried to steal his whole company. She went to my dad’s General Manager and asked him to work for her when she ‘takes over.’ He said no because he’s loyal to my dad. Watching her true colors show was disgusting. I’ve never looked at my mom or women the same.
My mom is also a serious christian who preached “Never get divorced no matter what” to me my whole life. Guess what gents, women can change on a dime.
But that’s not where my journey to MGTOW ends because I still thought NAWALT. It took a few more years to learn the truth. However this was when I really began questioning every female around me. In class I would literally look at girls and think in my head, “I wonder what that chick is like when she goes full bizzurk mode.”
The rest of that story goes like this: My dad kept his company, but still owes my mom millions. My mom moved to a big fancy condo that overlooks the city skyline and my dad moved to a tiny apartment to save money and pay off my mom. My dad got remarried and is doing way better, but my mom is lonely and unhappy. My dad’s new wife seems pretty cool, but I think in a few years her true colors might show too.
Also as for me, I got super depressed when all this happened but I’m doing way better nowadays. Being apart of MGTOW helps a lot. I started watching youtube videos about it and reading on reddit’s mgtow page then I finally decided to join. It feels really good to rant like I have been the past few days. There’s a good chance I randomly stop ranting for a while and be sort of quiet on this site, but I’ll be back. I’m MGTOW for life.
"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches
NEVER go back to your old self. Be a man and STAY the course. Glad to have you here.
Your father’s pain is a sad way to gain knowledge, but you are a better man for it. The suffering men put up with to have someone live off them and provide minimal is very extreme, because it isn’t logical, and men are logical by nature. I respect your dad, because he shows to be a good man, and I hope this current woman finds contentment in her situation. Men do not deserve what women do to them.
NEVER go back to your old self. Be a man and STAY the course. Glad to have you here.
Thanks man. I’m really happy to be here. Reading everyone’s stories is giving me such a better -more realistic- view of life. And I will never go back to my old self. I couldn’t even if I wanted to because I’ll never forget the things I’ve seen.
"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches
I hope this current woman finds contentment in her situation.
You know Uly, this new woman was perfect for a long time. It’s about to be their first year aniversary and now she’s just slowly starting to nag my dad a tiny bit more each day. Even I was convinced shes perfect and I’ve really enjoyed having my dad’s new wife in my life. But lately in the last month, she is showing some bad signs. I really hope it doesn’t get worse, but like I said AWALT. So…. lesson is don’t get married. Or remarried.
"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches
Wow. That f~~~ing hamster wheel in her brain went flying right off the stand and went rolling away.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
I’m really happy to be here. Reading everyone’s stories is giving me such a better -more realistic- view of life. And I will never go back to my old self. I couldn’t even if I wanted to because I’ll never forget the things I’ve seen.
You make me feel like there is still hope that more and more men will continue to DE-C~~~ their lives.
The desire for C~~~ must be extinguished if anything is going to change.
I hope this current woman finds contentment in her situation.
You know Uly, this new woman was perfect for a long time. It’s about to be their first year aniversary and now she’s just slowly starting to nag my dad a tiny bit more each day. Even I was convinced shes perfect and I’ve really enjoyed having my dad’s new wife in my life. But lately in the last month, she is showing some bad signs. I really hope it doesn’t get worse, but like I said AWALT. So…. lesson is don’t get married. Or remarried.
Studies show the woman regrets marriage within 12 to 18 months after walking down the isle. This is when she stops getting attention from her friends, gets a sense of entitlement that the man should do more, and needs her spotlight fill, as she did on her wedding day. Even if she didn’t, it would not mean she is different from any woman, but it would mean she knew that she could not get a better deal, so she was willing to forgo her nature to monkey branch.
I hope this current woman finds contentment in her situation.
You know Uly, this new woman was perfect for a long time. It’s about to be their first year aniversary and now she’s just slowly starting to nag my dad a tiny bit more each day. Even I was convinced shes perfect and I’ve really enjoyed having my dad’s new wife in my life. But lately in the last month, she is showing some bad signs. I really hope it doesn’t get worse, but like I said AWALT. So…. lesson is don’t get married. Or remarried.
The moral of Lord of the Rings is that power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. When a woman puts on the Ring, she has power over the husband through the court system and the government. EVEN if she starts out with good intentions, knowing that power is there is a corrupting force.
Just remember when Frodo offers Gandalf the Ring of Power, Gandalf had the wisdom to refuse.
“Don’t tempt me Frodo! … Understand Frodo, I would use this Ring from a desire to do good. But through me, it would wield a power too great and terrible to imagine”
For women, the wedding ring is the One Ring. The longer they wear they the Ring, the more corrupted by its influence they become. NEVER put the Ring on a woman.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
For women, the wedding ring is the One Ring. The longer they wear they the Ring, the more corrupted by its influence they become. NEVER put the Ring on a woman.
