Morning run thought

[Mini-MeParticipant 5]

Before I started seriously reading MGTOW postings and articles, I got into my current relationship. My past two marriages were ugly, so I am weary of women in general. My current girl is a “nice” girl and I do enjoy being around her more times than not. We are not married with no plans to be and no kids, except a dog. Purple pill purgatory in more ways than one.

I was running this morning and I started pondering. It is a fact that women want two things out of a relationship-affection and security. To round it off, men want two things as well-sex and freedom. I have come to a realization and wanted to throw it out there. With the “exceptions to the rule” clause, I feel there are three types of women, and in order to be in a relationship with any of them, either or both needs of men must be sacrificed. In most cases, I think a man gives affection and security regardless of the woman he is with to the best of his ability. Some more than others with the exception of the rule being the complete asshole. Women won’t even compromise on one of their needs. By George, she will get what she needs or she will be out of the relationship. Men get one of their needs and a bunch of excuses why they can’t have the other. That, to me, is extremely frustrating.

One of the three types is the crazy woman. You never know day to day which of the two male needs being sacrificed. Most of the time it is both. I speak from experience. The second type of woman is the one who likes to have sex. They are sexually active enough to please their man and will be adventurous enough to keep him around. But, he usually ends up sacrificing freedom for the enjoyable sex. He is not “allowed” to have or see friends without approval, enjoy hobbies, jumps when the woman says jump, and is basically at her beck and call. Then there is the third type of woman-the girls who will give freedom-the nice girls. The ones that are supportive and will mostly “let” a man do what he wants to do. But, as I am finding out, the sex life sucks. I am basically putting up with it. It is not fun in the bedroom, but most other things are. It sure is a nice change, and mostly welcome one, but on the other hand, I am sexually frustrated. It is mostly a friends with an occasional benefit with it relationship.

Hence, my pact. This is my last relationship. The un-met needs are getting old, whether freedom OR sex. And really, it is not that hard to meet a man’s needs-have a little dirty sex (frequency AND quality) and let him do his thing.

[Jerstv1Participant 0]

I am also currently in the third type of relations~~~ and does get’s frustrating, This will also be my last relations~~~, I think I will now only date casually from now on.

[Zoby TwoParticipant 83]

Some of my friends have the same wife than you my friend. Cool girls, but their sexual life is really boring.

They are married men, for more than 15 years. They paid escort girls or they have a sex-frriend (or they date a girl for one night)  … it is ok if you can deal with it even it is immoral of course.

 

 

[Jerstv1Participant 0]

Yeah I have a neighbor, an older Korean man who has basically lived like this for his whole life. He’s been paying for prostitutes and casually dating for his whole life. He doesn’t even seem remotely regretful for the life he’s lived and he’s 67. He’s always trying to invite me to the casino and stuff….cool guy.

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