That ONE ring eventually will lead to the ONE phone call which will END your life. She will dial 911 and they will haul your ass away.
Studies show the woman regrets marriage within 12 to 18 months after walking down the isle. This is when she stops getting attention from her friends, gets a sense of entitlement that the man should do more, and needs her spotlight fill, as she did on her wedding day. Even if she didn’t, it would not mean she is different from any woman, but it would mean she knew that she could not get a better deal, so she was willing to forgo her nature to monkey branch.
You need to STOP making so much god damn sense man. Too much wisdom for one day.
For women, the wedding ring is the One Ring. The longer they wear they the Ring, the more corrupted by its influence they become. NEVER put the Ring on a woman.
That ONE ring eventually will lead to the ONE phone call which will END your life. She will dial 911 and they will haul your ass away.
To extend the metaphor, judges are like the Nazgul, the Ring-Wraiths that do the bidding of the Ring. Hell, the judges even wear black robes like the Nazgul. Cops are just the stupid f~~~ing orc grunts.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
Wow I’m going to have to rewatch LOTR now and pay attention to the MGTOW meaning of it.
"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches
Welcome to MGTOW. Wow you and your Dad have really been through a lot Brother. The whole time I was reading I was feeling your pain too. It’s so hard on the children when parents argue and eventually divorce no matter how old the children are. I know from experience myself. I hate that happened to you but still glad you found us for support. We help each other here my friend.
Thanks Randall
"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches
Welcome aboard, BF. Steaks on the grill later. Help yourself.
Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.Hello BF,
Appreciate your Introduction and the outstanding replies it has generated.
Your Red Pills and lessons learned are too familiar.
You are giving me flash backs.
Thirty five years ago, I was a junior in college when the same thing happened to me. There were six kids and I am the oldest.
I am ashamed of how my mother manipulated me during that time.
Thankfully, I was living with roommates near the campus during the divorce.
My youngest brother was the most f~~~ed up, because he had to live with her. Even today, he has a lot of issues.
Alas, he is an adult child in his forties who has done jail time.My middle brother has been MGTOW his whole life, and he is the most successful.
One sister became a Heroin addict and master manipulator.
The other sister is still bat s~~~ crazy.
The brother next to me is married with two daughters. He is in Blue Pill Hell. His paycheck is spent before it gets deposited in the bank.
Sadly, it took me thirty years to stop chasing “Unicorns,” get a handle on “Woman’s Nature,” and come to believe that AWALT.
Here is how you know that you arrived at AWALT on the MGTOW Road:
Are you at a place in your head where a group of women talking sound like a bunch of hen’s clucking or are they “fascinating” to you?
I look forward to reading your posts and comments in the Forums.
Without giving away specifics where others can identify you, kindly provide some niceties about what you are doing with YOUR freedom.
Major in college?
Hobbies?
What kind of fun things do YOU do?
Any future projects/ goals?
What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?
Welcome Home brother. One important think I have learned in my short adult life is to embrace our hardships. I know what you went through was hard but it helped build you to the man your are and you will continue to grow with experience. Just like building a muscle, it is broken down and will be sore, but with time , it recovers stronger than before. Keep your head up!
Without giving away specifics where others can identify you, kindly provide some niceties about what you are doing with YOUR freedom.
Major in college?
Hobbies?
What kind of fun things do YOU do?
Any future projects/ goals?
Thanks for the response. I graduated with a marketing degree as a 5th year senior this past may 2017. I immediately got my real estate license after school got out and began doing commercial real estate.
My passion in life is hiking. I want to make enough money so that I can travel on hiking trips for months at a time.
One of my new goals is to make some real life MGTOW friends. All my friends are blue-pilled and none of them agree with me that AWALT.
My dream is to build a transportation system that’s more efficient than cars so that future humans can avoid traffic their entire life. I WILL ACCOMPLISH THIS IF IT’S THE LAST THING I DO BECAUSE I HATE TRAFFIC almost as much as I hate marriage
I’m not religious, but I’m very spiritual. I like marijuana, beer, cigars, golf, and disc golf.
I’m super happy to be MGTOW
"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches
Outstanding Intro BuckFitches, Very moving story … women get drunk too but mostly on the power from the wedding ring.. Ranger One put it magnificently here in this quote ⬇
Just remember when Frodo offers Gandalf the Ring of Power, Gandalf had the wisdom to refuse.
“Don’t tempt me Frodo! … Understand Frodo, I would use this Ring from a desire to do good. But through me, it would wield a power too great and terrible to imagine”
For women, the wedding ring is the One Ring. The longer they wear the Ring, the more corrupted by its influence they become. NEVER put the Ring on a womanYou must own a better Crystal ball than I- AuthorPosts
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